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Guest
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 3:22:11 PM

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If you have ever fallen in love with someone you cant have? if so, how did you get through it, what happened?
LadyX
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 3:34:20 PM

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Guest
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 4:23:31 PM

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yes. it sucked.
Chibi
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 4:30:05 PM

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Oh, yes. I have definitely done that. As for what happened, I'd rather not share. Not talking


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lifeafterdeath
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 4:39:59 PM

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Yeah, I have. Fell out of it though, person wasnt what I thought they were.

I'm halfway gone.
rudyP34
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 5:00:33 PM

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Chibi wrote:
Oh, yes. I have definitely done that. As for what happened, I'd rather not share. Not talking



Oh, sweetie. Sorry, I so would have dated you if I didn't have someone else! :p
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Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 5:18:01 PM

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Yeah, I never told her fully how I felt. Maybe if I had been more confident, it could have gone somewhere. I certainly got the impression she had some feelings for me, too.

She started seeing another guy and I became more of a confidant for her. I got stuck in the 'friend zone'. She's now in a very happy, loving relationship (not with that guy) and I'm obviously ecstatic for both of them. Sometimes I still wish it had been me. Part of me still loves her.

I like to think I learned something from it, though.

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stephanie
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 5:19:01 PM

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The key word here being "Love"......

Only twice.....

In College I fell heavily for the girlfriend of a really good friend of mine... He was studying Medicine and was frequently very busy... They married and she moved to where we lived and I ended up keeping her company while he was busy... We used to go to Art Galleries and Foreign movies and stuff... I adored her, and I know that she liked something about me.....

On one rather drunken afternoon, (why am I telling you this) we undressed and sat on the edge of the bed in my apartment...... She took off a plaid miniskirt as I remember.... And I remember... I wanted her, I seriously wanted her and I did, (I still do) love her.....

And I couldn't...... And in truth she couldn't.... It simply wasn't right..... So we hugged and we cried a bit and we didn't... And eventually we re-dressed like people in a bad play..... Awkward and innocent.....

(My GOD!!!!! Was that 20 years ago????!!!!????)

We see each other occasionally to this day..... I smoke, she doesn't...... Every time I go for a smoke at parties she follows and we talk..... She's happy and I love her still..... I'll be honest with you guys, usually I have a different girl when we share these soirees.... Usually, given my job, a younger girl....

She, (my mate's wife) always "tsk, tsks" at me like I'll never learn..... And tells me she's happy.... And I believe her..... And I love her still.....

(She's almost 50 now..... Still as beautiful as ever......)

The Second One.......

Do you know what....... ?

Let me just think about the first one for a while..... (Sigh!)

xx SF





"Stirring Up The Smooth Sands Of Monotony Since 1967." xx SF
Chibi
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 5:33:18 PM

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rudyP34 wrote:
Chibi wrote:
Oh, yes. I have definitely done that. As for what happened, I'd rather not share. Not talking



Oh, sweetie. Sorry, I so would have dated you if I didn't have someone else! :p


Don't think so highly of yourself, rubber ducky. ;)


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Guest
Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 7:23:04 PM

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I don't believe I've ever fallen in Love with someone I couldn't have. I've been in love with someone who found someone new. I've been in various levels of infatution, flirtation, and lust with people I couldn't have but never love. The people I love are peopleIi open my self up to. People who do the same in return. I may not have much of a future with them but isn't that the case in most relationships? The closest I ever came to being in love with someone I couldn't have was my friend Jamie. She died before I spilled my guts to her.
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Posted: Monday, July 11, 2011 7:36:31 PM

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Yes I have. I kept my feelings to myself and nothing happened. My heart still beats faster when I see him, but I know nothing will ever happen.

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ducky69
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 7:14:21 PM

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YES......... and my heart was shattered..... enough said....

Rubber Ducky your the one, you make my life so much fun
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Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 7:18:28 PM

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 7:34:29 PM

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Just wanted to know if I was the only one out there, thanks guys!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 7:47:28 PM

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Never have, Never Will
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 7:49:18 PM

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LadyX wrote:
(moved topic from Think Tank)

why?
LusciousLola
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2011 9:45:34 PM

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I have and it's a recipe for heartache.
curvygalore
Posted: Wednesday, July 13, 2011 8:48:45 AM

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Yeah, its tough. Knew it just wasn't going to happen, so just took my time and eventually worked my way through my feelings. Came out of it stronger, but I wouldn't recommend it!
LadySharon
Posted: Wednesday, July 13, 2011 11:47:34 AM

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Yeah. buried teh feelings adn turned it into a story.

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 8:13:57 AM

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Countless times...Breaking the habit right now...
rudyP34
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 9:24:19 AM

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Kiki28 wrote:
Countless times...Breaking the habit right now...



The secret to happiness in life is to fall in love with someone you can have... repeatedly. ;)
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 9:29:42 AM

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rudyP34 wrote:
Kiki28 wrote:
Countless times...Breaking the habit right now...



The secret to happiness in life is to fall in love with someone you can have... repeatedly. ;)

Guess why I'm breaking the pattern...;)Big Hugs
hartclass
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 9:37:27 AM

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No but working on it!

curvygalore
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 9:40:11 AM

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rudyP34 wrote:
Kiki28 wrote:
Countless times...Breaking the habit right now...



The secret to happiness in life is to fall in love with someone you can have... repeatedly. ;)



Great advice! And just what I did! And I couldn't be happier! :)
mercianknight
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 12:29:59 PM

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ducky69 wrote:
YES......... and my heart was shattered..... enough said....


Yep! Gotta agree. Some things best left buried. coffee

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Dudealicious
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 1:43:05 PM

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I remember it very fondly she was a thing of beauty, peircing hazel eyes, the way her hips swayed back and forth was to die for...

We spent many a night cuddling together, exchaning glances with one another..falling deeper in love with her by the minute. Our relationship lasted a few months and we got so close it hurt.

Then.....

Her owner told me he was moving across the country next month and had to take her with him..

Damn I miss Fifi dog

The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

Swollen
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 2:27:28 PM

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Dudealicious wrote:
I remember it very fondly she was a thing of beauty, peircing hazel eyes, the way her hips swayed back and forth was to die for...

We spent may a night cuddling together, exchaning glances with one another..falling deeper in love with her by the minute. Our relationship lasted a few months and we got so close it hurt.

Then.....

Her owner told me he was moving across the country next month and had to take her with him..

Damn I miss Fifi dog


My heart bled when I read this Dude, you know I understand that pain !! x
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lensman
Posted: Thursday, July 14, 2011 2:42:21 PM

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oh, on a daily basis
sugarbabe
Posted: Friday, July 15, 2011 4:21:17 AM

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It was my choice but still hurt like hell.


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etairay
Posted: Friday, July 15, 2011 5:26:28 AM

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wow ..didnt know this thread was here but happy to stumble across it :) yep been there and done that ..once was enough. now too scared to get close ..easier to turn around and run away lmao or keep them as friends at arms length with walls around me. that was when i was 17 ..he moved away and i tried to move on ..he moved back a few years ago and i avoid him like mad. attraction is still there ..but i wont budge, it hurt like hell last time. :) i guess only time will tell ..who knows with life ..the curves balls that get thrown at us ..woop woop beep beep toot toot everyone :D gotta smile at the storm ..tears of joy hmm ..huggles to the max and major mmwah Big Hugs

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