Alright I have a question. Of course I want answers from both Dom’s and subs on this because I think it’ll help get my answers faster if answered by both. You can be a male Dom, Female Dom, male sub, and female sub, whatever. It doesn't matter for these questions… Just as long as it is/was D/s relationship. This is more based for an online relationship, not an in real in person relationship.
(A lot of these questions are for subs but as a Dom you can answer if you have your subs do this.)
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
10. Are you allowed to whisper?
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
12. Why do you have an online D/s?
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
Alright I think that’s about it. I know it’s a lot of questions and a bit personal but I really would like to see how others live their online D/s relationships. Thank you for taking the time...
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) Writing, talking to new people
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) I was when I was a sub yeah, sexuall things taken away
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) Yes, cybering
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Yes
7. Are you required to put it on your profile? I have done and was required to in previous ones
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? Yes
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? Yes but I prefer not to private chat anyway and online messages are silly
10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with? Nobody likes me in the real world...
12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because I had been in regular online stuff and they always seemed to go really wrong (ha) but this current D/s situation fell well into my lap and was something I really wanted
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? Since I joined lush
Hope this is enlightening in some way. Fully aware I am extremely vague. Apologies.
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1. Yes i am
2. Yes
3. post 5 pictures and a video daily on there wall
4. Yes i do, I've had to spank myself
5. Yes we have great sex, we cyber type and voice
6. If asked i do but i don't just come out with it
7. No not required(prob now will be lol)
8. Yes, but i don't unless i get to know them in the chat rooms
9. Yes but i only online message with my friends
10. Yes i think so but again i only do it with friends if needed
11. strictly just us
12. TBH I've never done it till recently and when i did i loved it, i have the perfect Dom and i love her.
13. just over a month
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes, but not in a relationship at the moment.
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
I didn't assign any.
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
N/A
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
Punishments were typically spankings. Something heaver if the sub was so inclined.
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
I have used sextying and phone. No opportunity to use video.
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
To others in similar relationships.
7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
I have not required it a sub.
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
I don't restrict their relationships. I am not looking for a monogamous relationship. I don't expect to be everything to anyone.
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
I don't restrict my subs from interacting with others in any way.
10. Are you allowed to whisper?
See 9.
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
I interact with a variety of people and leave my subs to do so as well.
12. Why do you have an online D/s?
It is fun to play with someone who likes this type of interaction.
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
I first started with a real sub over 25 yrs ago. Before that I had no personal contact with anyone into D/s. I was limited to reading and viewing porno materials.
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes, currently. StillUndecided is my Mistress (online only). TxKinght is my Knight(Master, online and RL)
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
I have only been given one assignment
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
I was to research BDSM relationships, I have just been asked to write a story.
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
I have been, with a no contact for a certain amount of time
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
Yes, cyber. Have not done any other type.
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
Yes, it is on my profile, by request however I would have done it anyway. I also greet her and answer with mistress.
7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
I was asked to not required by my mistress, I just surprised my knight.
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
yes, I have lately been asking my knight his thoughts.
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
yes, but I only chat with friends, and only for personal stuff
10. Are you allowed to whisper?
Yes, but to friends
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
My knight says my answer is yes, but I really don't understand the question.
12. Why do you have an online D/s?
Cause it just came together and I wanted to explore RL and online. It creates a little more checks for me.
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
In real life it has been as play only, as a lifestyle it is only weeks old. My online it is only a week old.
Alright I think that’s about it. I know it’s a lot of questions and a bit personal but I really would like to see how others live their online D/s relationships. Thank you for taking the time...
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes, quite often I get asked to train or teach online
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
I wouldn't say daily but Yes I have assigned chores
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
Photos, exhibitionism, masturbate, and saying certain things like how to address Doms!
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
Spankings, Nipple Clamps, Orgasm denial
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
Yes to all
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
Yes, especially being a writer and a swinger in an open relationship
7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
Yes they are, especially since I am honest in my profile
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
Depends on the sub, but usually I allow it as long as they tell me all
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
Yes I allow it, but again, I must know about it as soon as it happens or is over
10. Are you allowed to whisper?
Yes they are
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
Both
12. Why do you have an online D/s?
Usually because I get request a lot by subs, but also because it is fun
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
5 years
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
10. Are you allowed to whisper?
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
12. Why do you have an online D/s?
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes in the past, but sadly not at present
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes, that is an aspect i adore
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) wearing lingerie under clothes and photos in public places to prove, toilet use controls, masturbation control, to send messages at exact pre-arranged times, daily thoughts on being a submissive, certain humiliating tasks daily with photos to prove - god so many things
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Deep heat to the cock ( god that is awful ), belts to the arse, chastity, lack of communication with Mistress for a set time ( not good ).
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) sometimes. Text if they are Uk based, cyber, long drawn out e-mail conversations, occasionally on phone ( not a great fave of mine )
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Online - yes i do, I am proud of it.
7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Not to date No, though i have done out of choice before
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? I have been yes
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? So far yes thanfully
10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, i was when in an online relationship
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?. I see a Domme from time to time in real too
12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because it satisfys a craving that i have not filled in a permanent real time relationship to date. I am uncertain if i would still persue if i was in a long-term relationship in real
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? - As a Dom for about 8 years, since freeing my sub inner self about two
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online?
Yes
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom?
Absolutely I give them homework as a Master
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.)
All of those things mentioned I have used.
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.)
I do punish my subs if they misbehave.
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?)
I require Skype in the long run. I will deal with others until the sub gets their material in order.
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship?
All my subs are required to disclose who their Master is.
7. Are you required to put it on your profile?
Yes they are.
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will?
No they are not as there are some people I do not want my subs exposed to.
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)?
They can not without permission.
10. Are you allowed to whisper?
Not without permission.
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?
There is normally people both in RL and online.
12. Why do you have an online D/s?
I believe that subs all have a right to a quality Master so that is why I have online relationships.
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle?
I have been in it for over 15 years.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. 1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) Pictures.
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Usually spankings.
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) Cyber.
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Yes
7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Yes
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? Yes
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? No
10. Are you allowed to whisper? No
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with? Currently just us as far as I know.
12. Why do you have an online D/s? It fulfills a fantasy and a "need" of mine.
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? Almost a year.
You seem sweet, mind if I lick you to make sure?
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes I have.
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) I'd rather not say.
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Yes I was.
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) Ahh, private as well.
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Yes I did.
7. Are you required to put it on your profile? No I wasn't.
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? Yes, I was.
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? Haha, yes I could.
10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, I was allowed to whisper.
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with? I'm not in a D/s relationship at the moment.
12. Why do you have an online D/s? I had an online D/s relationship because I wanted to.
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? Few years.