Reading forums here on this subject I see mostly you have all answered its visual that excites you. may I ask what the other attributes are?
What do you enjoy about the feel within her mouth. being hot from natural warmth or cold from something held recently in her mouth (ice cube/cold drink)
How does the sucking effect you (can this be too much? or never enough?
only holding the head of the penis jn the mouth and using hands is this still exciting or is it less arousing?
Licking the penis shaft? do you enjoy the sensation of her following the ridges to the base?
How does it feel for her to hold the ball sack within her mouth? can this be too sensitive/erotic? or does nothing for you?
feeling her moans as she takes you in. the vibrations against you, how does it feel
and of course the deep throat (is this an overwhelming tightness?)
i Thank you in advance for any responses on these questions
I don't remember ever having been "iced down", but the idea certainly as intriguing merits. But being held in a warm mouth is wonderful sensation ... and it can just be the end too. Doesn't have to be "all" for me. A light tonguing/suckling is exquisite!.
The sucking/tonguing can bring me to the "O" point rather quickly when fully aroused at the start...or it can help get me fully aroused if starting off "soft". "Too much" and you are gonna get in your mouth instead of elsewhere....!!
As long as the head of te penis is inside your partner's mouth...well..THAT is arousing and a hand slowly stroking shaft is like an extra little bonus. Not really needed, but surely appreciated and never turned down.
Licking, tonguing from ridge to base...WOW its ALL nice.
Ball sack in her mouth...very carefuly and gentle please!! I find it erotic, but would never "ask" for it.
Never really experienced a "moaner" in real life, but I'm sure it would be a wonderful feeling. Some folk are more "oral" than others. (Bad pun, I know)
Never really been "deep throated" per se. Have "O"'d a few times when being sucked off and that was always nice...sometimes a surprise to both of us, but never really unpleasant for either.
First YES the visual IS big thing for me ...with a beauty. BUT, there are "No hands" clubs in Thailand where you pay a cover charge to sit at a table watching porn and having a drink while a girl under the table THAT YOU CANNOT TOUCH; gives you a BJ! So, it's not ESSENTIAL.
Too much suction? YES! I have told one gal to back off with it as it felt like she was going to suck the head completely OFF and that hurts! AND I am NOT into PAIN!
I PREFER the heat of her mouth, but that's just me, some guys DO like the ice thing I'm just not "into" it. that wet warmth engulfing the head as nature intended top AND bottom is what works for me!
A hand job in conjunction with her licking and sucking on the head and corona is GREAT (AKA "Knob job"). Some think of it as "cheating" fine,. I LOVE IT and it makes it LESS work for her AND has her focusing on the part of my dick that gives me the most pleasure the frenum (the part of the corona forming the "v" in the front.)
Licking the shaft? NOPE a waste of time for me, the head and corona are the MOST sensitive parts and the shaft runs a VERY poor third (think of a guy licking YOUR outer lips. Is THAT where you WANT him to spend his time?
IF she's GOING to take my nuts in her mouth the key word is GENTLY! (Actually I PREFER for her to go UNDER them and lick the area just above the prostate! (That will get my dick jumping and twitching EVERY TIME! Also GENTLY cradle them while you suck me off and maybe use your finger tips to reach lower and rub my special spot! Ejola!)
Moaning? I LOVE IT! It's OUR better version of your vibrator insertion!
Deep throat? SOME guys are into it but as I said above give me a knob job every time I don't NEED to gag a woman let's BOTH enjoy it ...FULLY!
Just MY personal feelings on it, others WILL feel differently as the saying goes 'Different strokes!" (pun intended! LOL) I hope this helps with your research.
Watching a woman suck my dick and feeling every sensation can not be compared. But I will say every woman has her own style, I think that is really more important than any one thing I like her to do.
The needs to be attentive and enjoying otherwise what's the point.
The mood of the moment will dictate the rest.
Do you personal require/prefer a mental connection?
Thank you all for your responses and thanks to those who replied by email. Writing from a male's point of view for the first time is rather challengeing but all have given me much food for thought. So thank you again.
