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Guest
Posted: Saturday, May 21, 2011 10:22:35 PM

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I'm still a virgin but even when making out or giving oral, I LOVE being controlled. I love when he shows me that he wants me and that he has the confidence to know that I want him too. I'm naturallly submissive, so I love to be man handled and told how to please my guy.

But at the same time, there are occasions where I like to take control a little bit and show him what all I'm capable of =)
Beckey
Posted: Sunday, May 22, 2011 4:29:20 AM

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I like being controled. I love to hear "Get on your knees slut."

(Of course other than we are hot at it having sex, I don't like being called a slut.)
Jass69
Posted: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:00:12 PM

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I like my woman to be in control initially... She likes to come on top before i take control and take her from behind
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, May 25, 2011 7:46:46 PM

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I am in a position where I am in control at work and with kids...soooo...It is absolutely amazing to be controlled in the bedroom. It is an incredible feeling....a mind blowing release of tension. Finally no decisions to make, just to be taken and dominated.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, May 28, 2011 10:11:30 PM

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When i'm doing him, i feel more in control, when he's doing me, i feel less so...
i do like being the one more in control either way
CharlotteRusse1
Posted: Saturday, May 28, 2011 10:24:14 PM

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I'm with texas. There's too much responsibility in my life, too many decisions I have to make all the time. It is delicious release to let go of that and be controlled during sex.

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Guest
Posted: Monday, May 30, 2011 6:00:40 PM

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it really depends on the mood i'm in. sometimes the thought of a guy telling me what to do really turns me on, but then at other times, i love to be the bossy one.
littlemisslovely
Posted: Monday, May 30, 2011 10:57:33 PM

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definatly my favorite thing to do. love being controlled!
Guest
Posted: Friday, June 10, 2011 9:19:24 PM

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i prefer to be controlled
sarah_xoxo
Posted: Friday, June 10, 2011 11:52:04 PM

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Definitely Controlled!
Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 18, 2011 1:46:01 AM

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I absolutely love being controlled!
innocentSlut
Posted: Sunday, June 19, 2011 3:31:26 AM

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Definitely controlled... if he turns me on enough i would do anything/ anywhere...:P
LadySharon
Posted: Sunday, June 19, 2011 7:16:14 AM

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I like being in control, and being controlled as well. It turns on the both of us and heightens our intimacy.

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Guest
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2011 4:32:56 AM

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Definitely controlled...
sexysush
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2011 9:16:52 AM

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I would love to be in control of my man...submissive... forever...That is what man is for...Just to control a woman and do whatever she wants ;)... As per her wish...
Guest
Posted: Monday, June 27, 2011 10:57:26 AM

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having controll taken from is my fav Water Sports
Guest
Posted: Monday, June 27, 2011 2:24:07 PM

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Love to be controled, if fact I like it rough and to be used. But that means someone I know and trust. If I walk out of our encounter with a mark anywhere that will be the last time you will see me.

If it is someone new or just a pickup you know where the control will be held.

I do know some guys/gals who like to be controlled and I can play that ga
me also
xXshunikaXx
Posted: Thursday, June 30, 2011 8:47:04 PM

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Controlled! I want him to do what he wants to me, I'll take it all!
CharlotteRusse1
Posted: Thursday, June 30, 2011 9:15:39 PM

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It is so nice *not* to have to be in control for once! Please tell me what to do (in bed).

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fuckedsilly
Posted: Thursday, June 30, 2011 9:17:47 PM

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Depends on my mood, but there is nothing hotter then giving up total contol

Have the courage to make the change, the strength to see it through, and keep the faith that it will turn out for the best!
MindSparks
Posted: Friday, July 08, 2011 7:36:41 PM

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90% of the time I want him to be utterly dominant. The other 10%... watch out! I'm THE BOSS! ;)
Guest
Posted: Friday, July 08, 2011 11:20:48 PM

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I like a good mixture but I'd say I lean towards being submissive.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, July 09, 2011 2:17:53 AM

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I love to be controlled ................. i could never control
beinggood
Posted: Saturday, July 09, 2011 2:23:41 AM

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definitely have to be controlled......oh yes

doing my best to be good..
Guest
Posted: Saturday, July 09, 2011 3:17:25 AM

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I am a switch. I am submissive, yet dominate too. I lean more towards being submissive with men, or in my case (man) and very dominate with woman. However, I do LOVE to be dominate towards my guy (When he allows it) and I'd be willing to submit to a woman, (if I ever found one i'm comfortable with) Its about finding the right person(s) and the right mood(s). It can change between people, settings, location, and occasion . You just have to go with the flow.
Red_Dragon
Posted: Saturday, July 09, 2011 2:22:17 PM

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I definetley have to be in control at all times I am a control freak

Guest
Posted: Saturday, July 09, 2011 4:19:51 PM

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Red_Dragon wrote:
I definetley have to be in control at all times I am a control freak

Like there was ever a doubt? But it's one of the things we love about you.
dan17
Posted: Sunday, July 10, 2011 9:36:09 AM

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love the feeling when my girl is dominant when having sex and i am like a slave doing what she want to happen

mrgay
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 09, 2011 1:37:28 PM

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i love being controlled and used
heartoftheweb
Posted: Sunday, August 21, 2011 7:47:42 PM

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I'm controlling outside the bedroom, once inside I become incapable of the kind of authority I normally exude. I'm okay with it though.

spank me hard please
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