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BallChinian
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I invited by wife to join the Lush fun. Has anyone else invited their significant other? Did they join? Did it change your sex life at all?

(BTW, mine hasn't joined yet.)
"I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set her free." -Michelangelo


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(sigh) no, haven't invited her, she's not into this sort of thing I fear. Best of luck to everyone else though!
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Yes, my girlfriend joined last week
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No. My wife would not be interested. Besides, Lush is MY guilty pleasure. I'd like to keep it that way.
BallChinian
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I honestly feel a bit guilty by not including my wife in this. It's not like I plan on doing anything nefarious. I just want to make sure she can see anything I say if she desires. My dream is that she joins the fun and gets turned on by all the topics. Stretching our boundaries and getting out on those skinny branches is my goal.
"I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set her free." -Michelangelo


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The wife would be happy to but she works full time and is working on her masters degree. She doesn't have the time to spend with me that she would like. We are talking about writing a story together. She also sits over my shoulder now and again to see what sort of fun I'm having. Actually she has quoted a line or two from my stories during sex. I should have started this a long time ago! I include her as much as possible. She gets her degree next January... One more year to go. Then I'm sure she will join
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I haven't a significant other, but you can bet then when I do, I'll encourage her to join, if she isn't here already.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
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Well time for an update already... She just joined. smile
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I'm pretty open about my Lush time, I tried to get the wife to join and she showed absolutely no interest.
BallChinian
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Well time for an update already... She just joined. smile


Congratulations!
"I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set her free." -Michelangelo


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Quote by BallChinian


Congratulations!


Thank you. She is a very, very good writer. Much better then me.
By the way love the Michelangelo quote... very cool.
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Honestly, and I know this is VERY hypocritical but I would NEVER want to see any man of mine in my real life join Lush (or any porn/sex site) EVEN if it's alongside me. I'm not very good at sharing my men and as much as I might trust him, I'd still be worried that this place would only prove to divide us rather than bring us together. Men are men after all - offer up a never-ending buffet of titties and pussies and MOST men lose all sense of control and focus. Kudos to those men on here who can find the balance cuz it definitely ain't the norm - trust me. Been there and done that and won't be playing that game again
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Quote by BelleduJour
Honestly, and I know this is VERY hypocritical but I would NEVER want to see any man of mine in my real life join Lush (or any porn/sex site) EVEN if it's alongside me. I'm not very good at sharing my men and as much as I might trust him, I'd still be worried that this place would only prove to divide us rather than bring us together. Men are men after all - offer up a never-ending buffet of titties and pussies and MOST men lose all sense of control and focus. Kudos to those men on here who can find the balance cuz it definitely ain't the norm - trust me. Been there and done that and won't be playing that game again

I can understand this, and am similar. And it also depends on what each person expects to get out of any given situation.... to include sites like these. I don't have that issue because it simply isn't going to happen (for a number of reasons), but if people find each other on these sites and can enjoy aspects of them together, I am all fine and well with that (obviously). It is great when people can find that balance and things work out for all involved and no one feels neglected, unfulfilled, or less than what their expectations and desires were. I also understand that some people's actions, needs, and wants can change over time or they settle for what they think will make them happy, as opposed to not having anything at all. But it is wonderful when things finally match up for people, however they agree to the "partnership".... here or "out there".
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Thank you. She is a very, very good writer. Much better then me.
By the way love the Michelangelo quote... very cool.


Congratulations to your wife on her Masters. Even if it is a year in the future! What a wonderful accomplishment.
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I met my significant other here. ♥ I trust him 100%
freakycactus
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Mine joined a while ago, he doesn't use it in the same way that I do but he can see the things I write in the forum, comment on my stories. I didn't invite him to join but I was always honest about my membership here and although it was a surprise when he joined, it wasn't an unwelcome one. I have nothing to hide from him x
Master_Jonathan
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I invited baby a few days after I joined. We both love it here! smile
EDWolfe
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During my time even being aware of Lush, I've also been single. I do plan on being honest about my time on Lush, and inviting if I think my SO would be interested.

@Phoenix69: Congrats on getting the wife to join.
aussiephil
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If and when I get a SO I will be inviting her to join Lush because i think she could get a lot from the friendships in here.
Although I have friended a few people here i dont seem to chat to them much, but that may change smile
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Asked hub if he wanted to, showed no interest.