Ok guys I have been trying to explain to a buddy of mine that receiving oral sex from another guy doesn't make you gay.
Here is the arguing question.
You find yourself being woken up receiving a blowjob. Its dark. You think its your girlfriend you just go with it.
Next morning you find out it wasn't your girlfriend. The only other person around was your roommate.
You are not gay for getting off. Just because you didn't know it was a guy doesn't make it wrong. You didn't go looking for it. It just happened.
So.
Question.
Do you think it makes him gay or is it ok?
Orientation is about inclination or drive. If I ask a guy to blow me, that's a step towards gay. If I picture a guy blowing me, regardless of whose mouth I'm in, that's a step towards gay. If I'm picturing a girl while a guy is blowing me, that's a step towards straight (or at least bi). If I think it's my gf and am thinking about my gf and only find out later it was a guy, that's not remotely gay.
Just to flip the question: if someone, who you thought was your bf, crawled up under the sheets and ate you to a thundering climax, and you later found out it was a woman, would that mean your a lesbian? Hell no!
I agree with tampmark122. It's all in your mind. Just close your eyes and it can be anyone you want.
No, it doesn't make him gay, but may bring to the surface certain hang ups. Enjoy the orgasm and don't worry about it.
clum hit it right on the head!!!
My first inclination would be, to make sure it was my girlfriend. Personally, I don't know how "he" could not have heard sounds that would make him know who it was.
I would not say that it makes one gay, but could it be borderline? Yeah, maybe. I'd say more bisexual at most, and even then, that's iffy.
This is just like the incident I have heard of years ago about a girl being taken advantage of while she was sleeping, and she had not been drugged or anything. She was just in a deep sleep that did not wake her as the guy was pounding her. When she did wake, he was lying beside her and she could tell what happened.
I mean, come on, women out there, wouldn't you wake up to see what the hell was going on? How could you sleep through a guy fucking you?
There would be so many questions going through my mind I couldn't go on. I'd have to know.
"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."
--Evanescence
Do we really have to debase a beautiful act such as sex is to this level? If you're gay ... you're gay. If you're straight then so be it also. And also ... in a drunken state I've been fucked by a few guys and not known about it till the cum starts draining from me.
i dont think it makes you gay.
same could be said if a trans or shemale gives u head. she looks like a beautiful woman but has a cock. fancying her does not make you gay.
If the guy is going out of his way to suck dick for nothing in return I'd say he's at least bi if not all out gay. But that doesn't mean he's not bi or gay otherwise lol. I'd say it’s really more about how they see it, but I'm sure after both people have cum it seems gay in retrospect regardless how they felt beforehand lol.
If I'm living with a male roommate, it's a certainty he'd know I was straight. If he knows I'm straight, which he would, and he sneaks into my bedroom under the cover of darkness. Crawls into my bed, unveils my cock, and sucks me off..... that's probably sexual assault. Which would then be followed by physical assault because I would beat his fucking ass to a pulp. There really is no gray matter here. There's nothing wrong with being gay or getting a hummer from a dude, if you're into it. If you aren't, and someone in the know does anything sexual without your consent then it's wayyyyy out of bounds.
If I were living with a lesbian and snuck into her room and ate her pussy to the best orgasm of her life, it would be wrong. And she could have me arrested. Same situation as described by the OP. Or if she were passed out drunk and I tongue fucked her, fingered her, fucked her. Anything done without consent is wrong.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates 
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