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Milik_the_Red
Posted: Friday, September 28, 2012 5:55:30 AM

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I don't cyber much at all and like many of the ladies have said, it really helps if I'm into who is on the other side. As to whether there is a point, one way to look at it is, do you enjoy erotic stories? If you can be aroused by reading erotica, then you can be aroused by cyber. Look at it as a live interactive reading. Done properly, cyber can be more fulfilling than solo masturbation, you just have to find someone capable of turning you on.

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FirstBlush
Posted: Monday, June 13, 2016 9:05:33 PM

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Great question, and a complicated answer. Too many good replies in this thread to quote them all.

My first experience was a random one and I faked but got off thinking of it later. Overall, it was a tremendous rush even if I didn't know any better.

The second was with someone I bonded with and there was no comparison. He really knew his stuff and schooled the hell out of me. Even so, out of dozens of chats I got off in real time maybe fewer than six. Out of all the scenes we played on one another, only one or two from each side really hit the memorably hot level.

The third fell somewhere in the cracks, with similar percentages. Have learned I can't do this on a random basis, need a strong level of rapport and heat (and trust!). I like to study my partner and tend to be hyper focused on his enjoyment. As for my own, there's always that pressure of feeling like it's taking too long, or when I want to come more than once will he wait and all that.

Short answer? Yes, it's happened, but not nearly as much as it should have.

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Fletch
Posted: Tuesday, June 14, 2016 5:34:42 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
I have... to both cyber and sexting. *not always though*

Then again - I write, so I'm into words and what they can do to turn someone on.

It's about the person on the other end though and what they can do to provoke my thoughts.

Cyber or sexting with some random stranger does nothing for me.


Note: I'm not looking to cyber on Lush, so guys reading this should not be rushing to friend me after reading this post. lol.


My first thot was....How many guys did not bother to read the note....
reece_cup
Posted: Tuesday, June 14, 2016 6:04:45 AM

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I cyber a lot as my friends here know and yes I do get off a lot while doing it. Some people just have a way with words... hehehe
JennyBella
Posted: Tuesday, June 14, 2016 7:56:42 AM

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With the right person it can be amazing.
BethanyFrasier
Posted: Tuesday, June 14, 2016 8:42:06 AM

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Honestly? I usually don't, because I'm too focused on getting my partner off. If she cums, that's a successful cyber for me.

Weavindreams
Posted: Tuesday, June 14, 2016 9:36:28 AM

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Nikki703 wrote:
I am not really that into true cybersex. But for those who are, isnt getting off the reason you do it? If you didnt get off I doubt it would continiue or am I missing something?


I'm not female, but as I was perusing the thread, I noticed your post. YES, the point IS to get one another off BUT, some of us can't type AND get off too! SO, we settle for getting our partner off while we get turned on and finish on our own AFTERWARDS. Clearer now? Lwinking

Oh and I will agree that cybering is DEFINITELY a skill that some are better at than others... like any OTHER sexual skill! It involves utilizing the imagination and writing a SHARED fantasy with a partner. Knowing each other's desires and preferences is a big head start.


tellme001
Posted: Tuesday, June 14, 2016 1:37:23 PM

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Have a few times but the person on the other end needs to be someone I have got to talked to and got to know as much as we can on line. Usually don't even try to tho. But it does spi e up the sex life with hubbie,mmm
Samantha28
Posted: Wednesday, June 15, 2016 3:05:58 PM

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With the right person yes there has to be some sort of chemistry , same likes and fantasies etc , texting and phone sex with your partner are also in the same range lol . and yes to both
Guest
Posted: Thursday, June 16, 2016 2:05:44 PM

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Having never cybered, I guess the answer would be zero...I prefer sex in person
Kittycrumble
Posted: Saturday, June 18, 2016 5:20:04 AM

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ive only ever cybered once or twice, so not for me, but i do have fun helping the other person get off.... :P
Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 18, 2016 7:35:33 AM

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theshadowgirl wrote:
ive only ever cybered once or twice, so not for me, but i do have fun helping the other person get off.... :P


Salutations to you, Girl of the Shadows. It's kind of you to be so hospitable in a world where many are so selfish. You have my affection and respect for having the capacity of devoting yourself to others; something that seems to be a vanishing virtue.
Weavindreams
Posted: Saturday, June 18, 2016 9:49:01 AM

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FieryRedhead69 wrote:
Having never cybered, I guess the answer would be zero...I prefer sex in person


As do the rest of us BUT, this IS the internet and there ARE both problems and DANGERS involved in actually getting together in person. Besides which, SOME folks are in situations that PROHIBIT actual physical encounters. SO as this IS a primarily FANTASY site and cybering is way to SHARE fantasy with someone you've made a "connection" of some type with, why not keep an open mind about it and maybe ... if someone "feels right" to you ... give it a try some time.?
IF you enjoy reading the stories here on Lush you're ALREADY "into fantasy" as a masturbatory "AID". That's what erotica has ALWAYS been. And cybering is merely SHARING the fantasy with another individual.


Soccermom
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2016 10:52:01 AM

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Yes I have can't say all the time....as most have posted before me it depends on who your cybering with.....not everyone has the knack to bring it home
dedeNC
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2016 10:55:31 AM

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it is usually soon after for me but only if the cyber really got me going.
Cyndy
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2016 2:26:01 PM

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If I cyber, and it's not that often, yes I do because that is why I am doing it!
Hidden_Desires
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2016 2:46:00 PM

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I do. If I say i'm getting off, then I am. Right now I only Cyber (and real life) with my Master, Darkstarfish.
From past experience, I have found I really don't get off unless there is a connection of some sort.

