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Masturbating To Your Crush?

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SereneProdigy
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Do you feel comfortable masturbating while thinking about one of your crushes?


For some reason, I have a hard time with this. I have no trouble admitting that I would gladly fuck this or that girl, but I also don't feel that comfortable masturbating while thinking about a specific girl if we didn't have sex already. I think I would just feel awkward when meeting her the next time, as if I had a big secret that I'd have to hide from her. I would also feel a bit at her mercy somehow, as if anything I was doing for her was done for the sole purpose of getting laid in the end. I actually do this more for myself than I do it for her.

I know it might not be that big of a deal if I did masturbate to her, but it has become a habit to avoid it for me. Even if I masturbate to random pornstars, I try to avoid actresses who look too much like her. If, for example, the girl I have a crush on is a short busty blonde, I might masturbate to tall thin brunettes for a while. It's not really an issue for me either, by the way.

Any other guy is like this? Women are welcome to comment too.
BlondeBookworm
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Yes.

I don't feel weird or guilty if I masturbate to someone I have a crush on. I think its fairly harmless and I don't ever feel awkward because they have no clue.
simar
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of course!!!! i used to masterbate to my school teachers,they were so hot
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dpw
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Quote by SereneProdigy
Do you feel comfortable masturbating while thinking about one of your crushes?


For some reason, I have a hard time with this. I have no trouble admitting that I would gladly fuck this or that girl, but I also don't feel that comfortable masturbating while thinking about a specific girl if we didn't have sex already. I think I would just feel awkward when meeting her the next time, as if I had a big secret that I'd have to hide from her. I would also feel a bit at her mercy somehow, as if anything I was doing for her was done for the sole purpose of getting laid in the end. I actually do this more for myself than I do it for her.

I know it might not be that big of a deal if I did masturbate to her, but it has become a habit to avoid it for me. Even if I masturbate to random pornstars, I try to avoid actresses who look too much like her. If, for example, the girl I have a crush on is a short busty blonde, I might masturbate to tall thin brunettes for a while. It's not really an issue for me either, by the way.

Any other guy is like this? Women are welcome to comment too.

I don't understand the reasoning behind your thoughts.
By imagining somebody that is an opposite isn't that mentally cheating on her. If you'd said that you were worried that a fantasy might affect the reality then I'd understand that as reality rarely matches up, that's why they're fantasies.
You seem to intimate that once you've had sex with her then you would be fine masturbating to thoughts of her, would you tell her that you were?
As far as doing things for people that I fancy, yes I might feel a bit guilty, but everthing I do is done with the aim of getting them into the sack.
I haven't really got a sexual conscience so I have no problem there and I'll wouldn't feel awkard meeting you!
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sometimes the FANTASY is far better than the REALITY ever could be

sigh don't y'all just love DPW!!!he makes me laugh every time...

suspecting dpw wont be masturbating to y'all anytime soon...;)
dpw
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sometimes the FANTASY is far better than the REALITY ever could be

sigh don't y'all just love DPW!!!he makes me laugh every time...

suspecting dpw wont be masturbating to y'all anytime soon...;)

My fantasies are always better, in them I'm like an olympic gymnast and I don't need to breathe.
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I can't imagine NOT masturbating to your crush.... I would HOPE that the sexual aspect is part of what made you crush for them. And to purposefully masturbate to women that are "different" than she is (or guys if your crush is a guy) just seems strange to me.
garterbelt
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Of course I masturbate to my crush!! Sometimes I just masturbate....
paul_moadib
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I'm struggling to think if I have ever masturbated to a crush I actually know ...

I know I thought about it over some female teachers but if I actually did I don't remember for sure.
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I masturbate to my crush on a very regular basis
Lustyrose4u
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Sure, why not?
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
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MisUnderstood240
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I'm weird. I masturbate to a lot of females I know but rarely, if ever, did I masturbate to my crush. I'd masturbate to dirty little fantasies with other females. I couldn't conjure up the same scenarios with my crush. Maybe that just makes me a pussy tho. Ha
WellMadeMale
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Quote by SereneProdigy
Do you feel comfortable masturbating while thinking about one of your crushes?


For some reason, I have a hard time with this. I have no trouble admitting that I would gladly fuck this or that girl, but I also don't feel that comfortable masturbating while thinking about a specific girl if we didn't have sex already. I think I would just feel awkward when meeting her the next time, as if I had a big secret that I'd have to hide from her. I would also feel a bit at her mercy somehow, as if anything I was doing for her was done for the sole purpose of getting laid in the end. I actually do this more for myself than I do it for her.

I know it might not be that big of a deal if I did masturbate to her, but it has become a habit to avoid it for me. Even if I masturbate to random pornstars, I try to avoid actresses who look too much like her. If, for example, the girl I have a crush on is a short busty blonde, I might masturbate to tall thin brunettes for a while. It's not really an issue for me either, by the way.

Any other guy is like this? Women are welcome to comment too.




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cumonmybum
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All the time, sometimes a group one with em all
dpw
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All the time, sometimes a group one with em all

A group one?
Just how many have you got!


