It would be better if we knew what the fetish was, but I'd say give it some time and then tell her, people can be alot more understanding than you think.
If it something illegal though, well thats a whole different kettle of fish
Hmm, well you've offered some food for thought there, thank you.
I would rather not divulge what this fetish is in open space - it's a sensitive subject for me.
If you're a man of many fetishes, start off with introducing her to the more "normal" ones.
I had a bf that it took 1½ year and a break in our relationship before he told me he was into water sports.
He found that more of a taboo than his somewhat weird obsession of other (not mentionable) desires.
I would sooner have "allowed" his water sports than the other things, but he thought it was a bigger deal.
Now a days he usually keep it to himself for a month or two before he tells a girl, unless talk about their sexual taboo desires come up.
If it's something you feel you cannot live without, do tell the partner at the start of the relationship so that it's not something that will ruin a good relation later on.
If not, wait until it will come out naturally. (
The way I got to know my former guy liked to be peed on was when I was going to pee in the forest and he asked if I could pee on his hand.)
No matter what you do, good luck.
Hmmm, I would try to divulge most every secret (not all at once, as that's a bit of a beta technique) to the woman I was wanting to get to know better. And I'd hesitate to 'fall in love' which implies an accidental kind of thing.
Grow love by sharing, listening, experiencing, discovering boundaries, etc...If you divulge your wildest fantasies and find yourself rebuked...move along to the next fish in the aquarium.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
From my own Personal experiances I have always tried to be open & honest with lovers & partners.
Getting to know each other well before commitment is a much better way to a long & lasting relationship, But dont just blab out a long list mention something along similar lines to see how the land lies. Answer questions fully if asked something about your serious Taboo subject not skirt around it that way you will soon learn what will work or not work between you!
If the person is seriously against your Taboo subject then tell yourself this persons not right for you & dont dwell on the past move on & look to the future!
From my own Personal experiances I have always tried to be open & honest with lovers & partners.
Getting to know each other well before commitment is a much better way to a long & lasting relationship, But dont just blab out a long list mention something along similar lines to see how the land lies. Answer questions fully if asked something about your serious Taboo subject not skirt around it that way you will soon learn what will work or not work between you!
If the person is seriously against your Taboo subject then tell yourself this persons not right for you & dont dwell on the past move on & look to the future!
nothing wrong to admit what your fetish was to be open to your partner and maybe she will like it.
Be honest and don't try to hide something "serious" from a potential friend and lover.
I'm not telling you to blab out everything about yourself on a "first date", but gradually as your relationship and closeness grows.
Gramps
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
I have found that after a few months and you are comfortable with each other in a mainstream sexual way...then introduce the fetish, but also ask if they have any of their own fetishes that could be introduced too. This way it is a more give and take thing.
I have found that after a few months and you are comfortable with each other in a mainstream sexual way...then introduce the fetish, but also ask if they have any of their own fetishes that could be introduced too. This way it is a more give and take thing.
if it's perfectly legal, tell her fairly soon. Holding something like that back can hurt a relationship later on. If it's something fairly harmless, go for it right away! I had a guy once tell me he was really into caressing a girl's legs while she was wearing pantyhose. He told me this on the first date, and on the second date, I decided to let him roam!
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