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DirtyMartini
Posted: Tuesday, May 15, 2012 9:34:51 PM

Rank: Purveyor of Poetry & Porn

Joined: 10/19/2009
Posts: 5,851
Location: Right here on Lush Stories..., United States
I guess I'd have to say everyone on Lush, since my name has been on my page here and the blue site since I joined back in 2009...

I do realize some here like to remain anonymous, and I respect that...I have a number of people here as Facebook friends for instance, and if they tell me not to tell anyone else who they are, again I respect that...

Here's my FB page btw...

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, May 15, 2012 9:43:06 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,331
All the time. I keep it real :)
Guest
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 1:40:04 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,331
Who ever asked my real name will get it. So far just a handfull.
BigShyPussyKins
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 2:57:35 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/26/2012
Posts: 111
Location: United Kingdom
I stick to the initial of my name until I get to know someone. When I feel comfortable I will give them an email addy to chat away from here if they want and then tell them my real name.
LauraLee_sugah
Posted: Monday, August 06, 2012 8:17:20 PM

Rank: Purveyor of Sweetness

Joined: 9/10/2011
Posts: 2,347
Location: the sweet, sunny south, United States
there are some who know my real first name, fewer who get an email address, fewer still who know my last name, only 3 who have my real phone number and to whom i have actually talked...

Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 07, 2012 7:39:05 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,331
There are a few that knows but only a trusted few know personal things about me
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 08, 2012 11:40:22 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,331
1,not sure. not liely to do it again till I really trust the person
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 08, 2012 12:25:41 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,331
Just 1 person knows my full name and phone number (that is if the person still remembers). I felt comfortable with the person and established a level of trust. Things started off good, now they are pretty distant.
TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Wednesday, August 08, 2012 1:28:10 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 7/19/2011
Posts: 1,345
Location: I'm the girl that your father hoped he could date.
Everyone knows my first name if they looked at my profile. I've never made it a secret.
There's only one person that knows my full name.
She's a well-respected member of Lush so I don't find it an issue with her knowing.

scarlet
Posted: Wednesday, August 08, 2012 2:49:33 PM

Rank: Chat Moderator
Moderator

Joined: 12/18/2011
Posts: 3,337
Location: United Kingdom
My friends on here and people I talk to know my real name and I think I've said it in the forums once :s But I dont give out my surname just out of personal choice.
BLKDragon
Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2012 12:28:52 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/18/2012
Posts: 113
Location: pittsburgh, United States
none yet ,if I ever do,has yet to present it's self
DarkMaster
Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2012 12:44:52 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 8/15/2012
Posts: 20
Location: Wouldnt you like to know, Japan
Revealing your identity shouldn’t be a easy thing to do. Ive seen to many nutcases to allow me or my wife to use our real names online.

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, August 26, 2012 3:41:17 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 700,331
None, thus far.

I'm still very new here, and have yet to develop a strong connection with anybody. I don't know that I ever would, but it's not outside the realm of possibility. I have no facebook or other social networking profiles. Not even for professional purposes. The anonymity of Lush holds a lot of appeal for me. There's nothing wrong with my pen name or her life. She's as much a part of me as the name given me by my family. I don't hold a lot back from Lush when asked, so I'm not sure my legal name matters tremendously.
adele
Posted: Monday, August 27, 2012 8:55:24 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 4/8/2011
Posts: 21,412
Location: if I knew where I was then I would not be here...
When I first joined Lush, it was my intent to remain anonymous, though all the details on my profile are true. Things changed and by now there are probably at least 25 people who know the name I go by IRL. There are a few who also know the name on my birth certificate. (hint: Cas is actually a combo of initials of my birth name, my nickname and my Lush username) There are 8 who know my home address, and a few more besides those who know my last name. I have met 7 Lushies IRL, spent 17 days with one in her home and had one stay with me for 3 weeks. One is a neighbor of mine and one is a friend I occasionally go out with. I have spoken, or speak on a semi-regular to regular basis with about 14 people, some of those being people I have met. I talk to one almost daily on the phone. So far, I have no regrets about doing any of this. I hope to meet several more quite soon.

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Poppet
Posted: Sunday, November 04, 2012 5:46:13 PM

Rank: Sweetest Cricket

Joined: 10/5/2012
Posts: 6,046
Location: In Your Dirty Fantasies, United States
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Dani
Posted: Sunday, November 04, 2012 8:01:04 PM

Rank: Big-Haired Bitch
Moderator

Joined: 12/25/2010
Posts: 6,269
Location: Under Your Bed, United States
Six. And that's because I felt comfortable doing so...and have yet to regret the decision.


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Green_Man
Posted: Sunday, November 04, 2012 10:03:03 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/9/2012
Posts: 1,068
Location: A verdant glen, United States
One. And she is my best friend in the world now.

