hi guys, im new here, and i have been asking around on many forums. my girlfriend doesnt seem to be interested in letting me lick her pussy, any suggestions on how to make her more open about it? please please help me
Doesn't *seem* interested?? Have you actually asked her why she doesn't like it??
Just be gentle and talk about it with her is my advice. If you post the issue here then I am sure you will get some suggestions.
I'm sure most people will say "talk about it". As you may know already, communication is key in any relationship, so talk and find out why she doesn't like the idea. She may have had a bad experience in the past that put her off any oral in the future, so my advice is to talk and be understanding about it.
Like others have said, I would recommend communication - asking (gently) why not. But please respect her if she can't/won't talk about it.
Not every lass likes/loves it, some have bad history, and some have certain aversions to it for various reasons. But you will never know unless you ask and give her the opportunity to tell you. Why not start off by saying why you would like to, and then ask her how she feels about that, before asking her why not? Try not to make it "Why won't you let me", but rather, "I would like to share this with you because..."
Are you able to finger her? Can you get some pleasure from tasting your fingers instead of direct mouth-to-pussy? Is there not some compromise you could come up with depending on how your conversation goes?
Good luck!
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Good for you lad, but hey, don't say you aren't into fingering, cause that can change. And trust me, if just have your fingers in her, while you eat her out, you will blow her fucking mind. But don't go all at once man, figure out how she likes it first, just you know play with her pussy while you guys make out or something and get a real feel for it, DON'T try any of those porn star moves for a start, you just might stock the shit out of her, and just become another ex. But if all goes well, one night when you are eating her, try to slip one finger in and see how she reacts, if doesn't like it stop of course, if she likes go for one more. Hell maybe you'll get lucky and she will ask for it. Anyway, best of luck to you in the future and best of luck in your relationship, hope you two have a long one.
Oh that's poor.
I would say discuss it with her, tell her you love the way she looks and feels and that having that level of imtimacy would be a real wonderful experience for you both to share together.
Good luck man, if it is her self confidence issues, I hope she gets over it.
The girl I lost my virginity to had a similar fear of it. Her reason was that she didn't like the taste. If I had it on my mouth, she wouldn't enjoy kissing me as much. Many years later, when she was in another relationship, I convinced her to "get over it" (that took more than a decade), and once she allowed her current husband to do it, she found out it's actually quite enjoyable. Now she can't get enough. But it probably took her 15 years to come around (and to cum around - that was the first time she orgasmed with a partner as well).
The trick I learned about cunnilingus, when I had a 12-hour lesson from a lesbian, is that it doesn't matter what you think your "technique" is. Every vagina is gloriously unique, and every woman attached to it, even more so. It's not about "to finger or not to finger", it's about what feels right and pleasurable to her. Watch her, and you'll have a good time. I don't mean that you should stare at her with an "Am I doing this right?" look on your face. Watch her hips, see how they roll. Look at her belly to see when she takes a sudden intake of breath. If that was in response to a thing you did, try doing that again. It may not be that you touched a certain part of her, but that you worked up to it in a way that took her breath away. Or, maybe you touched her just right. You can't guess at this - trial and error goes a long way. Be willing to fail, and you'll be better prepared to succeed.
The other trick I've learned is not so much about cunnilingus, as it is about all sex. It's communication. I've had some of my best orgasms in the throes of laughter. Keep talking while you're going down on her. Ask her what she likes. Tell her what you're doing. Every once in a while, stop kissing her there, and kiss her lips, neck, arms, breasts, tummy, ankles, etc. Remind her and yourself why you're doing what you're doing - it's about both of you, and the more you communicate, the more connected you'll feel, and the more fun you'll both have.