Now that's just greedy


Nice ass btw.NhcNfhVjwdvvJs9c
jollyjack
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Lush is my crush..........?
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
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Actually, back in my teens and twenties, I often got off to fantasies about my crushes, both the real-life ones and actresses. For instance, there was this pretty, busty English girl that I knew in university that I had a quite a fantasy life with in private but was just good friends with in public. There didn't seem to be a conflict between fantasy and reality. Of course, I wasn't the sort who would hit on pretty, busty English girls (or any other girls) at the time anyhow.
BelleduJour
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Of course! I can't speak for everyone but for me, the excitement and the subsequent pleasure that comes from masturbating to a crush be it online or in real life is far more satisfying than hitting play and watching a bit of porn.
MadMartigan
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They wouldn't be much of a crush if you weren't attracted to them enough to. I'd hope you do, otherwise, why the fuck are they your crush anyway?

And fantasizing about that can be better than some porn.
cumonmybum
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Quote by dpw

A group one?
Just how many have you got!


Now that's just greedy


Nice ass btw.2He0YBU57UUIw3zM

How many? Me, wife, her best friend, her sister and my cousin. All with big boobs, nice asses and wet cunts x
Frank
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Quote by BelleduJour
Of course! I can't speak for everyone but for me, the excitement and the subsequent pleasure that comes from masturbating to a crush be it online or in realy life is far more satisfying than hitting play and watching a bit of porn.


Of all our inventions for mass communication,
pictures still speak the most universally understood language.

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TheCrimsonKing
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Quote by SereneProdigy
Do you feel comfortable masturbating while thinking about one of your crushes?


For some reason, I have a hard time with this. I have no trouble admitting that I would gladly fuck this or that girl, but I also don't feel that comfortable masturbating while thinking about a specific girl if we didn't have sex already. I think I would just feel awkward when meeting her the next time, as if I had a big secret that I'd have to hide from her. I would also feel a bit at her mercy somehow, as if anything I was doing for her was done for the sole purpose of getting laid in the end. I actually do this more for myself than I do it for her.

I know it might not be that big of a deal if I did masturbate to her, but it has become a habit to avoid it for me. Even if I masturbate to random pornstars, I try to avoid actresses who look too much like her. If, for example, the girl I have a crush on is a short busty blonde, I might masturbate to tall thin brunettes for a while. It's not really an issue for me either, by the way.

Any other guy is like this? Women are welcome to comment too.


I completely understand these sentiments. I never masturbated to anyone I had a crush on. Its almost like you hold them on a pedestal like they're better than other people. I know that might be a little weird and maybe a little unhealthy, but that's just how my mind worked. I don't feel weird or guilty about masturbating to my girlfriend, which might be equally odd, considering. When I do it though, I rarely think about much at all to be honest. It's like meditation. Yeah sometimes I just want to crank one out, but usually its about relaxation.
lleiffermawr
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I masturbated to pictures of my crushes, or even while looking at a picture of someone they reminded me of
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Quote by BelleduJour
Of course! I can't speak for everyone but for me, the excitement and the subsequent pleasure that comes from masturbating to a crush be it online or in realy life is far more satisfying than hitting play and watching a bit of porn.


I couldn't have said it better ;)
Magical_felix
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I only masturbate to my enemies.
SereneProdigy
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Quote by TheCrimsonKing


I completely understand these sentiments. I never masturbated to anyone I had a crush on. Its almost like you hold them on a pedestal like they're better than other people. I know that might be a little weird and maybe a little unhealthy, but that's just how my mind worked. (...)


Actually, for me it's the exact opposite ; I don't masturbate to them to not put them on a pedestal. As I've said previously, I really don't have any trouble admitting that I would gladly fuck her (not to her face though), and wouldn't feel any guilty masturbating to her.

For me, it's more of a way to avoid appearing as a needy pretender when I interact with girls. You might say that what you think about a girl and if you masturbate to her or not is done in your privacy and it won't show to her, but I believe in quite the contrary. If you think about the same girl constantly (day-dreaming about future plans like she's your one-it-is), and masturbate to her for weeks before asking her out, I'd be really surprised if you could manage to appear as a strong confident, independant man when you'll finally make a move on her.

If a woman like below was to work at my office, I wouldn't be intimidated by her (arrogant I know, but I already have the label). To me, by following my strategy, she would just be a woman among many that I fantasize about, and I wouldn't feel at her mercy or fear rejection in any way. I could even give her hints of sexual desires without feeling any awkward, as these desires wouldn't be linked to secretly masturbating to her and craving her badly ; I would just desire her casually, which is generally a whole lot more appealing to women. Interacting with her wouldn't necessarily bring up sexual desires either, which would probably be the case of someone who masturbated to her many times before (Classical conditioning). That way, she could also see that when I approach her I don't only have sex in mind, which is also quite a lot more appealing to hot women (or any woman for that matter).

I'd go as far as to say that if you can manage a 'not impressed' attitude with such a bombshell while still showing her interest and desires, that would be a bigger turn-on to her than any compliment she could receive, or any other move you could make. Girls like this get approached by dozens of needy jerks who masturbate to them. If you can approach such a woman without appearing needy, you'd stand out in way that would be quite impressive and intriguing to her.

I truly wonder what she would represent to you guys if you masturbated constantly to her and only her, and what your approach would look like.



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I only masturbate to my enemies.


Some fapping material for you. Thank me later.


This officially my last post. I only felt the need to justify further the thread that I created.
Tom1955
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Absolutely! If I see someone that gets my attention, of course I do! I'm not hurting anyone and on the other hand I'm very happy to masturbate to them!
Tom1955
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Absolutely! If I see someone that gets my attention, of course I do! I'm not hurting anyone and on the other hand I'm very happy to masturbate to them!