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Is girls masturbating still considered taboo?

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Ok I like to masturbate, and I'm a chick. Some people find it really attractive and total normal, and some people think it's taboo. People my age, in their 20's. Do you find it taboo and "dirty" Or totally normal for a women to Nasir ate?
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Ok in todays age it should not be taboo anymore, now days even edit by admin for content(age) are far beyound this. i enjoy walking in and seeing my lady playing and i just wait and enjoy such a beautiful site, till she tells me to join her
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It is very much a turn on to watch!
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I believe watching a woman masturbate would make me extremely horny. I would want to masturbate while looking into her eyes.

So no, I dont think its taboo.
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I'm not sure it was ever taboo, it just wasn't talked about amongst boys. Based on the number of dildos and vibes in my bedside table, and those of many other women, it sure isn't now.
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Only way I would consider it taboo if my girlfriend masturbated would be if I walked in on her and she told me to leave her alone until she was finished...
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It has to be one of the hottest things a girl sliding her fingers in herself i could watch that all day long
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Maybe I am misinterpreting but there seems to be an implication in this question that society accepts male masturbation but not female. Personally I have a fantasy of mutual masturbation which I would like to try and have never got around to yet; but I feel reassured by the idea of female masturbation as well as stimulated - a sort of confirmation that my urges are normal and not a matter of shame and beastliness as advocated by religious freaks etc. This started with my mother noticing I had an erection (I was young), and saying "Have you been playing with yourself" instantly I realized that this was considered wrong and denied everything luckily my libido was strong enough to overcome such inhibitions but I hope this illustrates my point and also relates to my earlier post that the British did not have any kind of sex until the 60's.
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Not in my world! lol...its one of my favourite hobbies and doubly enjoyable if done with a friend x
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Quote by AngelNZ
Not in my world! lol...its one of my favourite hobbies and doubly enjoyable if done with a friend x


I agree!!
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I'm sure many of the girls these days do it.... at least i do, and i don't think its a taboo. It's just about learning more about your own body.
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Maybe, and if so bollocks. Same for men as well.
What's the difference?
Sexual repression screws people and relationships up.
Masturbate as much as you want to enjoy, satisfy and explore your sexuality.
Just remember avoid doing it in public and leaving stains.
Take care on how how vigorous and frequently you do it as to avoid chaffing.
Although just find someone to kiss it better.

Stay healthy, relaxed and enjoy yourself. Release it all.
Of all our inventions for mass communication,
pictures still speak the most universally understood language.

Walt Disney
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Well it's pretty much one of the most normal and natural things you can do? "Taboo"?? Only if it makes the Lush story hotter!!
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why the hell should it be taboo! so sexy a woman with her fingers in her pussy
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Cliche, but it depends. While I'm pretty dang comfortable with doing it...I don't feel comfortable talking about it in the RL. I suppose most women do it, but sometimes I still struggle with whether or not I think it fits well with my religious beliefs. Or...at least the avenues through which I masturbate (I.e., porn, cybering...). So... It depends.
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Absolutely. For example, I bought a friend of mine as a vibrator as a "Happy Divorce" present and she was sooo embarrassed! I still don't think she's used it. The funny thing is, she's not even prudish. We've made out together and fondled each other in front of others and she's the first one to flash everyone at a party.

My girlfriends and I talk about everything to do with sex, except touching ourselves.
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Absolutely. For example, I bought a friend of mine as a vibrator as a "Happy Divorce" present and she was sooo embarrassed! I still don't think she's used it. The funny thing is, she's not even prudish. We've made out together and fondled each other in front of others and she's the first one to flash everyone at a party.

My girlfriends and I talk about everything to do with sex, except touching ourselves.


Wow,some of your friends are a little uptight. I bought a GF a double ended dildo for her divorce party, she absolutely insisted we try it there at the party. We got applause from the other women there.
kisses, amy
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I bought a GF a double ended dildo for her divorce party, she absolutely insisted we try it there at the party. We got applause from the other women there.


I have found that when using a double ended with anyone new, it always gets that reaction!

Love it!

Kisses!

Steph
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To me its completely normal. my friends and i have had a show and tell with our toys before.
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Hell no it is so sexy i love to watch a woman have naughty fun with herself
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Why should this even be a question. Of course it's not and never should have been throughout time. If you feel it's taboo, then take your double standards and join an asexual group in the middle of nowhere. Women have needs as well and don't always have a partner.
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I didnt realise it was ever taboo ... absolutely nothing wrong with it as far as I am concerned. As Betheny says above .. women have needs aswell as men.

I would also say, just a perception from threads and posts I have read here since I joined, that women do it more than the men and even if they have a healthy and regular sexual life.
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I have absolutely no problem admitting to the fact that I do masturbate, and admitting that I am just as sexual as any man. However, many of my female friends will not admit to it, claim to never have done it, never talk about sex... I think it's sad that they consider masturbation something to be embarrassed by when it is the most natural thing in the world... I guess it's a little bit British to deny the fact that women are sexual beings..
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The sale of sex toys is almost a $1 Billion industry. They are sold on home shopping channels on Cable TV. Trojens even advertises them on broadcast TV. So I do not think the taboo stigma of female masturbation is there.

I know you asked women in their 20's. I am 43 and masturbate just about every day (most days more than once). But I know many 20 somethings and they all masturbate and are not ashamed of it.
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well said and damn whenever I look at your profile I get this flipping music start up !! So wrong !!
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Masturbation is not taboo for anyone. If someone claims they dont', I'd be skeptical.
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If it is, I never heard about it.
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I didnt realise it was ever taboo ... absolutely nothing wrong with it as far as I am concerned. As Betheny says above .. women have needs aswell as men.

I would also say, just a perception from threads and posts I have read here since I joined, that women do it more than the men and even if they have a healthy and regular sexual life.


Well said John. Masturbation for a woman a Taboo? How silly.