Well intially it was the erotic stories that brought me here, but since i joined and actually looked around the place, ive been more participating in forum convo. I do really like the forum section, with a wide variety of sexual and non-sexual questions, that mean there is more than enough for people to talk about, and most people seem really genuine and I love the openness that is shared here, after all, its rare that IRL men and women get to answer and ask some of the topics that a brought up here, particularly without feeling embarressed or too forward, so find that aspect really intruiging and informative, as well as downright horny half the time lol.

Im not into chat or cyber sex much, I have a bit of a grasshopper mind, I hate sending messages and then just sitting waiting for replys, as when im on the net i like to jump across different tabs, webpages and sites, and then back to lush etc... and sometimes im doing things around the house at the same time, so usually when i chat i end up missing replys because of that. So yeah I prefer sending PM's, much easier in my view, i dont feel compelled to stare at the screen waiting for the reply. Anyways I engoy talking about sex particularly with the ladies, but the actually roleplay sex that people do on chat doesnt do much for me, maybe its because im not used to it, or feel a bit awkward doing it, but thats why I dont chat very often.

I am a bit of a nosey bugger, so i like scrolling through different girls profiles alot, if you get a friend request its usually because I like your profile or pictures, saw a post or topic one the forum at I found intresting, enjoyable or even just agreed with, or if I read one of your stories and enjoyed it. Its very rare i request anybody who doesnt at least have a decent avatar of themselves, and some info to go with it, hell it doesnt have to be a nude pic, but at least give me some idea of who you are, and a bit of info to read about you, I like finding out about people on a personal level, so a bit of info is what i like to see, doesnt have to be paragraph after paragraph, just a few words about yourself, its not much to ask is it?

I usually dont delete people though, i dont know what the point is, no im not collecting trophy friends, but I just like browsing profiles or people that im interested in, even if i dont tell them im intereted. Once ive added somebody, why delete them? Unless they are actually annoying me I cant see why I would delete them would make any difference, whats the point in adding them in first place then?..........I dunno...whatever...

Maybe im being a bit selfish, looking at girls nude pictures and not having any nude ones of myself for people to look at, i have no idea on peoples take on that, but im not uploading naked pictures of myself to the internet, dont feel comfortable doing that.

To be honest, I dont really know what im looking to get out of lush, im enjoying the forum topics, pics, stories etc etc....but I highly doubt im going to find anything beyond that, that will make any difference in the long term, the chances of actually meeting somebody from this site IRL are probably slim at best, but for now im just seeing how it goes. ; )