Lurker
0 likes
Fisting my partner has got be the biggest turn on for me - what's yours?
Join the best erotica focused adult social network now
Login
Fisting - turn on?
last reply
42 replies
5.1k views
0 watchers
0 likes
Advanced Wordsmith
0 likes
the idea is there, but to me it just sounds painful and uncomfortable. Probably because Ive never tried it, but I'm open to anything ;)
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
Sorry.....but doesn't sound fun to me.
Lurker
0 likes
Only a turn-on if she enjoys it and it gets her more excited.
Advanced Wordsmith
0 likes
My turn on is a nice round ass scantily clad or naked. Love the curves.
Lurker
0 likes
In my little vanilla sex (mostly) world fisting has never really made sense.
Lurker
0 likes
My partner loves the feeling of being 'full'! If she's turned on enough, wet and open, it takes her over the edge- try it, she may love it ;-)
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
Sorry but fisting just doesn't do anything for me. Just don't think there is anything sexy about it.
Lurker
0 likes
It depends on many factors, but it must be done slowly and with care. If the girl is super loose and it is easy, then frankly that would not be a turn on for me. But neither would it be if she was in pain.
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
I personally think its awful !
Lurker
0 likes
*Siiiigh*
The list of guys in my corner is very thin, I see. . .actually, that's not true. They're just not responding to this thread. AHEM!
The list of guys in my corner is very thin, I see. . .actually, that's not true. They're just not responding to this thread. AHEM!
Lurker
0 likes
Quote by Metilda
*Siiiigh*
The list of guys in my corner is very thin, I see. . .actually, that's not true. They're just not responding to this thread. AHEM!
??!
Lurker
0 likes
Quote by mrhornydog
??!
A lot of guys like fisting on this site - and just aren't stepping into this thread.
Raised on Blackroot
0 likes
Fuck no.
If I even foresee it being in a particular porn clip or what not, I immediately click the big red exit button.
Not my cup of tea.
If I even foresee it being in a particular porn clip or what not, I immediately click the big red exit button.
Not my cup of tea.
Lurker
0 likes
I thought only porn actors did fisting. No one ever tried that with me. Or they just know me better than that. Some forms of sex are good for some and disrespectful for others. I'd put this in the golden shower category.
Lurker
0 likes
Quote by Metilda
A lot of guys like fisting on this site - and just aren't stepping into this thread.
I love it and so does my partner - she loves being full!
Lurker
0 likes
No. Not my cup of tea. Being loose is not a turn on at all.
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
I just personally think,that fisting a lady is gross &dissrespectful too!
Lurker
0 likes
Just a side note: Because you fist a woman it does not mean by default she is loose. Kind of like anal sex does not mean a woman's ass isn't tight by default either. Women give birth to babies that are a heck of a lot bigger than a hand is, and the vast majority of them don't suddenly become loose from that point on.
I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.
But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL
I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.
But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL
Lurker
0 likes
Quote by JohnC
Just a side note: Because you fist a woman it does not mean by default she is loose. Kind of like anal sex does not mean a woman's ass isn't tight by default either. Women give birth to babies that are a heck of a lot bigger than a hand is, and the vast majority of them don't suddenly become loose from that point on.
I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.
But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL
Well said. I don't follow the disrespectful comments either. How can consensual acts be disrespectful?
"Respect the vagina! Respect it!" Makes me giggle.
Lurker
0 likes
Quote by JohnC
Just a side note: Because you fist a woman it does not mean by default she is loose. Kind of like anal sex does not mean a woman's ass isn't tight by default either. Women give birth to babies that are a heck of a lot bigger than a hand is, and the vast majority of them don't suddenly become loose from that point on.
I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.
But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL
Spot on!
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
If it was a fantasy of a woman I'm with, I would certainly give it a shot. But I seriously doubt it would be a distinct pleasure for me. Though I've never tried it....nor have I been asked.
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
Did it to a guy once and only once, he loved it. I felt like I was working a glove puppet. Never again! Worried I might damage him if I got too into it.
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
I will do anything my partner wants... if fisting is her thing then that's fine... if not then I can do with out.
Lurker
0 likes
only if she likes it ... if it turns her on 
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
Was not originally on my 'sex radar', however, I very carefully and slowly fisted my incredibly excited wife one experimental evening and it was amazing. She had the most amazing multiple orgasms. Glad we tried it. Definite turn on.
It is not something we do all the time, but it is part of our repetoire. Keep it fresh and keep it real.
It is not something we do all the time, but it is part of our repetoire. Keep it fresh and keep it real.
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
Lurker
0 likes
Not a dude but I'd love to chime in!
The thought of fisting and even the image of it in porn is not a turn on for me. But<----BIG BUT... I enjoy the feeling of being full, fingering often starts with one or two fingers and then increases as the excitement increases. I don't see the difference between fingering and fisting!! My husband has tried it on me, to no avail and I am by no means "loose" I haven't had any vaginal births(not that I think it would make a difference) and my husband is only 5.5", it's still a squeeze and needs lube most times. There is nothing degrading about it, the same as there is nothing degrading about using large toys. Everyone enjoys different things and to different extremes. Would I let my husband fill me with his hand in the heat of the moment? Absolutely! Would I get punched in the vagina like in porn? Hell no!! Everything in moderation and in your comfort zone....
The thought of fisting and even the image of it in porn is not a turn on for me. But<----BIG BUT... I enjoy the feeling of being full, fingering often starts with one or two fingers and then increases as the excitement increases. I don't see the difference between fingering and fisting!! My husband has tried it on me, to no avail and I am by no means "loose" I haven't had any vaginal births(not that I think it would make a difference) and my husband is only 5.5", it's still a squeeze and needs lube most times. There is nothing degrading about it, the same as there is nothing degrading about using large toys. Everyone enjoys different things and to different extremes. Would I let my husband fill me with his hand in the heat of the moment? Absolutely! Would I get punched in the vagina like in porn? Hell no!! Everything in moderation and in your comfort zone....
Lurker
0 likes
Quote by Jessica_Heart
Not a dude but I'd love to chime in!
The thought of fisting and even the image of it in porn is not a turn on for me. But<----BIG BUT... I enjoy the feeling of being full, fingering often starts with one or two fingers and then increases as the excitement increases. I don't see the difference between fingering and fisting!! My husband has tried it on me, to no avail and I am by no means "loose" I haven't had any vaginal births(not that I think it would make a difference) and my husband is only 5.5", it's still a squeeze and needs lube most times. There is nothing degrading about it, the same as there is nothing degrading about using large toys. Everyone enjoys different things and to different extremes. Would I let my husband fill me with his hand in the heat of the moment? Absolutely! Would I get punched in the vagina like in porn? Hell no!! Everything in moderation and in your comfort zone....
Well said!
Active Ink Slinger
0 likes
Feeling full i can understand. Asking me to insert a rather thick toy the size of my hand not a problem. Just doesnt seem the right place for a hand or arm. I guess one bad for me*lol*