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Poppet
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 7:29:18 AM

Rank: Sweetest Cricket

Joined: 10/5/2012
Posts: 6,077
Location: In Your Dirty Fantasies, United States
Alright I have a question. Of course I want answers from both Dom’s and subs on this because I think it’ll help get my answers faster if answered by both. You can be a male Dom, Female Dom, male sub, and female sub, whatever. It doesn't matter for these questions… Just as long as it is/was D/s relationship. This is more based for an online relationship, not an in real in person relationship.

(A lot of these questions are for subs but as a Dom you can answer if you have your subs do this.)

1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?

10. Are you allowed to whisper?

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?

12. Why do you have an online D/s?

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?

Alright I think that’s about it. I know it’s a lot of questions and a bit personal but I really would like to see how others live their online D/s relationships. Thank you for taking the time...


StillUndecided
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 9:05:29 AM

Rank: Captain Turtle

Joined: 12/27/2011
Posts: 851
Location: In my shell, United Kingdom
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) Writing, talking to new people

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) I was when I was a sub yeah, sexuall things taken away

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) Yes, cybering

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Yes

7. Are you required to put it on your profile? I have done and was required to in previous ones

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? Yes

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? Yes but I prefer not to private chat anyway and online messages are silly

10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with? Nobody likes me in the real world...

12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because I had been in regular online stuff and they always seemed to go really wrong (ha) but this current D/s situation fell well into my lap and was something I really wanted

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? Since I joined lush

Hope this is enlightening in some way. Fully aware I am extremely vague. Apologies.

Insert something witty here.
JamieW
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 9:16:15 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/22/2012
Posts: 229
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?

I am currently <3 And three times before briefly.


2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?

Yes I have homework everyday.


3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)

Only simple things like post no less than four photos on Mistress's wall, Send Mistress a morning message every morning, explaining my day plans and what time I will be online, But sometimes I'll get extra, Like take a photo of my self, Write a poem/ story etc.


4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)

Yes I am punished, It depends on how I misbehaved, Can range from kneeling in my naughty corner, spankings or writing apologies, I won't be allowed to cum, or have sex taken away for a week, and up to extreme which i'd rather not say....

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)

When I'm with my Mistress 95% of the time we will voice call on Skype, And I will be using a cam soon, I send photos as well.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?

We don't hide it, but we never made in publicly official, People are just sort of finding it out them selves.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?

Yes I say on my profile all people need to know.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?

No, I have to ask Mistress before adding anyone.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?

Only if I ask, But I hardly ever private with anyone anyway...

10. Are you allowed to whisper?

Yes, Only if it's a private matter, not just for the hell of it.


11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?

No, My Mistress is my one and only <3

12. Why do you have an online D/s?

I don't know, never really planned it, I'm glad in happened though, And it's a great experience I think.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?

I have been in the life style about 5 months, roughly give or take.

Alright I think that’s about it. I know it’s a lot of questions and a bit personal but I really would like to see how others live their online D/s relationships. Thank you for taking the time...
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 9:20:17 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 701,057
1. Yes i am
2. Yes
3. post 5 pictures and a video daily on there wall
4. Yes i do, I've had to spank myself
5. Yes we have great sex, we cyber type and voice
6. If asked i do but i don't just come out with it
7. No not required(prob now will be lol)
8. Yes, but i don't unless i get to know them in the chat rooms
9. Yes but i only online message with my friends
10. Yes i think so but again i only do it with friends if needed
11. strictly just us
12. TBH I've never done it till recently and when i did i loved it, i have the perfect Dom and i love her.
13. just over a month
MdeSade64
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 10:30:29 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/12/2012
Posts: 10,953
Location: United States
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?

Yes, but not in a relationship at the moment.

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?

I didn't assign any.

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)

N/A

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)

Punishments were typically spankings. Something heaver if the sub was so inclined.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)

I have used sextying and phone. No opportunity to use video.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?

To others in similar relationships.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?

I have not required it a sub.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?

I don't restrict their relationships. I am not looking for a monogamous relationship. I don't expect to be everything to anyone.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?

I don't restrict my subs from interacting with others in any way.

10. Are you allowed to whisper?

See 9.

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?

I interact with a variety of people and leave my subs to do so as well.

