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Choenix
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 10:30:32 AM

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Just wondering..... Masturbation (as in only you touching your own body without another person's help)

For me:
Personally, it takes me about 45mins ~ 1hr of serious touching, pinching, building up to the point of no return. I do read the stories here while getting off. Sometimes, even watching PORN. (seems a little fake... a girl orgasming so hard after 8~10mins)<--- just my opinion. Anyways, i also do use a vibrator to seduce myself to that POINT. So, leave a comment below telling me roughly how long do u take & give me some tips and tricks if u can to help me out?? hahas ^^ APPRECIATED ALWAYS!!! (Doesn't matter how wild it is...)

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Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 10:48:06 AM

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For me... 20 minutes MAX.

With a vibrator it's way less. And if it's a Lelo Soraya, I can do it in under a minute if I'm already horny.

I don't think there are any tips and tricks... personally I've always believed that the orgasm has always involved the mind more than the body. Mental stimulation (porn, reading a story, going through your own sexual memory-vault of dirty moments) all start to tip you to the edge.

If you're distracted or your mind is on something else (ie. something non-sexual), it's going to take way longer to orgasm regardless of what you're doing to yourself physically.


Nikki703
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 11:28:34 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
For me... 20 minutes MAX.

With a vibrator it's way less. And if it's a Lelo Soraya, I can do it in under a minute if I'm already horny.

I don't think there are any tips and tricks... personally I've always believed that the orgasm has always involved the mind more than the body. Mental stimulation (porn, reading a story, going through your own sexual memory-vault of dirty moments) all start to tip you to the edge.

If you're distracted or your mind is on something else (ie. something non-sexual), it's going to take way longer to orgasm regardless of what you're doing to yourself physically.


I agree with DD. It depends on what is going on in my mind, but it never takes me longer than 15 imin and most times its less than 5 min. And as DD said, if I am using my Lelo Soraya, well its very fast and very intense. I can almost cum by just saying the words, Soraya, Soraya, Soraya, LOL!! Amazing Toy!!!
Guest
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 2:48:27 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:


I agree with DD. It depends on what is going on in my mind, but it never takes me longer than 15 imin and most times its less than 5 min. And as DD said, if I am using my Lelo Soraya, well its very fast and very intense. I can almost cum by just saying the words, Soraya, Soraya, Soraya, LOL!! Amazing Toy!!!


I'm about the same. When I'm going to masturbate, it usually means I'm horny to begin with, so it normally doesn't take me very long. Usually, it's even quicker if I have that special someone on the phone and he's whispering naughty nothings in my ear.
Choenix
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:34:09 PM

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Goshhh!! Lelo Soraya seems pretty amazing... i've never seen one before!! >///< maybe i should get one for upcoming X'mas! hahah! Anyways, thanks for replying. I think its cause my mind is always thinking of other stuffs during the whole "doing it" period... but I do realize that if i'm super stressed... it do get more intense and faster ^^

(Omggg... ppl are calling me a slut.)
Guest
Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:52:56 PM

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It totally depends... anywhere from 2 or 3 minutes to 45 minutes..
Nothing will happen even with a VIB if can not focus..

Rose
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:09:49 PM

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For me it depends on the amount of stimulation going on, I usually spend 20/30mins getting turned on, not touching myself etc... but then when I start I tend to be all done and dusted within 10/15 minutes - sometimes as little as 5.

If I don't do the big build up and don't have any form of mental stimulation then it tends to take me much longer (in the range of 45 minutes).
Kimasa
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:31:24 PM

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Depends on many dynamics of where I am, who I'm with and how horny I'm feeling, whether it's slow and sensual or fast and furious.
Anything from 10 - 15 minutes to 45 or not at all but always enjoyable.

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
wolfpost
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 5:52:45 PM

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Usually pretty quickly. 2-5minutes. I only really do it if really horny.

This is my ex not me.
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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 6:00:37 PM

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when i am really horny it only takes a couple of minutes but i have also gone well over an hour just reading stories or watching porn.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 6:19:26 PM

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For me it can take anywhere from 45 minutes to an hour and a half! I have never been able to just bust a nut in a hurry. So for all the ladies intrested in quickies, I will get you off, and worry about me later that night. Lol

Really it does take me anywhere from 45 to an hour at most times, and twice at 1 1/2 hours to cum.
xiscurious
Posted: Monday, February 27, 2012 7:47:55 AM

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Depends on my mood. If I am reading a story I enjoy teasing myself, watching porn it can be over and done as soon as it gets hot. But I love to take my time and usually 10/15 mins.
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Posted: Tuesday, February 28, 2012 9:54:54 AM

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It can be anywhere from 5 minutes to 30-40 minutes. However if the masturbation isn't constant, for instance during cyber or phone sex, it can go on much longer. And as others have said, it depends on what I've been reading, watching, etc
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Posted: Sunday, March 04, 2012 9:27:58 PM

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LittleBambi wrote:
For me it depends on the amount of stimulation going on, I usually spend 20/30mins getting turned on, not touching myself etc... but then when I start I tend to be all done and dusted within 10/15 minutes - sometimes as little as 5.

