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Your thoughts: for a bi-curious man wanting to play (no emotions, just physical), who would be the better first time option?
TS? Male? MF bi-couple? Pros and cons?
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Well, you could start off with TS. That way you'll at least have some tits to play with if the dick doesn't interest you and you can pretend she's just a woman...right? Or you could go straight for the gay male. Unless you don't like the fact that he is just into dicks when you are just curious and actually lean more toward the female species. Or you could go for the couple unless messing with another mans woman, in front of him no less, would hinder your ability to get an erection. The pros? You'll satisfy a curiosity. The cons? It wasn't supposed to be as difficult as all this...now was it?
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In all actuality, I'd hold off on the TS or the couple, or anything on the extreme level. Unless you'd feel more comfortable with a woman there. If not, the best way would be for you to just hook up with a guy and go for it.

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I for one am envious...

I mean for me..it's just tits and ass. Female tits and female ass and female real pussy.

I almost feel like I got shortchanged here.

I like, eh.. no, I love real pussy and real tits...small tits, medium sized tits, big tits, huge tits...and well...all pussy is small for me.

But, I do envy you bisexuals. You got both sides of the fence and dig it all...

I can only do the green and greener side of the fence. Hell, you have every shade of green in between.

Maybe in my next life
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No emotions, huh? Then stick to the very shallow end of the pool, the meat markets, the cruising spots, and be prepared to end up with some lovely STDs and body lice (crabs).
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By no emotions I did not intend to say 'brainless' smile Maybe should have used 'no strings attached' in the post.
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Here's my take on this. It's not that different for a man than it is for a woman. Regardless of who you ultimately settle on, be sure it is someone you are comfortable with. If you feel more comfortable with a woman in the mix, then go for a couple; otherwise stay with a guy, and perhaps a bi guy might me a better choice that a gay one for the first time, as he may understand your issues better. Take the time to talk and make sure they understand the situation. Ask questions. Explain exactly what it is you are looking for. Do you want someone to suck your cock, fuck you; or perhaps you want to try the sucking or fucking; or maybe it is both? Make sure they are ok with the fact that you are new to the experience and that if you decide part way in that you don't like it and want to stop, there will be no hard feelings on either side. Good Luck.
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By no emotions I did not intend to say 'brainless' smile Maybe should have used 'no strings attached' in the post.


Lots of people have NSA sex .... for many, it's just getting your rocks off ........ and many gay/bi-sexual men roll that way.

Quite honestly .... knowing LOTS of gay men ... their curiousity took them to gay bars and meeting gay men (who may have been bi, who knows). I say .... just be safe (as you would with a woman) .... and most gay men will definitely appreciate that you want THEM to be safe too.

Enjoy that new playground.

God, when I am reincarnated into my next life, I want to return as a gay man! Lucky bastardo!!
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Following this thread with interest since I"m also bi-curious and thinking about exploring that side of myself. They key thing for me would be finding a man who was open to my desires but not pushing me too hard. I want to start slow and see just how comfortable I am. Maybe start with massages or other foreplay leading to hand and blow jobs (blowing a guy and having him cum in my mouth is my biggest male fantasy) and then move to other acts if I feel okay with that.
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Following this thread with interest since I"m also bi-curious and thinking about exploring that side of myself. They key thing for me would be finding a man who was open to my desires but not pushing me too hard. I want to start slow and see just how comfortable I am. Maybe start with massages or other foreplay leading to hand and blow jobs (blowing a guy and having him cum in my mouth is my biggest male fantasy) and then move to other acts if I feel okay with that.


My wife is initiating to have a 3 some with a bisexual male escort. She wants to fuck him and give me a blowjob. After that she wants to invite to stroke his cock together and suck it together. And I want him to go slow on me, while my wife watches....and masturbates
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Have enjoyed being with a guy and very satisfying. Just got to a point of protected anal which felt so good for me.
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Just hook up with a guy. I think you are over complicating it.

TS are complex and couples are way complex. If you are curious about sucking another mans cock, fucking him or being fucked... go for the gay male. A woman being their only adds confusion when you are only curious. And TS, whew, that is nothing but confusion.

Have fun!
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Quote by Dani
In all actuality, I'd hold off on the TS or the couple, or anything on the extreme level. Unless you'd feel more comfortable with a woman there. If not, the best way would be for you to just hook up with a guy and go for it.


ditto. I totally agree. find some more experienced anonymous stranger on the inter-net and try it. if you try it with an anonymous stranger and you don't like it you can keep it to yourself and no one will know. if you do it with someone in your circle of acquaintances, whether you like it or not, everyone will know.
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I was for so long, me and the ex met a chick on Tinder and had a 3 some. We broke up, not related, and me and her have now met 2 times. Me and the ex broke up I meant.
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Both guys that I FWB with were straight when we began to meet. I lived with my girlfriend and we were definitely bi. The pair of us shared both guys and we often all slept together in the same bed and had sex with them both.They watched us go down on each other and saw how much fun two women can have together.
One night my gf was out and I sucked their cocks when having a threesome with them and encouraged them to suck on each other's cock as we 'played'. Both were a bit reluctant as neither had tasted male cum. One was prepared to try it and it wasn't long before they were both were into a 69.
I really enjoyed the experience they had when they came and each of them actually got a mouthful of each other as I had done frequently. Unlike my first mouthful, they knew when it was coming and there was some real apprehension about it but they both completed the agreement. Now its a regular occurrence during a threesome.
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As a veteran bi guy, I would suggest going to a adult arcade first. Through the glory holes, you cane sucked and then suck to see if you like it. Odds are, you will. If you think a guy my be open to being with you, just start talking about sucking and gay stuff. If he seems interested and open, ask him. You may get a yes more than often than you realize.
The romantic bi guy.

Stay horny my friend.
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HOLD ON THERE!!!! There is a lot of VERY BAD ADVISE being slung around here!!! PLEASE, CONSIDER THIS ADVISE BEFORE MAKING ANY RASH DECESSIONS... SHOW A LITTLE PAIENCE!!! If you just go out and jump the first swinging dick that you come across, or suck the first cock poked through a glory hole at you, more than likely, in one way or another, you are going to regret it!!! Though they may be quick, easy, and anonymous. Those places are also VERY NASTY!!! REAL life is rarely like all those stories that you read... SEEK LIKE MIND PEOPLE! There are a lot of web sites have chatrooms filled with people with your exact same interests. Start there. Get to know a few of them first. You will be more likely to find a CLEAN, and like minded partner which will make your first experience much more enjoyable, and far less worry some. Quite often being a little to overzealous can lead to very DIRE consequences. You don't really want to suck a dick that bad do you??? Use your BIG head before you use your LITTLE one . In the long run you'll be glad that you did!!! Give em hell!!!
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How to start? I don't like any of your choices. The way I did it was to find another mature man near my age who was also a novice. We tried different things and found out what we liked doing to each other. Because we were both short timers, we could practice and make mistakes without looking foolish. I found out a lot about myself. I like to fuck and be fucked, liked to give and take enemas to assure cleanliness, like to swallow cum, love group sex and like to rim but only in the shower. When I suck cock I can't take it deep because I have a strong gag reflex. I don't like peeing, pain, hard spanking or dominance. My bi partner and I worked on our likes and dislikes for three or four months before we opened up our relationship.
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I don't think it matters gay, bi, TS, crossdresser. What matters is that it's someone you trust and are comfortable with. When it comes to anal, in hindsight, I think it would have been better with someone who had experience and knew what they were doing rather than another virgin just trying to jam his cock in there.