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Just wondering - can relationships begun through Lush last?
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Flutterby Pharie
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Of course they can. We actually have a couple that met on here and got married not too long ago.
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Of course they can. We actually have a couple that met on here and got married not too long ago.
I was gonna say that but I wasn't sure if I'd made it up. Thanks, Pixie.
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I think so...
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what does "last" mean????
they can, i think... but like real life relationships they will change to survive.
they can, i think... but like real life relationships they will change to survive.
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I think so...
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I was gonna say that but I wasn't sure if I'd made it up. Thanks, Pixie.
Nope, you would have been right. It is totally true.
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There are so many different types of relationship. Just because you meet on Lush, or anywhere online, doesn't mean the relationship can't or won't last. Where you meet really doesn't matter, if you hit it off with someone and I don't just mean that romantically, chances are the relationship will survive.
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i can say for sure that i have several friendships from here that have lasted nearly 3 years...(since i first found lush)
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I would like to think yes, but the reality of it, is its almost easier here. You don't have the everyday stresses of taking care of a family together, a home, finances, etc. so a relationship online in a strange way seems almost blissful. You relish in the time you have and leave your stresses behind. My opinion, but hell what do I know!
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Definitely not, I saw almost 90% people have slut status. And the rest live fake lives. Maybe 4-5% are telling true and be truth in their lives, rest are all lies. We are all here for our fantasies I guess, fantasies which we can't fulfill in our real life, we try to get them here with chat and imagination. Making your real life relationship, on the basis of these lies, won't last long. One day or another you have to face the real life, at that point your relationship will definitely break.
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Definitely not, I saw almost 90% people have slut status. And the rest live fake lives. Maybe 4-5% are telling true and be truth in their lives, rest are all lies. We are all here for our fantasies I guess, fantasies which we can't fulfill in our real life, we try to get them here with chat and imagination. Making your real life relationship, on the basis of these lies, won't last long. One day or another you have to face the real life, at that point your relationship will definitely break.
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Yes, I believe given the right perspective, relationships formed on the internet and on Lush can survive. In fact deep bonds can be formed.
Like any relationship though, in order to survive, they need working at.
Like any relationship though, in order to survive, they need working at.
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Theere's no doubt that they can. It's just a matter of meeting the right person, just as in real life.
It can be very hard to find that person but when you do and feel like that's the one.. meet up, before it's too late. I think that's necessary for it to work out in the long run.
To have a 2-3 year online relationship before meeting up I think won't do you any good.
Theere's no doubt that they can. It's just a matter of meeting the right person, just as in real life.
It can be very hard to find that person but when you do and feel like that's the one.. meet up, before it's too late. I think that's necessary for it to work out in the long run.
To have a 2-3 year online relationship before meeting up I think won't do you any good.
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Yes, I believe given the right perspective, relationships formed on the internet and on Lush can survive. In fact deep bonds can be formed.
Like any relationship though, in order to survive, they need working at.
It is possible, after being here for nearly 4 years I have met several great people - some of them are truly special and have stood the test of time! But as Swollen says - you have to work at it - it pays off in the long run.
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as long as you both are truthful...yes
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So who are those crazy mofos who got married? 
But catnip is right, you need to meet irl or else it will end up nowhere.
But catnip is right, you need to meet irl or else it will end up nowhere.
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I think it possible they can last, but lets face it, like on the net is often directly proportional to distance. You aren't going to meet someone here you can ask out Saturday night. And so many people are married, which adds another barrier.
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Probably at least as much chance, as if you had met through a dating site.
There are no restrictions here, you don't have to pay for anything, it's all free. Which means you can chat to anyone you might like 1 on 1, message them, as many times as you wish, develop a relationship prior to calling / meeting up.
Plus if they are truthful in their profile, you already know a great deal about them, and can see if you share common interests.
There are no restrictions here, you don't have to pay for anything, it's all free. Which means you can chat to anyone you might like 1 on 1, message them, as many times as you wish, develop a relationship prior to calling / meeting up.
Plus if they are truthful in their profile, you already know a great deal about them, and can see if you share common interests.
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IT DEPENDS...YOU ARE SO LUCKY IF SOMEONE IS VERY WILLING TO PURSUE BEING WITH YOU, DESPITE OF YOUR GEOGRAPHICAL DIFFERENCES.
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Relationships can last if the people want them to. It doesn't matter where they start.
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If it is a friendship or romantic, of course it can last and stand the test of time! If you share a strong bond with a human it can last forever I believe 
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Definitely not, I saw almost 90% people have slut status. And the rest live fake lives. Maybe 4-5% are telling true and be truth in their lives, rest are all lies. We are all here for our fantasies I guess, fantasies which we can't fulfill in our real life, we try to get them here with chat and imagination. Making your real life relationship, on the basis of these lies, won't last long. One day or another you have to face the real life, at that point your relationship will definitely break.
this seems to be very true ..... many of us have attempted/given into the Lush romance/cyber/lust .... only to be disappointed or aghast at how things go/end/fade away into dust, left disillusioned and hurt.
The very few that do succeed, are a rarity.
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it depends on the wants and needs of those 2 ppl .....it can and cannot happen....
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Over the years I've probably met, face to face, with about 6-8 people from online venues; 8-12 if phone conversations count. Still have 1 good friend, of over 8 years, from that; so yes.
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Echoing the above. I have friends on here that I've been in contact with for years and I don't see them going away. Romantically, you can only go on so long without things progressing from online, to text, to phone or video, to rl. You can meet people anywhere and Lush is no exception. The one odd nuance to it all is that, given the nature of the site, the odds are pretty high that you know your date's sexual fantasies before you ever meet and that's not exactly "typical" of other places you may have met. Yes, there's the geographical issue, and I know a few 'couples' that are separated by several states, countries, even an ocean or two, and make it "work" for a while. I know of several multi-year romances on Lush and that's impressive online or off so why denigrate the online thing. Yes, its not "complicated" by co-habitating, but any relationship that hasn't taken that step is similarly uncomplicated. In short: why not?
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Echoing the above. I have friends on here that I've been in contact with for years and I don't see them going away. Romantically, you can only go on so long without things progressing from online, to text, to phone or video, to rl. You can meet people anywhere and Lush is no exception. The one odd nuance to it all is that, given the nature of the site, the odds are pretty high that you know your date's sexual fantasies before you ever meet and that's not exactly "typical" of other places you may have met. Yes, there's the geographical issue, and I know a few 'couples' that are separated by several states, countries, even an ocean or two, and make it "work" for a while. I know of several multi-year romances on Lush and that's impressive online or off so why denigrate the online thing. Yes, its not "complicated" by co-habitating, but any relationship that hasn't taken that step is similarly uncomplicated. In short: why not?
I agree with WorkAlone.
You never know...it depends on the individuals.