Okay I have been on here for only a couple of weeks. I have enjoyed the wonderful debachery it has to offer. Now I find myself asking "is it only about sex...?"
Ladies does romance matter. In my life I have made many candle lit dinners for the women I have know. My favorite was a candle lit picnic... I had a woman leave a line of candles from the door to the tub so that when I came home all I had do so was follow. There were notes along the way, take off your shoes& socks, take off your shirt, the pants I want the pants!. At the end was her in a bubble bath and me in nothing but a tie. She never told me to take it off..she laughed. I loved it. I love sending flowers for no reason. Writing poems to make her swoon... My questions are....
Do you want to be romanced?
Whats the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
Whats the most romantic thing you have ever done for someone else?
John; Years ago I had your statement explained this way...Draw a small circle, now you know every thing inside of the circle...But know nothing of whats outside of it..So John will you please draw a larger circle around the first one.. Again you know every thing inclosed , but nothing of what ever is outsider the closure.. John pls stay with me, & draw a much larger circle.... WOW, you & I ARE REALLY GETTING A LOT SMARTER, SEA HOW MUCH EYE NO NOW,BUTT THEN MY MAIL EGO WAS SHATTERED , As my (nonresistant) wife explained that there a hell of a lot more that I don't know.... PROVEN BUY MY KNOWLEDGE OF ROMANCE..
Pulling into the driveway I was met by my (pretend ) wife, wearing heels, hosiery, corset,& every pore of her body of her body gave off a JUST FUCK ME aroma .. As she ran toward me , I said 'honey your cooking dinner again, I hear the smoke detector. Stepping into the house , I say,"Will you please blow out these damn candles & for gods sake turn on some lights, so I can sea what I'm eating...As my long dfeparted wife walked pass me she said,"don't weight up four me , cus I'm going to Johns..Guess your correct John romance is important... Joel
if y'all want mind blowing sex
bring on the romance
it is the foreplay..of foreplay.......
Wow only two replies.
Please a moment of silence.... Let us bow our Heads.... For it would seem... Romance is dead.
Romance isn't dead, but you must understand that many view lush as a hit it and quit it site. Horniness rules here, although there are many romantics here as well! You may or may not get the answers you thought you would in this thread.
I can't choose the most romantic thing someone's done for me, but a romantic meal on a chartered boat with flowers and soft jazz was a wonderful memory. And one time I sent my guy on a scavenger hunt and the final item to be found was me. He collected items that were important to us and some...other things. It was great!
I don't want to be romanced on a sex site. Nor do I usually want to cyber either, granted.
I feel I must reply! Women need to understand the pleasures of romance. Sexis just that SEX! I live, breathe and enjoy my life with phoenix. He is luv of my life. Now I have been in the opinion that sex is just a biological need that needed satisfied on occasion. However, my husband has taken me to a different level of joy and pleasure. Romance is not dead in my house and I morn for those who do not have it!!
I'm an oldschool romantic. I don't really think it's gone. It's my experience that a lot of guys actually like a romantic relationsship, but women so easily forget that it's a twosided relationship.
Lol romance, dead? No, the concept of romance is too strong, too many children are fed fairy tales, too many people dream, for it to ever be dead. Maybe the interest in answering this topic has died, for the simple reasons stated by those above. This is a sex site.
Romance also changes depending on two people's different perspectives, their motivation and effort and capability. When I was in a long distance relationship, this guy at my high school had a crush on me. He bought me a huge bouquet of flowers on valentines day even though he knew I didn't like him. He was full of romantic ideas. Then a few months later he started dating one of my other friends, their relationship was very physical, very fast, but I never saw him do anything romantic apart from the fact they were always together, and I suppose that was the way they shared a romantic relationship.
It certainly isn't dead, for Valentine's Day my lovely boyfriend is taking me to his favourite restaurant, 3350 miles away in New York! I can't wait! Then there are all the other lovely little touches of romance that he adds to my day, wrapping his arms around me, holding my hand and kissing me on the cheek, on my neck, just because he feels like it. And it works the other way round too.
Without romance, life would be dull.
I havnt had it yet an for that reason i hope its still alive
That's a good question. For me, romance probably is dead, but I think that say's more about me than it does about romance. I think when you're younger, romance and sex go hand in hand, but as I've got older, more embittered and probably more cynical, the idea of romance seems a sham.