I love to go down on a woman, I have satisfied many women orally and love doing it, but my current woman won't let me try. Kind of puts a damper on things. So why are some women like this and what can us men do break the ice?
Some women just don't enjoy it. It goes for anything that we don't enjoy. I'm sure there are things you don't like done to you, as well.
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Personally I love it.. I can't get enough. But I know my sister isn't a fan. It does nothing for her.. I tell it's cause she's never been with someone who's done it proper! Need to try it again!!! :3
If it's done properly it sends me to the moon!!
Because u have to make them feel that it is the best thing and make them cum in ur month. I personnaly love it
All absolutely LOVE IT if done properly.
I have never met one that doesn't like it. Maybe, brush before you eat.
Because just like chocolate, not everyone likes all things good.. It doesn't make them bad, but it is what it is. Some may feel too vulnerable or insecure about their bodies to really just let go and enjoy it or they simply don't like the idea or just flat out don't get off from it (which means the dude just isn't doing it right). You should talk it out with her and see if this is something she may be willing to open up to with you, but don't make her feel inadequate because she's not into it. Just express to her that this is something you enjoy doing and you want to please her but you want her to feel comfortable. She will be more willing to hear you out and come up with a solution that works for you both.
Surely it is "eaten" thus implying that they have been devoured or consumed and would it not be preferable to offer licked as an alternative?
You say tomato and we say tomatoe or of course I am just an tight prick from across the pond. Sorry to be pedantic, I will shut up now
I know we are all different and have different needs. However at the same time few men really know what they need to do to give the lady the pleasure she needs.
Hope some woman taught you what you need to know to please a woman.
Now the contradiction, just because have satisfied the last 5 woman, it does not mean the same will do the job with the next.
Ever heard the word communication? If you know her well enough to that intimate with her don't you think you could ask "What can I do to make it better for you?"
I can personally say that if the girl was brought up in a strice houseold where everything about sex is dirty, then she can't get past her upbringing. I know of a lady who just loves sex, but refuses to be eaten, yet she will suck a cock. Amazing I know, but thats her.
Want it all the time if done properly
Have not found a female who does not enjoy getting oral.
My wife does not like it and she says it does absolutely nothing for her. I know its her because of all the ladies i have been with, she is the only one i could not set over the edge.
To answer the question I would say that all women are sensitive down in their genitalia and some are possibly more sensitive than others therefore it tickles or irritates insted of bringing pleasure to some. Its the same with anal some like it some don't
I think it's 'eaten' not 'ate' but I do get the question.
The key to satisfying a woman 'down there' is to know her 'up there'...her mindset about her boundaries should be apparent or you have no business 'down there'.
If you have read her properly, and have any game at all...she will enjoy the sensations that your mouth and tongue will give her. If not...well, try watching some porn together and maybe both of you will learn something.
I love my womans wet pussy...can't get enough of it. Happily, she is more than happy to spread her legs and let me eat.
I love to smell her arousal and I tell her so. I love to spread her pussy lips and I tell her so. I love to dart my tongue in and out and I tell her so. In other words, I let her know she's beautiful 'down there' and believe me verbalizing during feeding time gets great results!
Hope this helps...
I think it's probably an insecurity thing for some women - either that the guy doesn't really want to do it, or maybe fear of taste/smell being off.
If a guy is reassuring and enthusiastic about it, it will probably help alleviate some of the worries. This is where dirty talk can really be useful in keeping the momentum going.
No doubt there are a variety of reasons why some women don't like it. We all have our likes and dislikes. For the women who don't like it and for the men who don't like it or the men who want to change their partners' mind about it... go slow, be sensitive to her needs and body language, encourage feedback and maybe it will work out for you in the way you hope. Good luck.
I love it personally, but some women just don't get turned on by it. I've never asked why though, sorry.
Anything you think is sweet, I'm a little more than that.
Damn! I couldn't imagine not wanting to receive oral!
What I don't understand is men who don't like going down on a woman. There are a few of them.
Some women are just more sensitive to it. I know I can't stand Mr Sweets going down on me or even touch my clit as it's more of an annoyance of pain then pleasure. If I touch myself however I can bring myself to cum.
"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."
Simone de Beauvoir
There is a somewhat outdated view, that some people still hold, that those giving oral sex are adopting a submissive role. Another view is that for men, cunnilingus is a weak act - performed by those who can't get it up. A woman that holds these views, and likes to be more submissive in sex, probably wouldn't think much of a guy going down on her.
Some women may just want to be held down and fucked.
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Wow, it must be bad, if they can smell it from all the way down there. 
