Question: if your partner wanted to add a person of the same sex into the bedroom would you only let the person be there when you were present? I'd like thoughts and opinion.
If my partner felt a need to add a third person to our bed regardless of it being male or female, he would end up my EX! Sorry, not into sharing or being shared.
I have been struggled with this question myself in the past. I think I would have to be present and no communication between the two after.
I have been struggled with this question myself in the past. I think I would have to be present and no communication between the two after.
Hell no, I don't share either, but if I did and I had to make a decision about this, I would say absolutely it had to be the three of you together, NEVER just 2 of you, and it be only for the sex. No social contact. See? this is why I don't share...
That's why you have to be careful in the realm of threesomes inside of a relationship. Lines are crossed. Boundaries are tossed to the wind. Limits are really put to the test. It opens up all sorts of cans of worms. Unless of course you're not in a relationship and are just having a bit of fun. If my boyfriend wanted to add another chick to the mix, I won't lie, I'd be more than a little taken aback. There's always that feeling of inadequacy because you're immediately asking yourself "Why am I not enough?" And even if you talk yourself into it and enjoy it, you're still gonna feel apprehension before and after. That being said, no one who indulges in threesomes with someone they're exclusive with will ever want them to be with the other person without their involvement. Because eventually he'll think it's OK to fuck other women as long as you get to sample first or he lets you know beforehand.
Luckily my boyfriend isn't the sharing type, so it's not something I have to worry about. But you have to be careful with threesomes. They're a slippery slope.
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Wouldn't happen but on the off-chance that it did I think I would be agreeable
It takes a very secure relationship to with stand adding some one to the bed and very rare to find. I would warn against it to anyone. I'm with LOVES4PLAY, been there done and paid the price. So I would say no.