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I'm not really into the formal 'over the knee' spanking fetish, but I'd be game for it if it turned my partner on or if was part of an occasional role-play. It's not something I'd crave regularly though.
I definitely do love a few hard slaps to the ass if I'm being fucked from behind and/or during anal but I kind of see that as different from the 'true spanking fetish' that a lot of people have.
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I'm not really into the formal 'over the knee' spanking fetish, but I'd be game for it if it turned my partner on or if was part of an occasional role-play. It's not something I'd crave regularly though.
I definitely do love a few hard slaps to the ass if I'm being fucked from behind and/or during anal but I kind of see that as different from the 'true spanking fetish' that a lot of people have.
I feel the same way. Slaps on my ass during sex is great but as far as a true spanking until my ass is very red and hurting, well no thanks! I might try it if my partner was really into it, but it is not really my thing.
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I'm not really into the formal 'over the knee' spanking fetish, but I'd be game for it if it turned my partner on or if was part of an occasional role-play. It's not something I'd crave regularly though.
I definitely do love a few hard slaps to the ass if I'm being fucked from behind and/or during anal but I kind of see that as different from the 'true spanking fetish' that a lot of people have.
I feel the same way. Slaps on my ass during sex is great but as far as a true spanking until my ass is very red and hurting, well no thanks! I might try it if my partner was really into it, but it is not really my thing.
*slips up behind you and slaps you on the ass* umm... can we get on with the other part now? *grins*
ok, here we go... i've been spanked a few times, not exactly bent over the knee, but definately bent over, and it's sort of a form of foreplay - it's not a true fetish for me, but i do enjoy it - then again, i am into a little bit of pain, so that's part of it - fore the record, my gf owns a riding crop and a very thick wooden ruler. it's not something we do ALL the time, more of a RP thing for when i am 'misbehaving'.
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doll is right about there being a "true" spanking fetish. Some find it a very rutualistic practice of including things like counting and staying still and must wear certain things and punishment/discipline. I know it works for many, but, that's not what it is about with my boyfriend and I.
For us it is EXTREMELY sexual play with the over his lap position being the most intimate. There are of course clinical explanations of why spanking in such position would be arousing. The slaps causing a rush of blood to the area and and because of the proximity to the genitals, resulting in swelling of tissues and all.. the friction of squirming stimulating the labia and clit. Sure this is true. But, I think it goes way beyond that to why it is so erotic for me.
I crave a dominant, controlling, confident man. I feel this greatly when I am over his lap feeling his muscular thighs beneath me, his strong hand holding me in place. There is a slight pain to the spanking.. but it is a stingy heat that goes thru my body like electricity causing much more noises and feelings of pleasure that overshadow any pain. In this position, this kind of play, his masculinity is overpowering and I LOVE it.
This pictures what I am trying to describe with being in that position.
This is the eroticism I mean... without the ritualisms of punishment/discipline. Unless, of course, it is some part of a role play which is a lot of fun to do occasionally. I love being a bad, dirty girl and that easily fits into a scenario of the naughty schoolgirl, maid, secretary, etc. But, even then it's all in fun.
I have cum from spanking alone many many times and while those orgasms are great, they are nothing compared to those during the sex after spanking (which can include more spanking). Those are positively nuclear.
