I have a boyfriend and recently just celebrated a year together (off and on, unfortunately more off than we have been off more than on and I have moved away for college so we see each other a couple weekends out of the month at most.)
anyways, he asked me when we first got together if I was bi because my best friend at the time was gay, and it was rumored I was and I told him no, although I am, I just hadn't "came out of the closet" to almost anyone then. since then a couple of good friends no, but still not many, and not him. he has recently brought up why I havent had sex with him after so long of "being together". due to a few reasons, I am still a virgin. I have messed around with a guy or two but never went all the way. It honestly just hasn't interested me in going all the way. I have feelings for him, I love him, but that aspect hasn't even dawned on me until he brought it up. why? I don't know. I am attracted to men and him, but sex with him or any guy that has tried, always ends in a flat no.
I honestly don't know what I am even asking. I just don't know what to say or do about it? I feel like he is wasting his time with me some days. it could be that I am just not comfortable with myself? I'm not sure about any of it, and have been stressing about it all recently.
For the record, I am 19.
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