Is it a myth that "90% of women will never cum from anything but clitoral stimulation"?
I've heard this from dozens of people, mostly women. I feel like that must be at least an exaggeration. This is obviously for everyone to answer, but my target demographic for this question is women who had infrequent vaginal orgasms or never had them, but then discovered what does it for them.
I (and I'm sure many of us) would greatly appreciate any enlightenment that might be offered on the subject.
Ouch, cutie. Right in the pride :P
I think Cutie is right. I find it really hard to climax without clitoral stimulation. G-Spot orgasms are like one in a million it seems!
I appreciate the responses a lot, but maybe I should clarify. I realize it's comparatively difficult to induce a vaginal orgasm, but I was asking if it's outright impossible for some women. Men can utilize other tools besides the penis. Fingers, hands, even arms in some cases, but mostly I meant toys. I realize it's more difficult, and I know few women who even masturbate going after a g-spot orgasm, but I've been told it's a biological impossibility for most women to have an orgasm using any part of the body besides the clitoris, and that's what seemed unlikely to me. Thanks in advance for any further insight.
It's just not true, what you heard about orgasms being limited to clitoral stimulation. I can, and do, orgasm without it, and I know I'm not the only one. What most of us would agree on, though, is that good clitoral stimulation is the expressway to orgasm, and my orgasms are often stronger that way.
It's just not true, what you heard about orgasms being limited to clitoral stimulation. I can, and do, orgasm without it, and I know I'm not the only one. What most of us would agree on, though, is that clitoral stimulation is the expressway to orgasm, and my orgasms are often stronger that way.
I've never heard this myth at all, in fact the opposite, ive heard the are several different ways to make a woman climax, and each orgasm is different. From what i heard, clit stimulation is the easiest way to make a woman orgasm, and takes the least time, but its also the least intense, whereas i've heard that stimulation of the G-spot (located on the front wall of the vagina about an inch or two in) with a couple of well educated fingers, is the way to give the woman her most intense orgasm, and is the most likely way of inducting a "squirting" climax (which is definately the holy grail of all sexual experiences btw), but it also takes the most time, and requires the most technique. Im not sure about where deep penetration is on the richter scale, but probably inbetween clit and g-spot for intensity, and i'm sure there are a couple of other ways too, but i can remember what they were now....
Sorry, i know this is the gals section, but i though this answer may help the discussion...
I had never orgasmed purely from vaginal stimulation. Now, that's not to say that I didn't enjoy the sensation, I do. It's incredibly arousing to feel a nice thick shaft moving in and out...
Recently though, I DID experience a purely vaginal orgasm!! (I'm surprised you all never heard me!!!)
Basically, cowgirl and a lovely large member must have got me right in the g-spot...
My god, it was wonderful!
Here's to many more!!
I have had 'vaginal' or G-Spot orgasms but not often. I need to be really excited and even then it fails more often than not - I either get sore, frustrated (probably too wet to get enough friction) or get a weird sensatation that I need to pee really badly. I prefer clitoral orgasms anyway, so tend to use it as foreplay.
I've never had one but I've been right on the edge many times and that's a great sensation in itself
Thanks, everybody.
I basically wanted some confirmation that I wasn't crazy for being skeptical of a statistic like that. Many people have told me that it's simply impossible for most women. I knew it was more challenging and less common. From your responses I guess you'd be surprised at how insistent these people were that it's true. Maybe it's one of those conversation pieces that circulates locally and gets entrenched. Thanks again.
Women are capable of having many different kinds of orgasms provided they are open and comfortable with their bodies. I can and have had some of the best orgasms without ever touching my clitoris.
I can come from clit or vagina. I also can come if my pussy is teased enough while I'm bound, which usually means my clit gets hit a little in passing.
My partner much prefers just vaginal orgasms. Fingers alone are enough to send her over the edge, although I do have to work her up to it, which is at least half the fun.
I once had a girlfriend (back in my single days) whose most sensitive spot was on the base of her neck. Forceful kissing there made her come once or twice, but there were so many other luscious parts of her I didn't have the self control to do neck-only play.
I also had a girlfriend whose clit was so sensitive that she literally couldn't stand much direct contact. Circling around it and using my fingers in her vagina was more than enough to get her screaming (she was a grade A screamer).
Based on reactions from partners, I'd guess that how they reacted to me was sometimes different from how they reacted to other people. I think there is some kind of sexual chemistry thing that ultimately is unique for any two people.
For me, clitoral stimulation is almost a necessity. I can cum with my pussy, ass, mouth, and even pee hole filled but having my clit stimulated is what puts me over the edge.
For me clitorial stimulation is not thát neccessary.
I can cum by penetration, preferable with a vibrator, by contracting my vaginal muscles (No penetration/ hands used)
I don't cum often only by clitorial stimulation, I really like vaginal stimulation.
