Yes. And it wouldn't be the first time I've fallen for a broke hottie that I've felt a connection with.
Of Course. I really am not interested in his/her bank account. But having said that, if the person was broke and was content with living off of someone else and not willing to work, then I would have a problem with it.
Ive been pore & Ive been rich.. RICH IS BETTER
Yes, I don't think it's right to love someone because of their wealth, but it's not attractive if they are living in their parents basement and mooching off of them but if they are like broke and ambitious that wouldn't bother me, money can't really buy happiness in a relationship
They have to have personality! Can't just love them because of looks or money!!
If he were an all around great guy, absolutely. However, if he's poor and lacks ambition, I couldn't see myself loving him. Then again, I couldn't see myself loving a rich guy who lacked ambition, either.
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Being rich has nothing to do with how I feel about a guy. If he is poor, well aren't we all now a days? It just would be different if he was poor because his arse is lazy, and didn't want to get a job, and make money. If he was poor, and worked even if it was a shit job but busted arse to make ends meet, then hell yes I'd date him. Just as long as we connected, but money has nothing to do with being connected to someone. At least not for me.
If one falls for another based on money or looks it is, most likely, destined for failure. Unless the fall-ee is as shallow as a mud puddle.
If any of you lovely ladies need a poor handsome man, I'm always here. In other words, I'm like the old Johnny Lee song Looking for Love.
Just had to put my two cents worth in for the fun of it, but if you take him broke you will be rich in life and love, don't take him because he's broke you will always wonder what you missed out on and you will be sad in love because your rich man could always go broke and us broke men can always win the lottery.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.
BigDaddyRich
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It's just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man.
I think if one is truly "in love" the bank account is a non-issue.
Though, having said that, one of the top few reasons for relationships failing is ................... financial difficulties (among communication breakdown and infidelity).
So ... poor or rich - he must have SOME ambition for a better life.
I'm not ready to settle down and not looking for someone that can support me or even help support me. I'm just looking for a good time and that doesn't necessarily mean you need money so at this point in my life I don't care. That doesn't mean I'm going to be looking for someone rich to take care of me later. It just means it has no bearing on my life now.
I know I should check his FICO Score and his Bank Account, but you know how it is. Love overrides good judgement.
I pay my own bills... I am not rich, I am not poor.... If a man is self sufficient and can take care of himself, i don't care what he makes. So long as he is happy with his choices and doesn't need me to pay his bills.. who cares... I think like OP said, does he have ambition? or does he just want Mommy and Daddy to pay for him? I can't see myself with someone who is lazy, rich or poor..
"I'd much rather be a woman than a man. Women can cry, they can wear cute clothes, and they are the first to be rescued off of sinking ships."
— Gilda Radner
whats your definition of poor? I'll take them as they are for who they are as long as he can look at me in the same way.
Well I think it's been said above, but the most attractive thing about a man is his personality. Part of that is his confidence, how smart he is, his ability to handle all sorts of situations, his sense of humor, how healthy and in shape he is, his sense of adventure, etc. Generally such guys who put together these qualities don't end up poor. He might be coming out of college and have student loans and a bashed up used car......yup I'd fuck his brains out if he turned me on. Then we could start my new cell-biology "new tech" skin care company together and become multi-billionaires. Our hot sex lives and mutual happiness would just be the icing on the cake. And oh yes.....when my friends all asked "How I met a rich guy?" I'd tell them he was driving a used Camry when I met him and laugh in their face.
My ex was an attractive guy and "poor" sadly he came with some mental health issues too. I was with him for 8 years. I accepted him for who he was. Alas his mental illness got the better of him and it drove me away.
I've known a few ladies who married for money, and money was all they got out of it
I married one 25 years ago - we've worked hard together, he's still handsome, we're no longer 'that' poor!
Being a woman who has been in many relationships with men who just want to live off me and treat me like shi!. I would still have to say yes as long as they have drive and ambition. I really don't care about looks, I just need and want a man that treats me with the LOVE & respect that I treat every man with.
Absolutely! I'd rather be loved by a man, than be sitting in a Ferrari crying because I'm lonely!
Gals, would u love a guy who is handsome but poor, 4 his merits?
