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That boner that just won’t go away

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Have you ever pressured a girl who won’t agree to full sex to give you a hand or blow job to relieve you and been satisfied with that as a compromise?
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Only the girlfriend if she's not in the mood. If I'm getting far enough with a random girl for her to agree to oral, then barring some kind of medical reason I can't see why she wouldn't want to move on to intercourse after that. And yeah pressure is the wrong word.
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When you use the word "pressure" the answer is no. Now to ask for a bj or hj, sure.
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pressure them? nah.

ask for a helping hand? sure.

as for bj, i never get those even when i have asked. only get excuses.
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Of course,it shows the lady cares & wants to relieve the pressure.
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When you use the word "pressure" the answer is no. Now to ask for a bj or hj, sure.


Pressure can be asserted in many different ways:

Persistent requests until she gives in.

Making her feel guilty about causing your hard on in the first place and it’s her duty to do something about it.
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Using pressure sounds very shabby, indeed. Asking for one or the other seems a shade unmanly to me. If the fellow doesn't have what it takes to deal with it, I'd not respect him nor I think would his woman.
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Saying "pressure" gives a really bad ring to the whole thing, like you're blackmailing her or something.

Although I've never been caught in the situation, I'd hope that my persistant nagging would finally go through in the end, or that I manage to find ways to turn her on even if she's not in the mood
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Saying "pressure" gives a really bad ring to the whole thing, like you're blackmailing her or something.

Although I've never been caught in the situation, I'd hope that my persistant nagging would finally go through in the end, or that I manage to find ways to turn her on even if she's not in the mood


I would say that persistent nagging is pressurising
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I would like to think that she would not need pressure. IF refusal is a persistent problem, I would dump her.
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I would like to think that she would not need pressure. IF refusal is a persistent problem, I would dump her.


goes both ways. if a guy isn't willing to get it up for me 3 or 4 times a night, he'd better move his shit out of the house - when a girl needs an orgasm, she needs an orgasm.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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goes both ways. if a guy isn't willing to get it up for me 3 or 4 times a night, he'd better move his shit out of the house - when a girl needs an orgasm, she needs an orgasm.

*re-reads your profile*

okay, so apparently you aren't a lesbian. don't worry...your secret's safe with me.

altho now i'm curious if anything on it was factual.
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Have you ever pressured a girl who won’t agree to full sex to give you a hand or blow job to relieve you and been satisfied with that as a compromise?
so have you ever been pressured to do any of those things ?
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*re-reads your profile*

okay, so apparently you aren't a lesbian. don't worry...your secret's safe with me.

altho now i'm curious if anything on it was factual.


yes, it's all made up, after all i AM a fictional character *points to avi*

no, seriously, i was making a point... and the lesbian tag is too long of a story to go into even if i wanted to *major sigh/face palm*

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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yes, it's all made up, after all i AM a fictional character *points to avi*

no, seriously, i was making a point... and the lesbian tag is too long of a story to go into even if i wanted to *major sigh/face palm*

harassed by pervs, huh? sad
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harassed by pervs, huh? sad


nope - more like, since i'm married to another woman and i don't play around with guys anymore (i actually label myself as bi) i thought it would be best to id myself as lesbian as for as the site goes - and yes, it does tend to cut down a bit on random OMs, so that's an added blessing. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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That boner who just won't go away? Why not just ask Garrett directly?
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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nope - more like, since i'm married to another woman and i don't play around with guys anymore (i actually label myself as bi) i thought it would be best to id myself as lesbian as for as the site goes - and yes, it does tend to cut down a bit on random OMs, so that's an added blessing. smile

ooooooh. :B
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so have you ever been pressured to do any of those things ?


Yes I have, many times.

However, you didn't answer the question, you posed another one
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That boner who just won't go away? Why not just ask Garrett directly?


I did but only found a website offering me advice on turbochargers!
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I would say that persistent nagging is pressurising


I would completely agree !

I never do any more than drop a hint or occasionally a blunt compliment such as "you look hot babe, i'd love to get my hands on you later" with my girlfriend ! If she then doesn't drop a sign back, i would never nag or pressure because persistant chasing is desperate and doesn't do anything for me sexually, I need to be 'wanted' or i wont enjoy the sex that follows
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nope,
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No, I don't like to pester my wife for sex. Either she's in the mood or she's not.

A girl that wants it is a turn on for me.
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I hate BJs. They always look so awesome on porn or pictures, like it's the best thing in the world. In reality, I get bored of them in about 1 minute. No mater what any woman has said to me: "I'm the best", "I've never had any complaints", "My lips are amazing", "You've never had a woman like me", LIES! lol. I have never had any that were worth mentioning. So the answer to your question is ... when I was in high school (10th grade, I believe), I talked my then girlfriend into giving me a BJ because I didn't have a condom so she wouldn't have sex ... was not impressed nor was I satisfied afterward. I might be a bad guy for this, but I lost interest in her that night. We broke up the next day.
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I would completely agree !

I never do any more than drop a hint or occasionally a blunt compliment such as "you look hot babe, i'd love to get my hands on you later" with my girlfriend ! If she then doesn't drop a sign back, i would never nag or pressure because persistant chasing is desperate and doesn't do anything for me sexually, I need to be 'wanted' or i wont enjoy the sex that follows


I completely agree. I can't imagine using any "pressure".
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male chastity would work well for you for controlling your urges
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Yes I have, many times.

However, you didn't answer the question, you posed another one
`yes I have .and was happy getting what I could .
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That boner that just won't go away...



The way you ask the question seems to imply that guys need a girl around to alleviate their every erection. I take what ladies have to offer, but surely won't pressure them for anything.
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No but I've been pressure to get a bj lol. I had to run out of the party because she was so plastered and kept pulling my boxers down... She remembered everything and hates me to this day because I "made her look like a fool"... Underwear parties...