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Posted: Friday, January 14, 2011 8:56:42 PM

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i enjoyin cuddling my girl.espically after having a mind blowin sex session
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Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 1:17:38 AM

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I love cuddling, and I think most guys do too. There is something about holding someone special that gives comfort and stability to me. Hugs
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Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 3:23:42 AM

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maliboy88 wrote:

I love to cuddle. And it doesn't always have to be about getting close and horny. There are a lot of nights where i just want to rent a movie, eat some popcorn, light a candle and get close with someone special.
The tricky part is to know when I'm aloud to go any farther. lol

maliboy


The green light is when she places her hand on the inside of your thigh, or starts caressing your top button of your shirt LOL
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Posted: Sunday, January 16, 2011 10:35:39 AM

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HoneyBee000 wrote:
maliboy88 wrote:

I love to cuddle. And it doesn't always have to be about getting close and horny. There are a lot of nights where i just want to rent a movie, eat some popcorn, light a candle and get close with someone special.
The tricky part is to know when I'm aloud to go any farther. lol

maliboy


The green light is when she places her hand on the inside of your thigh, or starts caressing your top button of your shirt LOL


Lol you are very right on that one! That's what my experience has been, and I would add if she starts moving her hand on you chest and gets lower
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Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 7:58:16 PM

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I think cuddling is great.
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Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 8:55:08 PM

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I love to cuddle. Before sex, after sex, during sex, no sex at all. I love spooning, head-on-shoulder, head-in-lap, holding ... I'm somewhat of a hopeless romantic, as well as an insatiable hornball (quite a combo, I know), so I love cuddling almost as much as I love sex. Just something about holding my girl feels ... right.
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Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 9:25:11 PM

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I enjoy cuddling. But when I start to get hot it's time for a break, I'm hot blooded...
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Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 11:39:47 PM

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cuddling...specially with one you love feels amazing...radiating feelings for each other... sharing your heart-beats... promise for the togetherness ahead..:)
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Posted: Monday, January 17, 2011 11:48:26 PM

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Id say he is attracted to you, at least physically. Also, consider where you were leaning. Turning on a guy is about as easy as touching that area.

Take it as a compliment. It means he finds you sexy.

Though yes, he probably will be embarrassed about it. Sexual attitudes these days are quite repressed. We are taught shame about our sexual behavior.

Tell him you liked it, that is, if you did, indeed, like it. Otherwise, i dunno. Pretend it didnt happen?
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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 7:04:06 AM

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cuddling is great gives a really warm contented feeling
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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 8:25:09 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.







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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 8:28:58 AM

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I heard a quote that good sex at night starts at breakfast time. That to me indicates that cuddling/hugging etc is all part of the overall loving picture.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 9:31:06 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Magical_felix wrote:
I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.







If only communication between the sexes was this clear... We'd never fight! This concept should be taught to girls early on so they won't be so shocked by men when they're older... Maybe like a psychology of cuddling merit badge or something would do the trick.



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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:41:43 AM

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I agree with Felix as well but be careful what you wish for...




The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 3:17:16 PM

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Love cuddling! Could lay there for hours just doing nothing but cuddling. Makes me feel like im protecting her and that she's no one elses but mine :)
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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 7:02:12 PM

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Dudealicious wrote:
I agree with Felix as well but be careful what you wish for...




This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.



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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 7:26:20 PM

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Magical_felix wrote:
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This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.


Isn't this a kind of sexual fetish or something? I think it's called squashing.
Looks like a bone crusher to me though... (as well as a boner crusher, actually)

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Magical_felix wrote:
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This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.


Isn't this a kind of sexual fetish or something? I think it's called squashing.
Looks like a bone crusher to me though... (as well as a boner crusher, actually)


It is called squashing! laughing8

From urban dictionary:

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1. A sexual act that involves a large person jumping or falling onto the partner, therefore crushing that person with their immensity.

Some huge kinky girl was squashing me with her big giant self.. it was amazing.



And doll please... I don't think there was ever a boner involved in this enormous equation.



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Posted: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 8:19:39 PM

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Magical_felix wrote:
Dancing_Doll wrote:
Magical_felix wrote:
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This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.


