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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 12:16:40 PM

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Have a question about handcuffs. Wondering what kind of cuffs are better to use and the proper technique of bieng cuffed to the headboard.
I like my Mistress to handcuff me but I don't like the pink fuzzy kind. Also above the head or arms spread; which is better? Its something I am
afraid to ask her. Thanks.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 12:58:43 PM

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Well it all depends on what your mistress wante haveing your arms spread grantly restricts your move better the being together. The best thing is if your Mistress like the pink fussy ones you should tolerate it and allow her to cuff you in the way she wants.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 1:01:53 PM

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Thanks. That does make sense. I probably don't have a choice in the matter.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 1:07:29 PM

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Beck wrote:
Thanks. That does make sense. I probably don't have a choice in the matter.



Your welcome uou may ask your Mistress if she would change the style of handcuffs and she may take your opinion into consideration but never demand any thing of your mistress.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 1:08:40 PM

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I was going to say something along the same lines

Personally I prefer metal ones and have an open communicatin with my Master where I can tell him my desires.


Maybe you should ask your Mistress the same. I am sure that she cares for you deeply and would want to know that you liked this because it could be a good reward technique.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 1:10:09 PM

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Ah. Okay. Well I'll ask but I won't hold my breath. Oh yeah I know better than to ever demand anything.
I'm not that bright but I am a smart enough puppy to know that.
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 1:13:45 PM

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well best of luck with your request and glad we could help
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Posted: Tuesday, April 24, 2012 1:15:13 PM

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Thank you very much. Hope you have a good day. I'll let ya know how it turns out since you were nice enough to respond.
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Posted: Thursday, May 24, 2012 7:12:41 PM

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The only general thing I'd say are that the kind of handcuffs the cops use are absolutely the wrong kind for erotic play. They're hard to unlock in a hurry, the ratchet mechanism can spontaneously tighten, they're narrow, so they don't spread the force they apply over a large area, they're metal, so they aren't flexible.... Need I go on?

BDSM cuffs are wide, leather and lock with a padlock, which can be moved around for easier unlocking, etc.

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Posted: Thursday, May 24, 2012 7:21:45 PM

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Sensei wrote:
The only general thing I'd say are that the kind of handcuffs the cops use are absolutely the wrong kind for erotic play. They're hard to unlock in a hurry, the ratchet mechanism can spontaneously tighten, they're narrow, so they don't spread the force they apply over a large area, they're metal, so they aren't flexible.... Need I go on?

BDSM cuffs are wide, leather and lock with a padlock, which can be moved around for easier unlocking, etc.


i was going to post pretty much the same thing. the leather ones look better, are more comfortable, and easier to use. I'd shop around in person, if you can, for a pair that you like, test them out, make sure you can't slip out of them. there are a lot of styles, but this is the basic look:



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Posted: Thursday, May 24, 2012 7:24:31 PM

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Hmm. Thanks. Pour Wine
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Posted: Saturday, May 26, 2012 6:05:24 PM

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I hate to say this but the choice of cuffs is the Master/Mistress not the sub's. Remember the sub is their to please their Master/Mistress

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Posted: Saturday, May 26, 2012 6:09:00 PM

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well Yes. As a puppy/sub I realize that. The type of cuffs is not my decision but rather my owner/mistress's choice.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2012 7:12:05 PM

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If you are going to use handcuffs, use the kind the police use - they are double locking - meaning that they won't tighten or unlock. You can tell a double locking cuff because there is a little point on the key that fits into a small hole in the side of the cuff pushing that in will double lock it. Best thing is to go to a "cop shop" or someplace that specializes in police gear. Gall's Inc ( ) is a great place to get handcuffs/leg cuffs.

That being said, for the bedroom I would use the leather cuffs - they are more comfortable for extended or vigorous wear and they don't scratch the bed all up!
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