TheGulfCoaster
Posted: Sunday, November 04, 2012 10:44:20 PM

Rank: Story Verifier

Joined: 1/2/2011
Posts: 581
Location: Sarasota County, United States
Two people know my full name and have a way to communicate with me outside of Lush, one of them has my phone number and we talk semi-regularly. A few others I would probably share that info with if asked.
Jack_42
Posted: Monday, November 05, 2012 1:40:02 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/21/2009
Posts: 1,051
Location: Prague, Czech Republic
I have shared details with one person but am not very secretive in my general communication on lush anyway.
BelleduJour
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 4:36:13 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 11/13/2011
Posts: 1,507
Location: Canada
I agree with PLAYSIT - who also happens to be one of my friends! Everyone on my friend list knows my real first name, but I do tend to keep my last name, where I work and my home address private. I too have given my email, Yahoo, MSN and/or Skype addresses out to a handful of closer friends, but they are all special accounts created just for 'Belledujour'. I also have given out my cell number to a very select few with absolute no issues at all.

Everything in my profile is true, and I pride myself on being honest and authentic despite the genre. I am very selective about the people I friend and am not afraid to cut people if I feel we don't mesh well. I am very comfortable with who I've chosen to know more about me as some know much more than others - a couple of them have even made it to my Facebook. I couldn't be happier with how it's all worked out so far and feel very fortunate to have met some truly amazing people.

Having said that, there are a few others I would feel comfortable sharing more of myself if/when the opportunity presented itself but until that happens, I'm a very happy girl, lol.

Peri
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 8:32:01 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 11/18/2011
Posts: 553
Location: Dreamtown, United States
None.... will never.... can't afford :)

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sweet_as_candy
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 8:46:50 AM

Rank: Sydney Slider
Moderator

Joined: 5/28/2012
Posts: 2,840
Location: In the library
A few people know the real Candy. A few people know my real name, email address, etc. One guy knows absolutely EVERYTHING about me! He's such a stalker Whistle






LadyAnnWest
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 8:56:56 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 7/22/2014
Posts: 2,590
Location: United States
One guy from another site. Somehow he tracked me here and got to be a pest. Of course he's no longer a friend here. Soooo, not very well.

Dani
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 8:58:06 AM

Rank: Big-Haired Bitch
Moderator

Joined: 12/25/2010
Posts: 6,269
Location: Under Your Bed, United States
Six, and only because I trust them all...one in particular quite fiercely.

It went well with all of them...and that one in particular just can't stay away.

EDIT: Well shit. I've answered this before.


"Bitch, who asked you?" - A Bitch Who Didn't Ask You

Simplicity
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 9:30:25 AM

Rank: Always Looking for the good in people

Joined: 5/21/2015
Posts: 1,434
Location: On your mind!, United States
None.. I think it is the person's choice weather they want to or not.. Lush is Lush.. nothing last for ever,then you put yourself out there for someone to talk .. So my RL is private away from Lush.I am who I am ,that doesn't change.

Poppet
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 9:52:38 AM

Rank: Sweetest Cricket

Joined: 10/5/2012
Posts: 6,046
Location: In Your Dirty Fantasies, United States
I tend to keep my personal information fairly discreet. Things have happened to me in the past (not on Lush) and it makes me weary of people. Even those I care about. Only a very few know my name, no one has my number, but I do have several on Skype, Kik and I even made a Facebook account of Lush friends. There is only one person who knows more than that and I doubt anyone else will.

Porgy87
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 10:07:45 AM

Rank: Senior Analyst

Joined: 7/1/2014
Posts: 1,800
Location: Eastern Time, United States
Maybe half a dozen or ten people know my actual given name; no one knows my surname.
Three or four know the email address that I reserve for special communications. (It has a completely different name, which is not mine either.)
I think one person knows the name of the city where I live.
No one knows my phone number.

Until last month, I was much more free with potentially identifying information, including clear photographs of my face. I had a disconcerting exchange with someone who had a very strong personal reaction to something I posted casually and with no specific intent. The intensity and emotion of the conversation rattled me a bit, so I've pulled the veil over myself a little more.
playsit
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 11:20:16 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/26/2011
Posts: 451
Location: Northeastern Untied Sates, United States
naughtiestmommy wrote:
As I get to know some of the amazing people here, I am wondering: how many of you have stepped out from behind the comfort of your avatar and revealed your true identity to others and, if you have, how many? How did it work out? What made you feel comfortable with that?




everyone who takes the time to know me knows my true identity. I can only be myself, damn that's hard enough sometimes. If you're just talking pics, they are available to my friends. No big deal, there's nothing risky there. What made me feel comfortable?... just being around people who understand me and who I consider friends. Nothing more.
BethanyFrasier
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 11:21:26 AM

Rank: Rainbow Warrior

Joined: 5/15/2014
Posts: 2,153
Location: Land of Legend, south of the Firelands, United Sta
Basically everyone! My full name and avatar photo are really me, and anyone who's paid close attention to the things I say in forums and on my profile know what town I live in, the names of my lovers, siblings, my job, and practically anything else there is to know about me, except my exact address and phone number. Many even know my contact info off-site. I'm kinda hiding in plain sight!
avrgblkgrl
Posted: Thursday, June 04, 2015 3:52:23 PM

Rank: In-House Sapiosexual
Moderator

Joined: 9/28/2011
Posts: 1,597
Location: Where you need me most..., United States
There are a few people that I actually knew in RL before coming to Lush and they came to Lush to check it out. One
actual good friend and fellow writer is why I came to Lush. She's inactive now. Two others, I have actually met from here because we have
formed friendships that go beyond Lush. All of them know me fully. Now that I'm visiting overseas, I'm planning to meet
another. Don't get any ideas, it is just friendship.💋

Give it a read💋

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