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Guest
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 12:02:53 PM

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to me age doesn't matter it depends if your happy ;)
Poppet
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 12:14:31 PM

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Yes, of course it bloody well matters. I think this question has been asked to death.

MadMartigan
Posted: Friday, October 25, 2013 12:31:03 PM

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Poppet wrote:
Yes, of course it bloody well matters. I think this question has been asked to death.


This......Damned question has been asked to death.
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Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2013 12:33:10 AM

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Answer to the OP, no, it doesn't matter to me, however to be completely honest, not sure how would I feel about being with a guy younger than I am.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 30, 2013 8:03:38 AM

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Poppet wrote:
Yes, of course it bloody well matters. I think this question has been asked to death.


From experience, I can tell you it does matter! From my research in the matter, it is agreed among the experts, it does matter.

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Posted: Wednesday, October 30, 2013 9:37:51 AM

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Not at first, but as you get older it's hard to keep up with a woman who is 13years younger she still wants a hard cock, and if you have trouble getting a hard cock, your sex life can go down hill, but if you have a younger friend that will help you out, as I do then there isn't a problem as I enjoy watching as much as fucking.
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Posted: Wednesday, October 30, 2013 10:31:58 AM

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It would be more informative to give answers that actually say something more than "yeah", "naw". Like it matters when you have learned over the years how to pleasure a pussy with your tongue, fingers, etc., or you can no longer get it to stand up but you now know how to lick a vulva to ecstasy. That's how it matters to me.
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Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2013 7:47:11 AM

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no i don't think it matters at all

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2013 11:28:53 AM

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What matters in any relationship are: Love, trust & Respect for each other..
rest all are not so important...
Dawn1
Posted: Friday, November 15, 2013 5:21:03 PM

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Georgie1 wrote:
Age only makes a difference if it is allowed to.


i agree if you love them is all that matters
Guest
Posted: Friday, November 15, 2013 8:13:04 PM

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Thank you Dawn1 for agreeing with me. Nice to have other people think alike
curvygalore
Posted: Saturday, November 16, 2013 3:30:58 PM

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Its valuable that this topic recurs on the forum as its obviously a topic that matters to people. What's so interesting is the different responses and opinions based on life experience and personality. As I get older I tend to drawn to younger men, as I feel we have more in common, but am always happy to be surprised...
darlvanhorn
Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 12:17:48 PM

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Guest wrote:
In theory, age doesnt matter. However, I think there are the obvious generation gaps and maturity differences that can affect a relationship.



10 year gap with my partner and we've been the gether for 14 years now.
what I hate about it, is when I am mad at him, he thinks I'm acting like a child. that really pi**es me off.

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Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 12:52:56 PM

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It really depends on the individual when it comes to their personality and sex drive. If they are pretty mature cool, but I have been in a few relationships with girls younger than me and they still have that issue that everything that is wrong in a relationship was my fault. I was once in a relationship with a girl a few years older than me, and she was more immature than an 18 year old. So, I guess it really depends.
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Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 12:53:41 PM

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I think age does matter. I wouldn't want somebody much younger then me or much older then me. Maybe 2 years younger and 10 years older and that would be about it.

My husband is only 3 years older then me.
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Posted: Monday, November 18, 2013 1:16:10 PM

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Not really a problem.

When I was 25 I was with a woman 50 for about 6 months. She was a friend of my mothers though and I think she got embarrassed and quit which made me quite sad. I didn't have any problem with it.

I married a woman 5 years older than me with 4 kids and we've been together for 43 years now. All those kids are my kids and have been calling me "Dad" for all that time. Their father is an asshole. They know it but he is the one subject I can't talk to them about. We had another son, now 38, and kind of informally adopted a 23 year old with a baby girl 13 years ago. She's our kid and has been for 13 years and now has a 6 year old son.

A wife, 6 kids! 15 grand kids and 2 great grand kids and I have been happier than if I had good sense all this time.

My recommendation?

Go for it.

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meryl
Posted: Thursday, March 27, 2014 8:09:06 AM

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not at all, heart always dictates anyway....but I still think that same interest and compatibility plays a big role....
Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 27, 2014 8:56:52 PM

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Nope IMO age is just a number, it's your mind that matters.
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Posted: Thursday, March 27, 2014 9:51:18 PM

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doesn't matter to me. The heart wants what it wants
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Posted: Saturday, March 29, 2014 7:36:36 AM

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Honestly, I think we use age quite often as an excuse to soften the "No" we give to people sometimes. But all things considered, age does matter to me. And justifies the excuse - somewhat.x
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Posted: Tuesday, April 8, 2014 2:40:48 PM

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Beyond the obvious legal reasons, substantial age differences can have issues. A generational gap of interests, as well as physical incompatibilities in later years can be potentially problematic.

Just keep wallowing in your own chaotic insecure delusions.
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Posted: Monday, April 14, 2014 9:10:27 AM

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I would hope it doesn't matter. As a younger man I have been with older women ands an older man younger women. What matters is the passion one and effort one brings to the relationship.
simplyjohn
Posted: Monday, April 14, 2014 11:01:17 AM

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I am 54 next month (quick sell .. 10th!! ok .. all presents accepted) so I would go 33% of my age either way ..

Seriously if both partners are comfortable with it, and I think that word summarises/encompasses many things, then why the hell should it.
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Posted: Monday, April 14, 2014 12:54:15 PM

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Age is a state of mind. Depends on the people involved and if they can cope with the comments of others for whom it is a problem.

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 3, 2014 10:51:19 AM

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Theoritically, it doesn't. But practically...it's difficult. My advice, just give it a try. If both of you guys don't have any problem, then go ahead :)
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 3, 2014 11:24:24 AM

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I think it matters, I want someone whose on the same wave length as me. There are cute young guys, but I'm not really sexually interested in them, too old, too young.. I want someone about my age.
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Posted: Thursday, July 3, 2014 5:39:32 PM

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it only affects the relationship if you let it. I myself have no problem with age or how far the gap is. If your both happy and don't see it as a problem then no it doesn't matter.
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Posted: Thursday, July 3, 2014 6:35:32 PM

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It matters to me. Sexually, I prefer younger partners. For a life-partner, someone around my own age.

Henry73au
Posted: Thursday, July 3, 2014 9:25:01 PM

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Age should not matter as much as long as both parties are okay with it.
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Posted: Sunday, August 24, 2014 1:12:19 PM

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So here is how I would look at it, having had affairs with guys up to 20 years older than me. An affair is fine, good sex, hopefully has money and wants to make you happy. But if you are thinking marriage serious then it is a whole different kettle of fish. What happens when you are 60 and he is 80, or 50 and 70? You will be the caregiver for a guy who can no longer keep up with you and will probably expect you to take care of him. If you are that committed, then fine but go into it with your eyes totally open to what the future will bring. It is BS that 60 is the new 40, or whatever they say.

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