Her ex didn't touch her in a bad place (most likely), he touched her in a way that made her uncomfortable. When you touch her, remember that you're touching her, not just a pussy. And don't rule out anything you have available that may be helpful - your tongue isn't that much different from a finger. It's more dextrous and flexible, and self-lubricating, but if you're doing it right, lubrication won't be an issue, and there are parts of her that your tongue just can't reach. When you and she are comfortable enough (or just when you've got her over the moon and everything is exciting), slip a finger in and feel for her g-spot. It's that spongy part right past the first hump inside, on the front wall. Note that at different times, with different stimulation, it's a completely different place, size, and reaction. If you go for it before she's properly worked up, you may not find it at all. Or, you may just make her feel like she has to pee. If you get it at the right moment, you might surprise her with her first squirting orgasm. The trick is not to be goal-oriented. Let it come naturally. What you're doing is a shared experience. And it's more about her than it is you.
Also, careful with that clit, man. A little goes a long way.
Wow! I've never come across a girl not wanting to be licked so I am a bit clueless to advice.
Once she's convinced it's all good she'll probably want it all the time. Just keep trying to convince her.
Sugarbabe has described it perfectly: "I remember the first time I had that done to me.....
I layed there and I went numb, thinking oh my,
what is he doing?
what does it smell like?
I am laying here by myself while he is down there.
I just looked at the ceiling, stunned, embarrassed,
feeling very vulnerable,
out of the comfort zone.
wishing it was over, can't even remember liking it.
But I was young at that time, he kept doing it over and over
and NOW I can hardly get enough. It took two years but that
act was my first orgasm. soon after that I was having them
during intercourse. Thank gawd he kept trying."
Okay look, let's face it us girls have LOTS of insecurities....we worry about our weight, our height, our lack of height (haha that's me), our boob size (mine are pretty small), our breath, our pussy being too loose, our pussy smelling, etc. etc. Basically the insecurities we have are ENDLESS. So you need to get her to relax and reassure her you love doing it. I'm sure pretty soon she'll be pulling you into the bedroom and demanding your tongue between her legs since it's pretty well one of our favorite activities once we get comfortable with it. Don't worry....just get her to cum a few times and she'll be hooked for ever!
Get a new girlfriend is not bad advice.
There is a need to be compatible in all the best ways possible, Shy...wouldn't you agree?
When we are in our youth...and I classify youth as (below the age allowed to discuss at Lush) til our 50's....
If it ain't working...trade in asap for the best interests of the both of 'you'.
I've been with women who thought that anything besides missionary was perverted. Guess what I did.
Fucking A Straight... get a new girlfriend.
Have you ever been with a man who thought that sex with the lights off and still almost fully clothed - was the proper way?
Get a new fucking boyfriend.
Get real...
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Many women tend to be insecure about their anatomy, definitely, and specially when they are younger. Just as VV stated, a woman tends to worry about everything from how she looks to how she smells, whether the taste will be bad, etc. As women, we are constantly reminded by the media how we don't meet the standards of "female perfection". Imagine that ten-fold when it comes to our vag, especially if she feels you have much more experience than her.
Another factor could be if she was raised in a strict, religious family. That's going to take some considerable deprogramming.
Your girl may need to know that women's genitalia all look different, just like men's. If she's open to looking up pictures online, do that. Talk about it. That's the first part.
Also, get some flavored lube and use that. Put it on her breasts and down along her stomach, and trail it to her genitals. Start licking from the top, and keep telling her how great she tastes (especially once you get between those legs!). Better yet, tell her she tastes better than anything (do NOT say "anyone"; women don't want to be reminded that you used to slut around lol) you've ever experienced before.
Maybe even take a shower together, if she's open to it. Hell, try going down on her in the shower.
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I'm a loner, Dottie. A Rebel...
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I understand her feelings myself, if she's anything like me. I LOVE LOVE LOVE being fingered. But I'm not a fan of a guy going down on me. In that situation I'm entirely too sensitive. It makes me want to scream and not in a good way. Similarly when having sex I don't want my clit touched. It's just too much at the same time.
One young girl I knew loved me going down on her but only when she wearing knickers.
While the feel on my mouth on the soft smooth cotton of her knickers made her cum and cum and cum, the feel of it on her naked pussy had no effect on her whatsoever.
later we talked about it, and she said her past boyfriend used to finger her in some weird way and she hated it and was afraid i would do it too, but im not into fingering so its ok 
thank you so much for the advice on talking to her, i love you guys :*
