I have those moments, like right now, where I have overwhelming urges to eat pussy and nothing else. I could care less about being touched in the moments; I just what soft thighs wrapped around my face, that delirious taste, feel her rising and pushing up into me, and her lovely juices coating my lips and tongue.
Is that unusual? Does it seem weird that a man feel only moments of servicing (although I wouldn't say it is service because I wan it)? Do you ladies get the same urges where all you want is to suck cock or lick pussy? Aside from merely answering yes or no, please provide how you feel. I like the mental insights, as they are enlightening.
You really make a lot of assumptions, and no you are not correct. I like to understand how people think. It is more interesting. Some people have complex feelings and thoughts, and that makes THEM more interesting, ie Nikki, Dancing Doll, Kimasa and others.
I'm not really sure I understand the nature of your question. I always just assumed that, yes, people have those urges naturally. You're going to have to explain yourself much better and present your question more tastefully if you want legitimate answers to your questions. Right now I'm not sure how anyone could interpret it differently than slipperywhenwet2012 has.
Clarity is key, and you were anything but clear. Maybe try clarifying exactly what it is you want to know, ask the right people if you're posting in the wrong place, or try again all together after having spent some time thinking about what are really asking.
It wasn't my intent to simply pile on, but I thought it would be good for you to hear it from more than one person.
Though, after having backtracked your forum history...
You do seem like you're mostly interested in the details of the sex lives of individuals, rather than the general picture you act like you're going after. Again, not exactly to pile on, but you'd probably be better off being direct, and the people you want to answer you might surface a little more.
Again, you are wrong. Enjoy sexual discussion, sure, but where you have criticized me multiple times, others have not found it hard or challenging to give a nice, thoughtful, conceptual, deliberative, insightful answer. They even use paragraphs to reply. I ask for details simply to encourage discussion as opposed to yes, no, maybe. If they share ideas or issue related replies, even better. If that troubles you, just leave it alone. But I really do not want to argue in this forum. What initially attracted me to this forum was the more insightful conversation, philosophical even. However, I also noticed one is far more likely to have answers replied to if one asks very basic level questions, so I mixed in a bit of that. Again, I respect your beliefs, but I don't go around commenting if I don't like your answers. And yes, I ask the gals, since that is what this forum is. I am a guy. I don't need to ask a guy.
It actually doesn't trouble me, and it didn't sound to me like it troubled many of the other posters in this and your other threads. I was honestly giving you advice on how better to get what it seemed like you're after, and if that's not it, then I was making the suggestion that you change your linguistic tactics so we could better understand what you are looking for. Nobody was being belligerent, I was just trying to help, honestly and I think reasonably politely. I do apologize for offending you, but I wasn't saying there's anything wrong with what my impression of your intent was. It's just the phrasing you use that makes you sound a certain way. Here's my advice boiled down into very simple, very polite terms: If you're looking for an academic answer, use academic phrasing.
Since you asked me not to comment here, it seems apparent that you checked my profile and discovered it said I am "male", but you either didn't read far enough in to discover that I am in fact a fully identified trans woman, or you are rejecting that notion as invalid. You say you respect my beliefs (and I'm not sure to what prompted you to say that...), but if you can't accept that I'm a woman enough to offer advice as one, then that seems a little intolerant to me. As I say, I'm not sure what you meant by most of your response to my posts, but I assure you, I am for all purposes in terms of this forum, a woman. I have to say that I feel like I have plenty of right to comment here, especially because you weren't asking for specific insights into what certain parts of female anatomy feel like, I think I am completely qualified.
In answer to your original question, though, yes. I do feel compelled to go down on my partner sometime without an agenda to be pleasured by them or even at all during a specific encounter. It may be more rare for me than you, but I think it's a totally normal and good thing, and I'm sure any partner(s) of yours would agree.
applause to prism. respcect my man. respect. forget about those 2
Centerline, just so you know, my comment was not directed to you, so sorry if it came off that way. I was typing while you were posting, and did not view your comments until I posted myself. I am not blazing fast on the iPhone.
Personally, I love open ended questions, and let the answerer (?) make it their own and do with it as they shall. As far as one to one questions, I do believe when did you last masturbate and do you like your own pussy juice are pretty one to one. Those are fine questions. I like asking more thought based questions - if possible. When I talk to people, I ask about their kids, their favorite art, what they think about politics. This is a sex forum, so I ask what they think about sex, not what America thinks about sex.