Isn't this a kind of sexual fetish or something? I think it's called squashing.
Looks like a bone crusher to me though... (as well as a boner crusher, actually)


It is called squashing! laughing8

From urban dictionary:

Quote:
1. A sexual act that involves a large person jumping or falling onto the partner, therefore crushing that person with their immensity.

Some huge kinky girl was squashing me with her big giant self.. it was amazing.



And doll please... I don't think there was ever a boner involved in this enormous equation.


Yeah I think I saw it on one of those late night sex show documentaries. It was interesting because some women made it a business (like being a dominatrix) where male clients would pay them to be squashed, but there would be no sex involved. I found this interesting. Stay home (and fat) and charge men to sit and jump on them. I guess there is a fetish to please everyone... icon_biggrin

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Posted: Thursday, January 20, 2011 9:27:27 PM

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Love it. Great after sex bonding.
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Posted: Sunday, January 23, 2011 1:09:15 AM

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Yes, cuddling is the best. Before or after sex, or even just watching a movie, its a connection
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Posted: Monday, January 31, 2011 4:15:02 AM

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Yea, cuddles are awesome...but I don't over do it. My cuddles are special, you have to work for 'em. :)
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Posted: Tuesday, February 01, 2011 2:36:56 AM

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i like it. nice. comfortable... i love being able to play with her hair too... or just have my hand resting on her ass...

my problem is that i'm a friggin' human furnace and living in Texas... the extra heat isn't so welcome in our weather!



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Posted: Tuesday, February 01, 2011 10:46:25 PM

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Nothing like having a lady snuggle up to you, put her head on your shoulders, and just stay there. Yes.

Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.

BigDaddyRich
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Posted: Wednesday, February 02, 2011 3:50:34 AM

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I am a real 'hugger', most people kiss others when greeting but I prefer a good hug. Much more pure and personal.

What I like best is walking up to my girlfriend when her belly is bare and just wrapping my right arm around her belly whilst caressing her hair shoulders or back with my left one.

I like to be cuddled by my girl when we're laying in bed. She lays her head on my chest, her top arm around me and our bodies just flow together. Hope you get the picture, pure magic!
Pro-tip: just lay still, cuddle and listen to each others breathing.
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Posted: Sunday, March 20, 2011 6:07:09 PM

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In experiments, baby apes that were not cuddled much, grew up to be like that all their lives. There can be none cuddling families. It seems in apes, and in humans, bahind this slight coldness, there can be emotional and psychological problems. After sex and money, the cuddle factor is one of the biggest reasons why couples split up.
It is advisable to get relationship councilling if there is some incompatability. In about fifty per cent of cases, anxieties about cuddling can be cured.
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Posted: Wednesday, March 23, 2011 12:54:48 AM

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I love to cuddle, sometimes it just feels nice to be laying next to your loved one, but that's just me :)
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Posted: Wednesday, March 23, 2011 9:19:23 PM

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I love to cuddle, clothed unclothed, just to watch a movie and be together, before after and any time i can. I am single now and missing the cuddling
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Posted: Thursday, March 24, 2011 9:30:05 AM

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Short Answer
Heaven is having her in my arms.

Longer Answer
Whether it's aftercare, foreplay, sleeping, watching tv, or "just cause", the closeness and intimacy (along with shades of protection and possession at times) of cuddling in any state of dress/undress can be amazing. I never understood why anyone wouldn't like it. Then again, I've met couples who don't like to use tongue when they kiss so I guess there are all kinds out there.

Now that I think about it, I could use some of that about now... Wandering off in search of my girl.
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Posted: Thursday, March 24, 2011 12:06:28 PM

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I love to cuddle! My wife and I leg lock and kiss, rub noses and kiss. Then, we hold hands while sleeping because we naturally lay in opposite directions. Holding hands is a way to stay connected.

But cuddling, stroking, squeezing, leg-locking, kissing, sucking and licking...all the things that lead up to sex, to me are sexier than sex. The sex is the exclamation point at the end of the paragraph.

Then we begin another paragraph all over again with cuddling, stroking, kissing....
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