It's this kind of shit that makes guys not want to talk to their wives, to be honest.
Poor guy asks her how her day was and he's hit with "DON'T I ROCK YOUR WORLD ANYMORE!? DON'T YOU WANT TO SPARE MY PAIN!?"
Who wants to deal with that... Give me a break.
all i was asking is for you guys that think the grass is greener some where else ....to try to fix what you have ....she was once some one you couldnt live with out ......now she is some one you want to live with out ...try to fix it ....lot better for kids ...und cheaper then divorce..
remember ........you did tell her you loved her ........und just so you 'll know ..sex with one girl isnt that different from sex with another ....go talk to her ...win her back ....you ......kan change your life ......you kan try!!!!!!!
Too many people (men and women) only know how to complain, not communicate. They focus on what they don't like or why can't the other person compromise.
I've been in relationships where things are talked out. Sometimes it doesn't work out even after several conversations on the subject and two people trying to make things work.
But, yeah, people are better at complaining than working on relationships, as someone else pointed out. Maybe because people don't realize that relationships ARE work? Yes. It takes energy to keep that relationship healthy and communicative. It shouldn't sap all your energy, but I think some people don't realize that sharing, communicating about issues (and joys), being open, and being honest requires effort.
Nothing about relationships is magical. But it can be pleasant and happy at times. And the way that happens is by putting in the aforementioned effort.
But it goes both ways too: women should talk to their significant others (not just assume they will get it). Women can be as bad as men at communicating.
I've said it several times in various threads on here, a relationship, ANY relationship takes TWO people to make it work. One person can not carry it and especially save it alone unless they're seeking martyrdom. I know this all too well. On the flip side, if one takes the time to really think about things objectively, one would realize that it also takes TWO people to break a relationship. I agree with lafayettemister that cheating is rarely just about sex and it most definitely is NOT just about men not doing right by their women. Goes both ways. I think communication is critical to any successful relationship, that and honesty. I fear that withouth them, a relationship has a limited shelf life before it expires.
Does lush get that serious? Thought folk were only here for a laugh. Oh well, I guess ignorance is still bliss.
Everyone grows at a different pace, after years we are to a certain extent different. Besides us, our companion has changed also. This is inevitable, it does not warrant or need for a split. Usually a serious of events and... yes unspoken words lead to more serious trouble in the relationship.
When I hear "ohh he's a duochebag" or "she's a hoar" he/she cheated. Well someone one day must explain to me the definition of cheating. Like is that the moment when a penis enter the vagina? Not years before when the connection, than the respect was gone?
Cheating is rarely about sex.
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Life is simple; we are what we eat and what we read. Talk is superfluous.
It's not about the sex, if there is no trust between them you have a real tough time regaining and rebuilding it. Do you want to rebuild or find someone else? By experience both are really hard!