Honestly, the root of asking what women think about being serviced was I was with a woman (for a long time) that wasn't very sexual and was uncomfortable with being the receiver. She was very traditional, old school, and felt more proper in providing. It was a religious, emmbedded upbringing that she could not shake. She was amazing in many other ways. So, since the ladies here feel VERY differently, I like getting into their personal thoughts, because I wanted to understand, because I have been perplexed. I feel as most of you do, love your openness, get relief from it. So there it is. Sorry if TMI.
Thank you!!!! Now, that wasn't hard at all, was it? : )
Thoughtful, insightful, caring, personal, love it!
Yes. I do. But if that were merely what I sought, hearing intimate details about the biological and chemical operations of your tits and pussies would suffice (pleAse note a touch of sarcasm). Of course reading talk about sex is, well, sexy. It damn well better be. What really stimulates is the sensual/ sexual thoughts and feelings women have. It is titillating and informative. Often more arousing than porn.
And last, never ever say my tingle is wee.
Yes but from a different angle or even a mirrored view point from the one you describe.
I love the acts and the sensations associated with sucking cock and eating pussy but I don’t have a self-motivated urge, need or craving to do either. I respond to someone wanting or urging me to perform the act on them, pleasuring and making them happy. I’m very happy to give without receiving and have done a number of times, although this has mostly been with guys. Women have a stronger inbuilt desire to give or reciprocate than men do.
Of course I do it of my own free will and only with men or women I’m happy to do it with, and I might add I’m not talking in large numbers here. According to Beverly Engle I probably have one or more of the seven Nice Girl Syndromes’.
In answer to your question it’s not weird that a man would feel moments of only wanting to give (sounds much nicer than servicing) but it’s a rare occurrence in my experience.
Wanting to do something sexually at the exclusion of other types of sex sounds as if it has become a fetish. That isn't a bad thing, just another way to enjoy sex
I don't think I've ever had specific cravings related to *only* sucking cock, or at least no urges where they've consciously been at the exclusion of everything else. Not that I'd be opposed to that in real life - especially if I was being sexually dominated (not BDSM) and part of the play was him only allowing me to do one thing for however long he wanted me to. I have had fantasies like that, but again - I like the role-play aspect of being forced etc. - that's the underlying factor, more than just a random craving to suck cock. Otherwise, my fantasies/urges usually involve the whole spectrum of sex. There is one exception though - penetration - I can genuinely say I do have urges or thought-patterns there. I'm more likely to have 'quickie' fantasies about penetration - being bent over something or pushed up against the wall or onto the floor and fucked, rather than quickie-fantasies about oral.
I should also say (and I'm not sure if this works the same for all women) but when I'm thinking about sucking cock, or getting fucked, there's aways a specific visual in my mind about who it is. In other words - it's never just a body part type fantasy. I think maybe men differ from women on this one. A guy might think "I have an urge to eat pussy" whereas a woman is probably more likely to think, "I'm dying to suck XYZ's cock"... know what I mean? It's probably not the same for all men and all women, but I think guys are probably more likely to be able to separate the two when it comes to these fantasy-uges. I've always had this theory that this may also be why some men think that posting close-up cock shots (with no body or face) is enough to get a woman turned on. Same thing as the whole glory-hole fantasy. When it comes to fantasy-land, a dick by itself is not enough.
I really cant say I ever get those feelings. When I think about having sex with a man or a woman, it is about having a full experience. I want to suck his cock or lick her pussy but I want to do other things too and have him/her do things to me too.
I have at times spent hours just licking a womans pussy and bringing her to orgasm after orgasm just becasue I wanted her to have a special day!! I have sucked a guys cock for long periods of time too because he enjoyed it and once he cums I may keep sucking until he cums again. I love to bring pleasure to my partners. But this is very spontaneous. I dont crave just doing one thing for long periods of time.
OMG, sucking cock or eating pussy for hours. This makes me sound like such a slut. HAHA!!
That's fine, Prism.
I wasn't really offended, I just couldn't figure what you meant. I think this worked out fine anyway, because in your posts responding to us, we were able to really understand what you meant.
To elaborate on my actual answer to your question, I'm pretty much with Dancing_Doll. I have a solid inclination to do something for someone, not necessarily to an object or a body part. I sometimes have an urge to either suck a cock, but it's either an abstract "damn. I don't get to suck cock now that I have a girlfriend..." or a fantasy about a specific person and the reactions I could provoke from them. Same with going down on a woman, be it my girlfriend, or somebody else I may be thinking about.
I am going to go against the instructions here. Do I get urges? Yes.
So it's not just us, then?
I'm blaming the painkillers. 
