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Is oral a make or break?

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So let's say the woman you've chosen to sleep with isn't so gifted in oral, but you enjoy the sex.

Does the oral matter to you at all?
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nope because least she tried and the sex made up for it.
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Gee, I'm thinking no, although its been some time since I've made a choice. But I'd imagine that if I was enjoying the sex, the only thing that would make it a 'break' would be if she didn't 'choose' me...
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So let's say the woman you've chosen to sleep with isn't so gifted in oral, but you enjoy the sex.

Does the oral matter to you at all?



No, sometimes I find it exciting when girls are a bit awkward at it, I think it's cute. There's really nothing much complicated about blowjobs, so she can't be that bad either. As long as she doesn't scrape me with her teeth, it's all good.
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A girl that won't do oral.
That would be a "break".
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If she refused to, that'd be a break - maybe.

Why refuse? She should be more open minded and live a little.

Not good at it? That's another thing. I would live with it.
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It matters, but I may be able to get past it if she's gifted in other areas. Don't get me wrong, fellatio is great and all, but I enjoy other acts much more.
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Depends on wether she makes up for it on the back end.
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A girl can always be trained to give better blowjobs; my girlfriend's cock-sucking skills have improved significantly since we first met. But refusing to give oral altogether would be a big problem, the intimacy would suffer greatly and it would probably indicate immaturity on her part, since I will most definitely perform oral sex on my girl (and do it well), and returning the favour should be common courtesy, imo.
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Oral is great, but not a requirement.
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Current girlfriend doesn't like oral, she's good at it but doesn't like it. I does annoy me when i spend a long time warming her up and she won't do the same for me but after i good fucking i'm too sex dazed to care.
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I don't think I really ever minded whether she'd go down on me or not. I had one GF I lived with for two years who wouldn't and wouldn't let me go down on her either

Another GF preferred oral over intercourse and most times we'd please each other with just our lips and tongues...even doing 69 fairly regularly

My wife? She only doesn't like anal, but I can live with that as she's probably the best cock-sucker I've ever been with, even from the start of our relationship and even after 23 years, still has a nice, tight feel around me when we fuck.
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I've had three wives and none of them were into oral. So I guess it is no big deal.
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so long as she does it/tries, i'm happy.
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My wife isnt really into oral. She will do it once in a while if i ask, but it is never for long. She enjoys sex way more than oral.
It isn't a deal breaker because i knew this right away and look where we are now.
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No it wouldnt be a break for me, because for many years my wife didnt give me oral, yet our sex life was still great. In time she learn how to and now she gives me oral willingly.
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A girl can always be trained to give better blowjobs; my girlfriend's cock-sucking skills have improved significantly since we first met. But refusing to give oral altogether would be a big problem, the intimacy would suffer greatly and it would probably indicate immaturity on her part, since I will most definitely perform oral sex on my girl (and do it well), and returning the favour should be common courtesy, imo.


As a woman, I agree. I am sure many of us who consider ourselves for lack of a better term "Talented Cock Suckers" were not that great at it the first time we did it. I know I wasn't and I have been told I am very good now. If you are willing to do it, you can become good just as you would with anything else. A desire to improve and Practice, Practice, Practice!!
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So let's say the woman you've chosen to sleep with isn't so gifted in oral, but you enjoy the sex.

Does the oral matter to you at all?



Its all gud babe itll feel great pretty much no matter wat
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Oral is a definite make. I love when a man can go down on you and enjoy it. Wants you to cum over and over. If a man goes down on me then I go down on him. I once was in a relationship with a man who could only get hard with me sucking him off. Which gets very old fast. He did not like going down on me.

The motto is: " if you want me to go down on you, gotta go down on me." That's why theres the 69 position
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I think it's a make or break thing. My ex used to want me to go down on her all the time while she was hesitant to repay the favour. Hence one of the many reasons she is now my ex.........

The the "submission" and how vulnerable my woman becomes when giving me a BJ is also a thrill. She is doing this to please ME, and is very happy to do so. Let's face it, while being able to cum in her mouth is perfect. Oral is also a precursor to many more sexual acts as well!
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Oral is a definite make. I love when a man can go down on you and enjoy it. Wants you to cum over and over. If a man goes down on me then I go down on him. I once was in a relationship with a man who could only get hard with me sucking him off. Which gets very old fast. He did not like going down on me.

The motto is: " if you want me to go down on you, gotta go down on me." That's why theres the 69 position


I love 69ing, but she usually gets so caught up with her own pleasure she pretty much just stops giving any to me.
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Of course it isn't. If a potential partner is totally unwilling to provide oral, that's not even a deal-breaker. A little silly to most of us maybe, but it's not the end of the world. Sexual compatibility is a complex question though. If it's somebody who is simply not confident in their skills, then they should just ask their partner what works and doesn't work for them. If they don't know or can't tell you, then experiment.
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Not at all, if she doesn't want to or not interested in giving oral, it's ok. I love going down on a woman.

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Lets just say I get turned on giving it and receiving it
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If she don't know how to do it, she can learn. Practice makes perfect, you can teach her, or she can watch porn. Though I would suggest showin her, so u can teach her exactly how u want it. Lets just hope shes willing.
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Not a make or break. It's a wonderful appetizer but frankly I enjoying giving more than receiving unless of course SHE really gets off on giving. I think it's a case by case basis. If she gives great head but has no idea how to move her hips and enjoy having my cock in her then it's probably not going to work out
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Quote by Sugar_baby
So let's say the woman you've chosen to sleep with isn't so gifted in oral, but you enjoy the sex.

Does the oral matter to you at all?



As you state it, it is fine...but I don't just have sex with anyone. I have to really like her first.
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She can always learn, as can we all. As long as she listens, then it's no big deal. I'd hope that any of my lovers would feel secure enough to give and receive feedback.
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No but I do Love It...Mmmm....OooohBabysmile
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Lets just say I get turned on giving it and receiving it
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