12. Why do you have an online D/s?

It is fun to play with someone who likes this type of interaction.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?

I first started with a real sub over 25 yrs ago. Before that I had no personal contact with anyone into D/s. I was limited to reading and viewing porno materials.
sprite
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 10:50:13 AM

Rank: Her Royal Spriteness
Moderator

Joined: 6/18/2010
Posts: 18,020
Location: My Tower, United States
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
yes. with Mistress Laura.

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
occasinally, though it's not all the time. often it's stuff to make me feel better or that my Mistress knows i need to take care of. sometimes it embarrassing stuff, which i enjoy but aren't brave enough to do with being told to.

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
sometimes it's chores. like doing the dished, cleaning the house. sometimes i am told to go play with my wife or my kitty sitter or not wear any undies for the rest of the day.

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
yes. it doesn't happen often, but when it does, Mistress disappointment is punishment enough - that said, i have been deprived of time with her in the past. that's the worst.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
yes. i find private chat room cyber typing works best for me

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
it's on my bio :)

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
no, but i did it anyways - i am proud of being Mistress Laura's kitty. :)

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
yes.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
yep, though it's never sexual - i don't care to whisper unless it's really important. as for IMs, i have regular friend whom i talk to a lot here.

10. Are you allowed to whisper?
see above.

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
i have 'real world' wife who sometimes Dommes me and a kitty sitter as well who i play with - only ome Mistress, tho. :)

12. Why do you have an online D/s?
because i found the perfect Mistress on line! also, it allows me to get the darker side of my sexual cravings out in a manner that is safe and sane.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
not sure if i am truly in the lifestyle - its not 24/7 with me, but i have been with my Mistress over a year now, i think? (wow) and i was introduced to the bdsm lifestyle about 9 years ago, give or take.

Live, love, laugh.
TxKnight
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 3:18:58 PM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 12/27/2012
Posts: 58
Location: Deep in the ....., United States
Poppet wrote:
Alright I have a question. Of course I want answers from both Dom’s and subs on this because I think it’ll help get my answers faster if answered by both. You can be a male Dom, Female Dom, male sub, and female sub, whatever. It doesn't matter for these questions… Just as long as it is/was D/s relationship. This is more based for an online relationship, not an in real in person relationship.

(A lot of these questions are for subs but as a Dom you can answer if you have your subs do this.)

1. Yes and no, in real life, but with rules that apply to online situations as well.

2. I have given my sub both online tasks as well as "in real life" tasks.

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) New to it so still working on the details, but so far she cannot txt or chat and drive, cannot cyber without permission.

4. So far spanking only, but weldonperv and online BDSM sites are giving me other ideas

5. yes and In real life, trumps all type of cyber ;)

6. On lush yes, to select friends and family

7. No, but we both do

8. Yes my sub is, but she is selective anyway.

9. As long as it doesn't lead to cybering she can pvt chat

10. same as above

11. Real world only, but my sub has an online Domme

12. I don't

13. Just getting into it so, about 1 month or less. We are exploring the relationship together.


Alright I think that’s about it. I know it’s a lot of questions and a bit personal but I really would like to see how others live their online D/s relationships. Thank you for taking the time...
TxPrincess
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 3:47:35 PM

Rank: The Resident Princess

Joined: 10/6/2012
Posts: 326
Location: The Best Part, United States
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes, currently. StillUndecided is my Mistress (online only). TxKinght is my Knight(Master, online and RL)

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
I have only been given one assignment

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
I was to research BDSM relationships, I have just been asked to write a story.

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
I have been, with a no contact for a certain amount of time

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
Yes, cyber. Have not done any other type.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
Yes, it is on my profile, by request however I would have done it anyway. I also greet her and answer with mistress.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
I was asked to not required by my mistress, I just surprised my knight.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
yes, I have lately been asking my knight his thoughts.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
yes, but I only chat with friends, and only for personal stuff

10. Are you allowed to whisper?
Yes, but to friends

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
My knight says my answer is yes, but I really don't understand the question.

12. Why do you have an online D/s?
Cause it just came together and I wanted to explore RL and online. It creates a little more checks for me.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
In real life it has been as play only, as a lifestyle it is only weeks old. My online it is only a week old.

