So my girlfriend recently told me she wants me to have foreplay and sex with another guy in front of her. She says she wouldn't judge it is just one thing she wants to see because she finds it sexy! And after we can have a threesome, and that she would also do it with a girl. What is yalls take on this? Do woman find this sexy? if so why?
I don't think there is such a thing as "every woman's fantasy," we are all individual's with different ideas.
If you are interested in it go for it. Either way, try to find a way that you can both enjoy your selves.
Maybe it turns her on to see you in a sexually submissive position. Or it might be the taboo nature of it - having sex with a guy in front of your girlfriend. Or maybe she just has a fantasy of a MMF threesome. It's hard to say exactly - you can always ask her about it.
If you're bi or bi-curious and feel like it's something you want to do - why not? If you're not sure, I'd start maybe playing with the idea of the fantasy with dirty talk during sex - saying what you'd do to the guy or how much you'd love for her to watch you doing this or that. You can also encourage her to tell you the things she wants to see you doing, while maybe you're going down on her etc. If she's turned on, she'll probably be more vocal about what exactly she wants to see and why.
I would start with something like that - spinning the fantasy first - if you're not sure you want to go through with it. Sometimes it's enough to up the kink factor that way, by integrating the fantasy of it into your own sex life.
Thank you! Have you ever experienced it?
very sexy! its the same thing as guys thinking girl on girl is super hot. i told my bf we could have a ffm three-way if we had a mmf three-way first with some guy on guy action. still don't have an answer haha
Sounds reasonable to me...... after all, you would want it girl-on-girl.. repay the compliment I say!
If it works for your relationship, by all means, go for it.
I, however, am a selfish person. I do not share.
If YOU think you want to do it or think you'd enjoy it, go for it. There's nothing wrong with exploring your sexual desires and urges. You say the thought excites you, if so, go for it. But if you aren't into it, have no interest, have no desire to be with a man.. don't do it. There's no such thing as tit-for-tat when it comes to your (or her) personal boundaries.
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