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MargotRobespierre
Posted: Friday, September 02, 2011 2:56:50 AM

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There is no physical contact between yourselves. And yet you are involved in one of the most private and indulgent acts. Cheat or no cheat answers on postcards please!
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Posted: Friday, September 02, 2011 3:03:32 AM

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i never cheat when i am in love but what is question
MargotRobespierre
Posted: Friday, September 02, 2011 3:08:39 AM

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If you was with another person - without physical contact, Just sexual release no emotion? Would that be cheating, interested in peoples views and thoughts as to where the boundaries sometimes lay. Would an emotional kiss be worse?
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Posted: Friday, September 02, 2011 3:25:11 AM

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I'm sure I've seen this question posted elsewhere (well a similar one at least)

I have to say that yes, I do think it's cheating. While you aren't physically with the person, mentally and emotionally you are, at least to some degree.

In this virtual world, we can become very closely attached to and intimate with relative strangers. The mutual masturbation thing, well, one is imagining actually being with them, they are imagining being with you. It's intimate, emotional. Mentally, you are with that person, if just for a short while.

I don't think I'd be too pleased if I found my partner typing out his deepest darkest fantasies to a stranger while rubbing one out. Well, I would be surprised to say the least.

I do think that there are degrees of it though - a random online hook-up, a one off, doesn't have the same gravity as a regular one, where the two really do get to know each other very well. In my opinion, that's when emotions can become involved and that's when, IMHO it becomes more like cheating...
Dudealicious
Posted: Tuesday, September 06, 2011 8:14:05 PM

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Erm, what is the game in all of this? dontknow

The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 18, 2011 5:59:16 PM

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We have to masturbate one another while we're playing the forum games?


erm... I'll pass! I'll just hug you all!
sluttykitty85
Posted: Friday, September 30, 2011 7:45:25 PM

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I'm with Mazza, when it becomes something that you do regularly with the same person, then you've formed a relationship, regardless of it being online. And the definition of cheating is really something that you need to work out with your partner as no one on here is going to be able to tell you what your partner can.


Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important.
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 30, 2011 8:00:33 PM

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huh?dontknow
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Posted: Sunday, October 02, 2011 11:26:25 AM

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It depends on the situation. We play with others from time to time but, we always play together, if it was during one of our play sessions that is fine. If I found out he did behind my back then it is cheating and he is gone.
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Posted: Sunday, October 02, 2011 11:27:06 AM

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It depends on the situation. We play with others from time to time but, we always play together, if it was during one of our play sessions that is fine. If I found out he did behind my back then it is cheating and he is gone.
curiousKen
Posted: Tuesday, March 27, 2012 11:08:41 AM

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Lets be honest, we all Masturbate when alone and horny, just read the stories.If having someone watch as you Masturbate make it more erotic, then why not, and how can it be cheating if you keep it on cam.

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Posted: Wednesday, August 01, 2012 8:36:23 AM

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Doesn't matter what I think, you think, or anyone else here thinks. The person you are worried about cheating on, do they consider it cheating? That's the only person that matters. If they think it's cheating, then it's cheating.
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Posted: Thursday, August 02, 2012 8:23:10 AM

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I once heard Dr Phil say that if you are doing something that you wouldn't want your other half to see your doing, then it's cheating. Jus sayin
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Posted: Friday, August 03, 2012 1:33:55 AM

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Dr Phil is my Hero!
SirBunny
Posted: Saturday, August 18, 2012 3:51:27 PM

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I must say that the thought of it turns me on just a bit. I think it has it's place and could be beneficial to a committed relationship.




Kinky_Becky
Posted: Monday, September 24, 2012 3:25:00 AM

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So if you walked in on your spouse and found them in bed with someone else, both naked, and they said they were just masturbating, would you be upset?

That's what I thought.

Budlee
Posted: Monday, September 24, 2012 7:30:31 AM

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any sex act done without your spouse's or lover's approval is cheating even if you're not touching each other.
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Posted: Saturday, November 10, 2012 4:57:45 PM

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Nah!!! Not if you don't cum at the same time! Whistle
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