i would say yes to this, except i don't think of that being "his own medicine."
I've tried it in the past and I have no interest in doing it again. I barely had any interest in it when I was doing it, but I'm a sub not a domme or a switch.
As someone else suggested, try the BDSM section.
it depends on what he did. for sure i would
I once dated a woman a few times that seemed very interested in me but every time I tried to get her turned on she seemed kind of bored.
I finally told her that I felt like I couldn't make a connection with her and she said.... <drum roll>.............
"You are like all the other guys that automatically assume that all women want to be dominated and I believe that men are a bunch of pussies and that women should dominate men".
I made the mistake of telling her that women cultivated that and that I found it to be true despite her belief to the contrary...
She got pretty mad and challenged me to let her do as she wanted with me as long as she left me with no marks or serious injury... Holy crap Batman!!! LOL
I guess the best way to describe the outcum was that I got screwed, blewed, and tatooed and ate a pretty big plate of crow before it was all over but I admit that it was a hell of a lot of fun and I returned for a few more visits before she started getting too rough and started showing me her "dark side" that seemed almost evil to me. No telling where it or I would have ended up if I hadn't turned chicken and quit answering her calls...
I think that if you want to really be open to sex and enjoy it fully, you need to try a lot of different things and I think I can say I've been there and tried that to most stuff I've been fortunate enough to encounter. Sex can be a multifaceted and intensely pleasurable experience if you let your inhibitions go and accept that consenting adults can find a LOT of different ways to explore each other's bodies and minds and still keep it fairly safe and fun.
Sooooo.... To answer the question.... YES!!! I'm down with that.... ;)
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
I have limited experience with this, but yes, I enjoy a switch in power play now and then, depending on whether the guy is into it. Some are, but many aren't.
It's just another variation of role-play and thus what may be considered 'degrading' sexually has no bearing on your non-sexual relationship. The same goes for women who enjoy rougher/degrading sex. Sex is sex. It's not necessarily a reflection of anything other than exploring and sometimes testing the limits of consensual pleasure.
One of the reasons I started misbehavin' (years ago) was because a steamy guy at work thought he knew all about women and seduction. (He was sexy and I wanted him, but his attitude pissed me off) I decided he needed to have his "perspective" adjusted. I took control and never let him have it back. No complaints from him so far.
It's fun for role play, but I'm not into the whole degradation thing. But flipping the script, tying him up, getting a bit rough...I'm all for it. But I'd never want to degrade my guy. Everything about that turns me off.
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