Alright I think that’s about it. I know it’s a lot of questions and a bit personal but I really would like to see how others live their online D/s relationships. Thank you for taking the time...
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Jinxy
Posted: Monday, January 07, 2013 7:21:10 AM

Rank: Princess Blondie

Joined: 10/10/2012
Posts: 3,113
Location: In His Heart, United States
Poppet wrote:
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?

Yes

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?

Yes, I do almost daily when I do see him at least.

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)

Pictures, videos, reading requirements, learning more about the style, having him recite something I have written, pictures n music on profile, and other stuff.

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)

Yes, he is. He's spanked or loss of time with me. It'll become more as we get deeper into our relationship.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)

Yes, I have sex with him. We cyber, cam, and voice.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?

Yes, we both do.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?

It wasn't required but it is there on both profiles.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?

I didn't take that away from him, no. He uses his best judgement.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?

Only with his friends.

10. Are you allowed to whisper?

I rather he didn't but it's not a rule.

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?

It's just us.

12. Why do you have an online D/s?

I've never met a man in person who's in the LS.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?

I wouldn't say I'm officially in it, I've always been this way though.


†Jinxy Approved†

Guest
Posted: Monday, January 07, 2013 9:39:58 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 701,057
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes, quite often I get asked to train or teach online

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
I wouldn't say daily but Yes I have assigned chores

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
Photos, exhibitionism, masturbate, and saying certain things like how to address Doms!

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
Spankings, Nipple Clamps, Orgasm denial

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
Yes to all

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
Yes, especially being a writer and a swinger in an open relationship

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
Yes they are, especially since I am honest in my profile

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
Depends on the sub, but usually I allow it as long as they tell me all

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
Yes I allow it, but again, I must know about it as soon as it happens or is over

10. Are you allowed to whisper?
Yes they are

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
Both

12. Why do you have an online D/s?
Usually because I get request a lot by subs, but also because it is fun

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
5 years












9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?

10. Are you allowed to whisper?

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?

12. Why do you have an online D/s?

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 4:16:07 PM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 701,057
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes in the past, but sadly not at present

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes, that is an aspect i adore

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) wearing lingerie under clothes and photos in public places to prove, toilet use controls, masturbation control, to send messages at exact pre-arranged times, daily thoughts on being a submissive, certain humiliating tasks daily with photos to prove - god so many things

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Deep heat to the cock ( god that is awful ), belts to the arse, chastity, lack of communication with Mistress for a set time ( not good ).

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) sometimes. Text if they are Uk based, cyber, long drawn out e-mail conversations, occasionally on phone ( not a great fave of mine )

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Online - yes i do, I am proud of it.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Not to date No, though i have done out of choice before

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? I have been yes

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? So far yes thanfully

10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, i was when in an online relationship

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?. I see a Domme from time to time in real too

12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because it satisfys a craving that i have not filled in a permanent real time relationship to date. I am uncertain if i would still persue if i was in a long-term relationship in real

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? - As a Dom for about 8 years, since freeing my sub inner self about two
LordOmega
Posted: Wednesday, January 09, 2013 12:33:48 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/24/2012
Posts: 129
Location: Marietta, United States
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
Absolutely I give them homework as a Master

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
All of those things mentioned I have used.

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
I do punish my subs if they misbehave.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
I require Skype in the long run. I will deal with others until the sub gets their material in order.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
All my subs are required to disclose who their Master is.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
Yes they are.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
No they are not as there are some people I do not want my subs exposed to.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
They can not without permission.

10. Are you allowed to whisper?
Not without permission.

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
There is normally people both in RL and online.

12. Why do you have an online D/s?
I believe that subs all have a right to a quality Master so that is why I have online relationships.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
I have been in it for over 15 years.

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overmykneenow
Posted: Thursday, January 10, 2013 1:00:18 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/8/2010
Posts: 1,301
Location: United Kingdom
Interesting post, I'll be fascinated to see if the response aren't entirely predictable.

For doms looking to participate, I've re-worded the questions with how I assume they're intended to be answered

Quote:

A. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?

B. If you have, have you ever assigned daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” to your sub?

C. If so, such as what? (eg, photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)

D. Do you punish misbehaviour? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)

E. Do you have sex with your sub? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)

F. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?

