Sometimes when I have sex I like to talk sexy or dirty, I like to tell her how she feels on me or what I'd like to do with her.
My question is this- do girls like to talk sexy and be rude when having sex, do you like to tell a man what you like and how you want it done or just simply would you talk dirty to spur a man on.
I'd like to know if it's just a man thing.
thanks.
I dont like doing it much cos i never know what to say but i LOVE when a guy says it to me, that really tips me over the edge!
I like being called dirty but i HATE being called slut or whore, i dont like the whole humilition thing
Have to be in the right mood, but if I have been drinking, dirty talk is a guarantee haah
lirri-loo, 23.
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going crazy, making friends.
I'm a fan of dirty talk... but not when it comes to humiliation.
my previous partners havant really said much....maybe i kept them entertained
i feel awkward sometimes, when the mood takes me and i get carried away by the moment i blurt things out, i say how nice things feel or how i'm enjoying whats happening, but sometimes i feel i could get to strong if i said what i was really thinking.
how many women would be hurt or offended if a man were to say " i want fuck you like i own you and i dont care if you like it"
This really depends on your partner.
I'm a verrrry dirty talker, but I've always censored myself to varying degrees based on how the guy responded when I first started talking dirty. To me, it's not fun if I'm doing all the talking and he's basically silent. There's only one person that's heard the totally uncensored version of the Dirty Doll, but only because I know he loves it and can match me just as enthusiastically. When you have the right interplay, you can really push things farther than you'd expect and there really are no limits.
I should also say that dirty talk only sounds natural when you're not "thinking" it. If you're having sex and trying to think of something dirty to say, or you want to say something but are afraid of judgement, then you're not in the right headspace to really roll with it.
I just think it comes down to really knowing your partner and what their kinks are, so I'd suggest talking about sexual fantasies and likes and dislikes. A good way to start might be for a couple to each pick their top three favourite porn scenes (or sex stories) and exchange them. Maybe you might be surprised that your girl likes rough sex with humiliation. Or a girl might not realize her man wants to be dominated in bed. This might help give you more confidence with talking dirty if you know what their 'sexual style' is and what will turn your partner on. As Vance mentions, he's worried that comment will offend a woman. To me, it would be a huge turn on, but another girl might feel like it's too degrading. You just have to know what your partner likes and what their limits are (if they have any).
Talking sexy, dirty talk and being rude are very different things. Personally, my mood is detrimental to the level at which speech is taken along with other factors; time, space, partner. I definately let my likes and needs be known. Part of what I do involves a great mind fuck and that can't accomplish that without a certain amount of sexually oriented speach.
I Love Dirty Talk, it ALWAYS gets me going!
I completely agree that dirty talk is best when it is spontaneous and natural - in the heat of the moment, I can't help saying "things" - things that I want to do and things that I want to have done to me and what I like.... I believe that good sex - great sex is physical, emotional AND mental - and talking dirty just gets things hotter!
My Bunny loves to talk dirty to me when she's tying me up, or taking me from behind but i wouldn't say that dirty talk is a staple in our love making sessions.
It's a matter of opinion, but I like it as long as it's not too rough
I love it, so does he. Really gets my juices flowing ... and his too.
Yes,,,I think it hightens our playfulness,,,
For sure! After yes of phone sex with a long distance relationship, I am a master at dirty talking and basically setting up a story or scene. I also like to talk dirty to myself with I am alone, just masterbating...it really adds to the experience. Sex can fulfill the sense of touch, sense of emotion, sense of taste, sense of smell, sense of sight, and with a little dirty talking can fulfill our sense of hearing...an all around experience!
absolutely, my wife tells me about her deep desires for strange cock and wanting to taste pussy. She tells me her darkest desires including incest and wanting to be a tranny so she could fuck women with her cock.
I love to fucking talk dirty while I'm being hammered with a big cock. I like to have him fuck my little cunt until he splatters my face with his cum. But just not all the time.
Oh man, i never had a girl that doesnt love too.. even if at first they shy too..
its all good
Squirt is in the eye of the beholder
I love it. Unfortunately the only guy that has gotten really into it with me was a bad lay *sigh* I personally don't mind being called bitch or slut depending on the mood I'm in it could really work me up. But it should be the girl that decides so if she doesn't respond don't push it. Chances are if she liked it she'll be whimpering asking why you stopped.
If your knees feel weak, then my work here is done
I am probably more of a dirty mover and toucher than I am a dirty talker, at least until I really began to reach the sexual mountaintop. Of course it all depends on my mood and the man. But when I get close I often begin telling him to give it to me harder, it feels good, fuck me harder, that kind of thing to urge him on.
Interestingly I have found that if he is getting too close too soon I can hold him off by growling and cursing at him that he better not come yet, "you fucking better not come". Surprising how it not only works but turns him into more of an animal when it is time.
I do'nt talk much during sex.
I love talking dirty. I love how much more I can turn him on by talking like that.
