I have been married to my lovely wife for 46 years but I still cannot discern when she is wanting sex. What can I do to respond to her needs without her coming out and saying fuck me? We used to make love at least 4 times a week, now it is more like once a month. When start foreplay she says, " I have been wanting this for several weeks". Am I missing the body language?
Help please.
You've answered your own question by stating that she said "I have been wanting this for several weeks". If you're only making love once a month then it seems to be down to you, unless she was saying "no". Perhaps she thinks that you don't want to if you only make a move once a month. As an equal sexual partner I let my girlfriend know when I want to..... I don't wait for her! She also does the same with me.
You are married to a lovely lady and have been for over 40 years....sounds like the perfect love affair to me...everything you do between the two of you should be foreplay....and then if it becomes sexual intercourse...all the better!
Touch her frequently in a non sexual way, rub her neck, stroke her arm, hold her hand...When she wants more, you are more likely to pick up the signals if you are having lots of skin to skin contact.
Everything starts with communication, that is how you learned in school. Never underestimate the power of talking. Nothing is gained by not. Partners should not be afraid to speak.
some times body language can get confused , she is your loving partner,stroke her mind as well as her body,keep the fires lite,take a little more notice of her needs.
If I am the only person on the forum what is the point of being here?
46 years and you can't tell that?
How the hell did you stay married past 2 years?
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
