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duhduh
Posted: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 12:57:33 AM

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Beat it like mad
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Posted: Friday, May 02, 2014 4:38:07 PM

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It was frustrating, but I managed to bear it after taking matters into my own hands. I've always been so relieved to be with a woman again.

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HBmale
Posted: Friday, May 02, 2014 5:30:29 PM

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I beat my meat like it owes me money!!
Guest
Posted: Friday, May 02, 2014 6:00:11 PM

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Not well! But seems to be easier to handle the older one becomes.
Sam127
Posted: Sunday, May 04, 2014 11:07:49 AM

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I've had no sex with my wife for the past twelve months. We've been married 34 years and I doubt we've made love more than 20 times or had any form of intimate contact in that period. We no sleep in separate bedrooms and I cannon remember the last time I saw her naked . We don't argue and get along fine basically as brother and sister. For my perspective it's totally unsatisfactory. I have trained myself to accept it this included my own release which again she will neither tolerate or discuss. Iim mid 50s so statistically have circa 20 more years I guess. I keep telling myself there is more to life that sex, but the trouble is that these days sex is all around us.

Sam
Sam127
Posted: Sunday, May 04, 2014 11:07:56 AM

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I've had no sex with my wife for the past twelve months. We've been married 34 years and I doubt we've made love more than 20 times or had any form of intimate contact in that period. We no sleep in separate bedrooms and I cannon remember the last time I saw her naked . We don't argue and get along fine basically as brother and sister. For my perspective it's totally unsatisfactory. I have trained myself to accept it this included my own release which again she will neither tolerate or discuss. Iim mid 50s so statistically have circa 20 more years I guess. I keep telling myself there is more to life that sex, but the trouble is that these days sex is all around us.

Sam
Guest
Posted: Monday, May 05, 2014 1:35:54 AM

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I wank hard and play hard
simplyjohn
Posted: Monday, May 05, 2014 2:07:12 AM

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Really I think after a while one just gets used to it like other things in life which may for whatever reason stop. Not sure I would even know how to go about now to be honest. I still have my steak and chips and Fosters so life isnt that bad :).

dpw
Posted: Monday, May 05, 2014 7:59:52 AM

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simplyjohn wrote:
Really I think after a while one just gets used to it like other things in life which may for whatever reason stop. Not sure I would even know how to go about now to be honest. I still have my steak and chips and Fosters so life isnt that bad :).

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123gayman29
Posted: Monday, January 12, 2015 4:39:51 PM

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A lot of cold showers
dpw
Posted: Monday, January 12, 2015 5:17:03 PM

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123gayman29 wrote:
A lot of cold showers

Really? I just go cruising, lol. Rarely fails.
TheSluttyAngel
Posted: Monday, January 12, 2015 6:01:42 PM

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I forget...... 😜
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Posted: Monday, January 12, 2015 6:01:58 PM

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Posted: Monday, January 12, 2015 6:02:44 PM

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Oops...that was a guy question....sorry
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Posted: Monday, January 12, 2015 9:46:06 PM

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Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 5:57:14 AM

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Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 6:21:07 AM

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How do I handle it....is this the equivalent of "cadbury creme eggs....how do you eat yours?"
enjoysex52
Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 7:53:14 AM

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isn't that how masturbation came about?
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Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 7:55:18 AM

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trinket wrote:


You handle it...a lot. clown


Very well put! I was going to say the same thing!
JimB01
Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 9:13:54 AM

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Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 9:36:25 AM

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You join Lush and find other means...
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Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 10:20:55 AM

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I take matters into my hands
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Posted: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 7:09:44 PM

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terracotta27
Posted: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 2:18:06 PM

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use imagination and my right hand
dpw
Posted: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 2:36:22 PM

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terracotta27 wrote:
use imagination and my right hand

Like you ever have to wait!
ChuckEPoo
Posted: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 2:43:05 PM

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There are an infinite number of reasons why people don't have sex. Most times I would guess not by choice. However, my circumstances are by choice. I'm in a long distance relationship and have chosen to be celibate. I guess it is an act of love.

But, I know there are those that are alone for many reasons. Age, opportunity, self confidence, faithfulness, and morality are but a few factors. Sex is a driving force for mankind. Although the process is pretty simple and straight forward, the emotions involved are complex. At an animal level it is a bodily need. But we humans connect sex with almost everything, including love. Whereas love and sex are two different things, they are amazing in concert.

Not having sex is much easier than not having love.

Masturbation is a substitute for sex but I don't think there is a substitute for love.
silkstockings
Posted: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 3:20:01 PM

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As one grows older sex is not as big a need, but when one needs to satisfy the desire, remember love theyself. Pleasing yourself is natural.
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You're asking that on this site!? Erm... start with the stories, move onto chat, play with friends, keep one hand free Embarassed ;)

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MsMinx
Posted: Thursday, January 15, 2015 4:55:58 AM

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Life happens. I have been married for 7 years and a lot has happened in that window, three children, bereavements, health issues, big life stuff. My sex drive has always been higher and his quite low. His has drifted to non-existent and I feel frustrated. I love my husband but it is frustrating being the one that tries all the time. So you join lush, you buy yourself a toy, you find a kindred spirit and you daydream and masturbate (a lot)
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