So after many years of complaining I finally lost my virginity, (I broke down and hired an escort)
However the problem is I barely felt anything it wasn't bad by any means its just I was really into it because I could barely feel it. And she was trying so hard but she couldn't keep up and she just couldn't keep up and eventually collapsed and couldnt go on.
My questions is anyone else like this:
That they can barely feel anything
Is this a good thing or a bad thing to have. ( I can see it being good for being able to go awhile before climaxing. But if the partner can't handle it the guy wont climax at all.)
Well at least I know now what its like.
Anyone can answer and comment not just guys.
I don't know what to tell you either however I am very curious to see what others might post about this.
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What DO you feel ?
There are so many variables to this equation, without further input no resolution is possible, only speculations.
You felt nothing physically? You may have developed neurosthenia, often caused by prolonged cockring use.
You felt nothing emotionally? What did you bring to the table? Were you going for the "girlfriend experience" or just standard prostitute behavior?
You felt nothing spiritually? Did you try to "connect" with the person within the escort?
What was it she couldn't keep up with? Were you using a boner enhancer like Viagra or Cialis? See above neurosthenia, as some men have said they feel detached from their penis when using these.
Did you try to bond with her? Did you expect to? Most genuine escorts are VERY expensive (we're talking $5000 minimum); was she a cheaper version? *caveat emptor* you get what you pay for.
What did you expect to feel? Empowered? Did you make your expectations known beforehand?
More data is required.
I agree with all of above. But if you felt nothing physically a doctor visit would be my first suggestion.
Too much masturbation. Your grip might be much tighter than a vagina and you probably stroke yourself at a much faster tempo, and if you've only used your hand for all those years then it can be a problem to adjust. Especially with a condom on. All you can do is stop jerking off for a while.
I wouldnt say i felt nothing I did feel the heat and the moisture, I guess I thought it would be more incridble than that and it was a last minute thing so I did jerk off eairler without the knowledge of hooking up with someone
This is a tactic often used by escorts and hookers to extract money in a very quick and calculated manor, often used with 1st timers who would often be scared to complain. How do I know this simple answer; I shared a house with a couple of working girls for around a year.
As many have mentioned, condom could be a factor(if you used one). There's a world of difference between a "normal" condom and one of the thinner types.
Also even just slightly adjusting the angle can do a lot too. Did that and it went from being super really awesome good to super really extra awesome good, and it wasn't by much I(or her, can't really tell) adjusted. So small details can mean a whole lot to the sensation, especially if you wore a condom.
Or it could just be the hooker trick that kyliekained mentioned. You haven't really given us much to go on.
Well it was a lot better this time round. I think I just was expecting too much really.