I know there are times where a woman wears certain outfits because she is comfortable in them, other times she wears outfits to look hot. How is a guy supposed to know the difference. I do not want to oggle (if that is a word, if it is then it is spelt wrong) at a woman when she isn't wanting the attention.
I think it should be pretty obvious. And I may be wrong, but if she's wearing something provocative, then I believe you have a right to look..
If she is dressed provocatively, has obviously spent a great deal of time putting her make up on perfectly and gives off all those subtle teasing signs then she wants you to notice her.
But from what I've heard and read in various places, just because a woman dresses a certain way doesn't mean they want the attention, they just like what they are wearing for themselves not necessarily to gain attentention.
Also it is very subjective on what I would call provocative and what some women would call provocative.
What's the harm in looking? It's not like you're going to reach out and squeeze her boob or spank her ass as she walks by, are you? Agreed that dressing provocatively can be subjective but if you see a woman that catches your attention regardless of what she's wearing, I don't think there is any harm in taking a respectable glance at her and appreciating her. Provided you don't give her the creepy stalker stare, I think most women understand that this is just part of the dance most would be fine with it.
Girl Talk: Seducing a man is an art, and one that’s thoroughly enjoyable. Just watching a man feel flustered and awkward because of the sexual tension you have created is a rush that few things can give a girl. Her attempts may be sneaky and scheming, but hey, we’re not playing dirty. We’re only using the advantage of being a woman! Look at her, really look at her. If she always looks away just as you look at her then she is throwing the first bait. By doing that, you’ll never be sure if she's even staring at you. And yet, you’d start to get more and more curious about her. She let's you see her best side. A woman doesn't need to be sexy - she FEELS sexy, walks SEXY, talks SEXY, dress SEXY. If she wants to be a seductress she needs to feel like a seductress. She looks her best when the guy she wants is around. Another is her little-peek-a-boo. The most fascinating thing about being a woman is that you can do something outrageous like wearing extremely short skirts and plunging necklines and still blame a man for being a pervert. Of course, now we women aren’t wearing these sexy outfits to please everyone, are we? But a woman who is out to seduce a man, never bare everything or wear skimpy clothes. It draws the wrong kind of attention. Instead, she wears something that gives her an opportunity to give him a little peek now and then. Plus the smiles, the lingering unexpected touches. But she never ever throw herself at you or let you know that she think you are a hot stuff publicly. She ignores you now and then and wants to dance with you on the dance floor. She is untouchable to most but gives you the chance to touch her. I hope you are now getting her subtle hints.
You can pay her attention but don't stare for too long. Don't go undressing her with your eyes!!
if she's wearing something that catches your eye, you should look! No harm in noticing.
i think you may be asking the wrong question, but it's one a lot of men get wrong. i have heard a lot of men say, "if she wears X or is doing Y, why does she get bent out of shape if I look?"
most women want to be looked at and noticed. it's really a question of how you do it. think of it like this. imagine you are at a starbucks table and you notice a woman across the way is glancing your direction. there are things she could do then that might interest you/turn you on: she might quickly glance away and peek back with a wry smile, or she might give you a heavy lidded bedroom glance. but imagine her just staring, maybe scowling or looking at you with a neutral expression and not looking away. it would probably creep you out, and you'd wonder what the hell you'd ever done to her.
women are the same way.
I know I am older than most on Lush and maybe I am more self assured of who I am.
Having said that I am not offended when a guy takes a long hard look at me if I am in a jogging suit and at the grocery store. Of course when we are wearing something provocative, I hope none of my sister out there are offended with what ever type of looks they get..
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