G. Do you insist your sub puts it on his/her profile?

H. Do you allow your sub to add friends at his/her own will?

I. Do you allow your sub to private chat with others (online messages or pvt messages)?

J. Do you allow your sub to whisper?

K. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your sub or do you have real world people you're with?

L. Why do you have an online D/s?

M. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?



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PhareDuFour
Posted: Saturday, January 12, 2013 2:57:55 PM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 10/23/2012
Posts: 58
Location: Germany
Poppet wrote:


1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?

Have been. It's not preferable, but it's better than no relationship.


2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?

Oh, yes. And the longer we were acquainted, the longer the list became.

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)

Daily conversations via chat/video; clothing (and lack of clothing) requirements; performance requirements; daily journal entries; task completion requirements

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)

LOL. It wouldn't have been much of a "discipline" relationship were there no punishments.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)

They were not exclusively on-line, and yet those who had the ability to control me, were able to do so by any means available, including utilizing all kinds of technological means.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?

Other than disclosing it in topic-related forums or blogs, only at the Master's insistance. The Masters's I have known had professional reputations to think of and didn't appreciate bondage photos on their Facebook timelines. I don't reveal it to people who have no empathy for the lifestyle. I am not one those BDSM pride activists.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile?

I've been requested to do that, but I would rather not do that anymore - at least not until some sort of trial period has expired. Yes, it does offer the Master yet another symbol of control, however it limits the Master as well.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?

I'm not sure what is meant by this. I didn't have exclusively online relationships. I didn't have a Master at FetLife. I've never been on Second Life. I have a number of online profiles which have no information about my sexual interests. A couple of gentlemen had some issues about the company I kept. We agreed that I would have little interaction with such persons during the udration of our relationship. We agreed that virtual acquaintances are out-of-bounds. It was irrelevant because the Master made so much demand on my time, that it didn't matter how many friends I would add. I had no time for them anyway.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?

Does this mean like at Lush? I suppose I could. It wouldn't matter if I did answer online messages if I were under ownership, because: a) the Master would know more or less the contents of such interactions b) I'm not inclined to cyber with passers-by c) the Master would monopolize my time so much, that there would be little room for these sorts of opportunities.

10. Are you allowed to whisper?

Yes. I was allowed to whisper, shout, scream, laugh or speak in a normal voice.

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?

N/A at the moment.

12. Why do you have an online D/s?

Because statistically, it's extremely difficult to find a partner in your neighbourhood who enjoys the same sort of bedroom/lifestyle activities you do. It's difficult enough to meet a vanilla person you might get along with and someone who is compatible. Lifestylers have extreme tastes. You narrow your view down from people who are not shy, not inhibited, and you have to continue to sort from all the possibilities of potential partners. Not shy, not inhibited, not afraid to take charge, not afraid to dominate, sexually experienced, not afraid to take the sub to her limits, not afraid to inflict coporal punishment, not violent, not purely sadistic, not volatile, not mentally unstable, has control over their emotions, has an above average intelligence, is knowledgeable in a broad range of sexual practices, etc ---all those things one expects a Master to be -- at that point it's over-optimistic to expect that they are also drop-dead attractive, rich and live next door, too.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?

Four years




Si vos postulo me, sed non vis me, oportet me manere.
Sed si vis me, sed non vos postulo me, oportet me abire.
findingnichole
Posted: Tuesday, February 05, 2013 9:41:52 PM

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Joined: 1/31/2013
Posts: 802
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1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) Pictures.

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Usually spankings.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) Cyber.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Yes

7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Yes

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? Yes

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? No

10. Are you allowed to whisper? No

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with? Currently just us as far as I know.

12. Why do you have an online D/s? It fulfills a fantasy and a "need" of mine.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? Almost a year.

You seem sweet, mind if I lick you to make sure?
Callisto
Posted: Friday, February 15, 2013 10:29:30 PM

Rank: Rocker of the cocker
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Joined: 8/23/2010
Posts: 3,249
Location: A secret, United States


1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes I have.

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) I'd rather not say.

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Yes I was.

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) Ahh, private as well.

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Yes I did.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile? No I wasn't.

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? Yes, I was.

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? Haha, yes I could.

10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, I was allowed to whisper.

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with? I'm not in a D/s relationship at the moment.

12. Why do you have an online D/s? I had an online D/s relationship because I wanted to.

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? Few years.


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