If I don't do the big build up and don't have any form of mental stimulation then it tends to take me much longer (in the range of 45 minutes).




pretty accurate ^ :p
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Posted: Sunday, March 04, 2012 10:12:33 PM

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usually I read a few stories before I can cum. Doing it myself isn't a turn on for me really. I prefer a sexy woman doing it for me instead of my own hands.
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Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 8:49:02 AM

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I'm either very boring, or very good at it - average just under a minute, sometimes just under two. I only do it for one reason and I don't enjoy taking ages over it. Not alone, anyway. Embarassed I either feel like it or I don't, but I sometimes do if I'm having trouble sleeping, as it helps me relax. It's a means to an end for me, not a thing in itself.

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Guest
Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 9:07:01 AM

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I can take anything from a few minutes to an hour... It depends on my mood.

I agree with Shylass about it helping you to get a good sleep.

If I'm feeling lazy, I'll use my Lelo (yum), or I can use my fingers - which takes longer, but seems to give a better quality of orgasm..

I agree with CG about someone encouraging you - that speeds things up a good deal...
TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 9:10:21 AM

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About two weeks...

Dudealicious
Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 9:41:12 AM

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TheDevilsWeakness wrote:
About two weeks...


We're getting close then pumpkin!!! Today is day 13!! Whoo hoo!

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TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 9:55:42 AM

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Dudealicious wrote:


We're getting close then pumpkin!!! Today is day 13!! Whoo hoo!


Nope. Only during weekly business hours - Weekends don't count.

Its actually Day 9

Dudealicious
Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 10:15:20 AM

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TheDevilsWeakness wrote:


Nope. Only during weekly business hours - Weekends don't count.

Its actually Day 9


That's a lame ass technicality! Sonova!

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Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 10:38:17 AM

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Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 11:27:54 AM

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It depends on how much stimulation I've had in the past hour or so. If a lot then my magic fingers can do their job in a matter of minutes. If not much then it will surely take longer. I'm multi-orgasimic and so when I know my partner is due soon that motivates me and increases the intensity but I wait for her without fail.
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Posted: Monday, March 05, 2012 5:17:40 PM

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masturbating solo...it takes a few minutes. i try to stretch it out to really savor the experience but sometimes it's just too tough to hold back.

sometimes i just dive right in (maybe if i've just woken up or am already about to fall asleep) but other times, i like to do things to get me super aroused just to see how long i can stand to go without touching myself: reading stories, watching porn, have a naughty chat, play dress up with lingerie (or strip) and take sexy photos, just lay around naked playing with my tits....

i rarely use toys. nothing feels better than my lovely fingers...



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SlutySara
Posted: Friday, March 09, 2012 9:48:37 AM

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I agree with a lot of people on here that it depends on your mood and whats on your mind. Some days if I have a lot on my mind it can take me 30-45 minutes. But usually it take me about 20 minutes on my own and 10 with a vibrator, but I hardly use it because I feel that my fingers feel a lot better.
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Posted: Friday, March 09, 2012 12:47:09 PM

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We all are different and we all are different at different times. Some times just a few minutes when I am really in need and have things to do. but some times in the sun at the pool I like to take my time and enjoy those feelings to the fullest.

I think of it as the crescendo of a full orchestra in my mind.
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Posted: Friday, March 09, 2012 2:51:05 PM

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[quote=SlutySara]I agree with a lot of people on here that it depends on your mood and whats on your mind. Some days if I have a lot on my mind it can take me 30-45 minutes. But usually it take me about 20 minutes on my own and 10 with a vibrator, but I hardly use it because I feel that my fingers feel a lot better.


How long does it take with somebody else's fingers or tongue?
Guest
Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 5:11:20 AM

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It can take me anything from a few minutes minutes to an hour depending on lots of things like how long i have, if l'm alone or not, my mood and of course how tired I am.

Obviously it also depends on how I'm masturbating and what I'm using too. My back massager can make me come in just a few minutes but just fingers can take nearly an hour.

If I have lots of time alone l always intend on trying to make it last hours, but end up getting sore and just need to come.

Kimi X
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Posted: Tuesday, April 03, 2012 9:15:39 PM

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Well when I masturbate then about 5 - 10 minutes. But during sex, a little longer, around 15.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 03, 2012 11:04:01 PM

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if i'm REALLY worked up, by myself i can in about 5 min. with a guy, 15-20 min.

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