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Fletch64
Posted: Monday, June 20, 2016 6:43:29 PM

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Jillian22 wrote:
Almost all the time. It depends on how good and descriptive the person I'm doing it with is. Case in point, I'm straight, but I decided to cyber with a girl I have been emailing back and forth for awhile. I in't think I would be into it because I'm not into girls. But she was so good that I came twice. Not sure I'm into girls, but I am very much into her.


I can see that..



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Richa1
Posted: Wednesday, June 22, 2016 9:21:39 PM

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I have done and I do if partner is right .If he/she can stimulate my mind with words .
KellyC317
Posted: Monday, June 27, 2016 11:37:21 AM

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Raises guilty hand from back of the room. When there were the old Yahoo chat rooms I had a few female and one female friend that I met with online regularly when husband was out.
pleasurebuttons
Posted: Monday, June 27, 2016 1:43:38 PM

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Oh, me! I have to confess, I think I've had a little more than others since the online world was my first sexual encounter. I love to talk dirty and love being talked dirty to.
Deliciaa
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 7:30:31 AM

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I used to do, at times... but after joining Lush, the frequency has increased manifolds.... such a fantastic lovers here :P



georgiagirl22
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 8:23:55 AM

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Occasionally, but not often. It takes a guy or a girl that is really good w their words to make it happen. In my experience, everyone thinks they are good dirty chatters, but few really are.
ScarlettO
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 1:08:46 PM

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For my first few cyber sessions, I massaged my cunny with three fingers and caressed my clitty with my thumb, but my timing was off due to having to use the keyboard, so I did not cum in unison with the chat..!! But, I did cum after the chat was over.

I needed to be "hands-free", so I bought a small, insertable dildo vibe with an adjustable power dial, allowing me to adjust the sensation to coincide with the chat. I start out on Low....then as the chat heats up, go to Medium, then when the chat sends us each to near-orgasm, I go to High. I do not miss any orgasms this way, and usually have two or more during each session. They are usually long, powerful and wavy, and I love and enjoy them very much.

Lush has provided me with, yet, another venue for meaningful sexual expression and to satisfy my lust with both men and fems. Though my preference is fem love, I do occasionally crave and seek out selective cock, but it must be generous and durable, being able to last at least an hour. Love to all, Scarlett xxxxoooo
ScarlettO
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 1:52:13 PM

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For my first few cyber sessions, I massaged my cunny with three fingers and caressed my clitty with my thumb, but my timing was off due to having to use the keyboard, so I did not cum in unison with the chat..!! But, I did cum after the chat was over.

I needed to be "hands-free", so I bought a small, insertable dildo vibe with an adjustable power dial, allowing me to adjust the sensation to coincide with the chat. I start out on Low....then as the chat heats up, go to Medium, then when the chat sends us each to near-orgasm, I go to High. I do not miss any orgasms this way, and usually have two or more during each session. They are usually long, powerful and wavy, and I love and enjoy them very much.

Lush has provided me with, yet, another venue for meaningful sexual expression and to satisfy my lust with both men and fems. Though my preference is fem love, I do occasionally crave, then seek out selective cock, but it must be generous and durable, being able to last at least an hour. Love to all, Scarlett xxxxoooo
abbyabigail
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 2:35:43 PM

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it can happen, but it's hardly my prime motivation for Lushing. It's much more likely to happen here when it evolves from a chat i'm having that's turned erotic and sensual. Hate like hell having to keep my keyboard clean and dry.
LovinTimeLiv
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 3:50:20 PM

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Cyber takes chemistry same as any other sex. I have a lover who makes me cum like no other lover I have had in my bed (u know who you are Baby K. But you have to design methods that result in the outcums you want (lol). I nearly always use a hands free dildo when i cyber. I have my desk pulled next to my bed perfect level for me to type with two hands and ride my dill (which has intended to be hands free). This gives me the option of touching my clit between exchanges.
Chemistry is magical... I know within the first dozen exchanges if the girl at the other end is going to excite me or not. Doesn't mean she can't be a friend... i have lots of friends here. I have only one true lover here.
CelticLady7
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 4:02:30 PM

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I did with a certain person on here. Several times. :) He is brilliant with on line cyber sexting.
Miss_Michelle
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 5:16:59 PM

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Yes I have many times especially if it's detailed and chemistry flows right.
kateworthy
Posted: Saturday, July 2, 2016 6:22:09 PM

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I have tried cybering a couple of times on here when my partner has been out at the pub with his mates, but wasn't stimulted physically or mentally. On both occasions the guys wanted to get in to the sex straight away. With the first one I soon realised he wasn't my kind of guy, so I exited fairly quickly. The second guy, I liked his photo, and he was pleading how desperate he was for relief, so I answered the questions he put to me in as dirty and provocative a manner as I could muster while he masturbated. It only took a few minutes, five at the most including out introductory chat When he'd had his orgasm he thanked me and asked what he could do for me in return. I lied, telling him I'd already creamed my knickers just thinking about what he was doing. That was last summer. I have no intention of doing it again.
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