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Tranquil
Posted: Saturday, March 9, 2013 10:09:26 PM

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Hey Metalcase..How did it go? did you ask?



Jinxy
Posted: Saturday, March 9, 2013 10:26:01 PM

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mentalcase wrote:
lovestory

I really want to go out with his guy. But he does not seem to be taking the hint and I have never asked a guy out before.

Is a girl asking a guy out pathetic? No, not at all. Go for it....
will the guy get scared? He'll either get scared, or love the forwardness.
Should I just wait until he gets a clue? No

Thoughts and advice please.

Has it happened to you? Yes, I asked him out. He said yes.


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Icarus32
Posted: Sunday, March 10, 2013 12:01:31 AM

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i see nothing wrong with it. if the sexes truly are equal then why should it be an issue right?
Guest
Posted: Sunday, March 10, 2013 4:36:19 PM

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Been asked 3 seperate times by 3 differnt women, and each time caught me completely off guard. Didn't mind it at all, so go for it.
Buz
Posted: Sunday, March 10, 2013 8:16:06 PM

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Just ask the guy out. In my life most of my dates came from the girl asking me out. It doesn't matter who is doing the asking/inviting.




Delphi
Posted: Sunday, March 10, 2013 9:16:46 PM

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mentalcase wrote:
lovestory

I really want to go out with his guy. But he does not seem to be taking the hint and I have never asked a guy out before.

Is a girl asking a guy out pathetic?
will the guy get scared?
Should I just wait until he gets a clue?

Thoughts and advice please.

Has it happened to you?


Why wait for something you want? Go get him!

cheeseball
Posted: Friday, March 22, 2013 1:12:31 AM

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By all means, ask him out. I think most men like a woman that knows what she wants and is confident enough to go after it.
mentalcase
Posted: Wednesday, March 27, 2013 9:20:06 PM

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Thanks for all the advice and Support everyone. I slipped him my number and i'm hoping he'll call. I don't see him too often so and I chickened out a few times (Hence why it took so long) Fingers crossed!!!
LOVES4PLAY
Posted: Wednesday, March 27, 2013 10:29:22 PM

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For get slipping him a phone number, He may as goofy as I am , & has lost your number by now

Perhaps he had the same stunt pulled on him as I had,40 yrs ago & I still find it funny..
Just ask & Ill share it with you..

Had you asked & he was interested HE probably would have called or at least gone out of his way to locate you..
Should you see him again strike up a conversation. "did you loser that #, interested In ;Going,Seeing, doing ( what ever you want to try)
Master_Jonathan
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 2:42:10 AM

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I don't see why not. If you don't ask, you don't get. And we guys can be a tad bit dense sometimes!


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Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 30, 2013 4:49:24 PM

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This is 2013, not the Middle Ages. If you think it could be something good for your life, go for it! If you don't ask, you'll never know. There's nothing wrong with a girl knowing what she wants and asking for it. :)
mentalcase
Posted: Sunday, May 5, 2013 11:43:18 PM

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I finally asked him properly if he wanted to go out. He said no. oh well.
Guest
Posted: Monday, May 6, 2013 6:19:46 PM

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I realize some people are terribly shy and timid. Others have curious notions about social manners or have fears of rejection. BUT to the bold, Life opens many closed doors and asking another person out seems a possibility that can change your life. Go for it. Always. The most that can happen is they say No and it's a very small word.
funpuppy
Posted: Monday, May 6, 2013 6:46:36 PM

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Why on Earth not? If you like someone you like them. It doesn't matter who you are or what sex. Never pass up a chance at happiness.
Paulfromma
Posted: Monday, May 6, 2013 8:42:35 PM

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That sys it. Why the heck not?
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