My general opinion is simple
They are a more primal masculine version of us girls. some are in perpetual sexual motion and others are not
I love men having brothers has shown me (growing up) everything the good the bad the ugly the outrageously stupid things they do they did, interacting with their mates and with swam of girls that hung around (idiots) .. but the one thing that has always worked in my favour is my point blank honesty that way they can deal with the information as they please. I had their respect show respect and expect it in return. You only get one shot at this, fuck it up and you can fuck off. That's fair warning.
Even this is only for girls, women are the passive sex of life men are the more active sex.
1 thing i've always liked about this site is that most of the (real) women here aren't jaded or out to attack. i like that.
i wish women on other sites were as intelligent to know it depends on the individual.
My general opinion is that I like them! Especially the ones with yummy bodies who make me laugh and giggle a lot and give me bundles and bundles of orgasms. Yup I especially love those kind. The kind that follow you around like a puppy dog and do whatever you say? Those kind not so much. Be romantic and sexual, but have a spine please.
Men are just people. Every man I've ever met, I think I've treat as an individual. Just like women, they come in all varieties, from the absolutely fantastic, to the " wouldn't go near them with a bargepole".
So, as men in general, I think I just see them as people. I'm drawn to strong, confident individuals no matter what sex they are. I don't think men are superior, although my feminine nature appreciates a more dominant alpha male.
I guess being predominantly heterosexual, I can't help but see qualities I might not notice as quickly in a woman. Things like his masculinity, the air he has about him, his confidence. Any negative things I notice about a man would have the same impact as negative qualities in a woman.
If the negative qualities don't impact on me, what's it matter? Nobody is perfect.
Thanks for the nice replies.
I have to take this from someone else here.
"My general opinion of men is that they are all individuals. I form an opinion on individuals by how they treat me and the people around them".
I hope the guys I talk to in here and my other site feel the same way. My trust factor is not at 100%
Well they are all individuals; there background and up bringing, will always make a difference. I have been hurt by boys and some men...I trust to easily, and therefore have been taken advantage of. In general guys (the male species) scares the fuck out of me...online and in real life...they are stronger, manipulative, and will do what it takes to get what they want. I was told on many occasions "do not take a mans position unless you want to be treated as such", so for years and years, I never said or did the things that I needed to I was scared that if I forced the issue physically I would be hurt so I just didn't. In the end, my relationships have suffered, rarely anyone knows how I truly feel, because I am afraid they will use them against me.
Now that being said....I have a select few I trust with my life, literately....I know they will have my back no matter what havoc I may cause, and um being a princess I do tend to speak before I think. If you piss me off then you will get my wrath, but only and I mean only if I know that one my guys are standing behind me...
So to sum this up my general opinion is that.....They scare the fuck out of me.
I don't think this is a men vs women thing, because all humans are the same, with that I mean, we're all different. No, not all men think with their penis, but a lot can. Just like women can do the same with their pussy. I guess I'm the type who doesn't like grouping people. Men vs women, blacks vs whites, adults vs kids, whatever. We're all different.
I know this is Ask the Gals but if I may, there is a book about why men and women do the things we do it has helped me so much in understanding my other half I can't even begin to explain. The book is Emotions revealed by Paul Ekman
It has alot to do with the mentality of us humans, I thought I would throw that out there for any ladies or men (whom are going to read this and may be interested in learning a thing or two)
Men are basically just life support for a penis, LOL!!
OK, just kidding!! Most guys are great. But like many things in life a few bad ones and bad experiences with them makes it hard to trust them as whole. It's very sad that is the my situation because I know there are many great guys out there.
Some irk me with their chauvinism while others give me a toothache by being too sweet!
The best ones are those who treat me like their equal - we compete, share laughs (and sometimes more).
Men really aren't too different from women, I think. Different types exist, like what's been reiterated above.
I think all men are made of Legos and semen. And that's fine with me.
I love men as they are all different and that is the joy of them.
So often I get bored of hearing women moan about men , how they are all dick-led, untrustworthy, bastards, you name it, I hear it. It might be a case of having such low expectations if you except so little of men, in that case they will be proven correct!! I really think that men-bashing has got out of control and we as women are at times as bad as all the things we accuse men of being.
I like the way men have a practical brain and do not let the emotions get in the way of a decision-making-process, mainly this is probably because I work in a male-dominated industry as my other career and you do have to think on your feet. I also like the way men do not have that competitive streak as women sometimes do with one another.
Physically, I love the male form and all the pleasures it can deliver!
I love men as they are all different and that is the joy of them.
So often I get bored of hearing women moan about men , how they are all dick-led, untrustworthy, bastards, you name it, I hear it. It might be a case of having such low expectations if you except so little of men, in that case they will be proven correct!! I really think that men-bashing has got out of control and we as women are at times as bad as all the things we accuse men of being.
I like the way men have a practical brain and do not let the emotions get in the way of a decision-making-process, mainly this is probably because I work in a male-dominated industry as my other career and you do have to think on your feet. I also like the way men do not have that competitive streak as women sometimes do with one another.
Physically, I love the male form and all the pleasures it can deliver!
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Just guess who is holding the hammer 
It's true that sex is a topic that men like to discuss but who doesn't? I find that once our natural curiosity about compatibility is satiated - men can be friends with women...in fact sometimes I think men make better friends as there is less emotion, drama, etc. I don't think that men are subject to their reflex to procreate and sow oats, per say...They just have preferential treatment but again...it's not gender that it comes down to but our instinct as human beings.
