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I have always wondered what an erection feels like. It looks uncomfortable to me, but the boys just love it. What does it feel like to lose physical control of your organ when you are aroused, and what does a male orgasm feel like?
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I have always wondered what an erection feels like. If your nipples become erect we you're aroused then the sensation is a bit like that, but nipples have smaller mass so are less affected by gravity.

It looks uncomfortable to me, but the boys just love it. Obviously if an erection is constrained by tight underwear or other means then it can be more than uncomfortable. If you're ever with a man who's aroused and he starts trying, surreptitiously or openly, to rearrange himself in teh underpants area, then he's reacting to feeling uncomfortable.

What does it feel like to lose physical control of your organ when you are aroused, and what does a male orgasm feel like? What it feels like is very dependent on the circumstances and can range from severely embarrassing to absolutely marvellous. And generally a male orgasm that isn't premature, is the culmination of a most wonderful experience.

Hope that helps........
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He put it pretty good..you do feel some stretch, really pain is not normal. But if you've broke it as I have, and have some scar tissue it can cause a bit of discomfort at times. If aroused when dressed you can always flip it up like toward your belly and it lays flat, but to push down you feet will come off the floor....lol
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I love having a rock hard on. Cant keep my hands off it. I love plying with my hard on and sometimes while standing in the bathroom ready to shower, I will tuck it under, between my legs, then let it pop back to the front. In the shower I might squirt some cream rinse in my palm and boy oh boy, feels great pumping it.

When I get close to climax, my legs start to feel weak and wobble. Tough to explain what having a hard on is like, just as hard to explain having a wet pussy.
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To answer your questions in order and in my own opinion...

- To me an erection feels kinda funny, like a weight between your legs

- It feels somewhat strange to lose control of it because you can control it most of the time and it's odd when you do lose control (they don't say the penis has a mind of it's own for nothing!)

- Male orgasms are interesting. I know they don't last as long as womens (I'm led to believe that Mens last 6 seconds whereas womens last around 20 seconds) but it depends on the intensity, sometimes i can have some that are very meh whereas other times i can have some that make your knees shake
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It feels like having an extra appendage, extra weight between your legs. I don't generally find it uncomfortable unless it's in an awkward position, but have popped the odd boner that was very hard and almost painful. I love touching my erection, not just because it ultimately leads to orgasm but because it's a bit more sensitive when hard and the feeling of running my fingers over the shaft is ... arousing. A tongue works well, too, but that has to wait until I have a partner to share with. Flexible, I am not.

As for the "big O", I feel it as an intense pressure building down there, then a explosive outpouring as I cum. A good, solid one will shake my body, less powerful ones just feel like a wave of contracting and relaxing running through me.
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I have always wondered what an erection feels like. It looks uncomfortable to me, but the boys just love it. What does it feel like to lose physical control of your organ when you are aroused, and what does a male orgasm feel like?

Jacquie......have you never felt an erection..?
Its just so normal...getting aroused, feeling yoursel get hard, similar to girls getting moist.
The Orgasm is just one big release. Lots of Baby Gravy spilling out of the end of our cock
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I overlooked one other feature of having an erection, that applies to men who who have a foreskin.

For these men an erection is likely to uncover the head of the penis and this exposes a much more sensitive set of nerve endings to whatever might make contact with the head.

To get some idea of the difference in sensation try this....

Press your tongue against the inside of your cheek and then rub your finger over the outside of your cheek - remember the feeling you get in your tongue.

Now stick your tongue out and rub your finger over the part of the tongue that felt your finger through your cheek.

That's about like the difference in sensitivity.

Incidentally, it's probably best not to try this in the office as colleagues may well ask what your doing
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I have always wondered what an erection feels like. It looks uncomfortable to me, but the boys just love it. What does it feel like to lose physical control of your organ when you are aroused, and what does a male orgasm feel like?


Interesting questions - not sure I've ever described it in writing at least - so let's give it a go smile

It's only uncomfortable if you are wearing something tight (an adjustment helps) or if you are in an awkward situation (like wearing a light suit and in a business meeting setting lol)

I'm definitely in the "grower" category (vs. a show-er) - meaning my true flacid state isn't that big but it grows (a show-er's flacid state is big but doesn't grow as much). Stating that as my insight is as a grower lol.

As it grows, I certainly feel it getting bigger. It feels different as it makes it way from somewhat semi to semi to almost fully hard to fully hard. When not constrained, it feels great - "it's alive" lol - and if walk around or move around, I feel it bounce or move a little. When fully aroused, I can feel it throb. There are types of hardness - steel hard level down to a tired hardon (lol) - and each type feels different. The steel hard ones - the base all the way up the shaft is so rigid. I've got rather smallish balls (lol) and when I'm fully aroused they get tight (almost like it's just one) - and I feel that too.

Not sure if this insight is providing much help lol... it's not as easy to describe as I first thought. Awhile back I put together a time lapse set of pics showing it go from fully flacid to fully hard - did it for an online girlfriend - it was pretty fun to make - not sure I still have it... lol

As for what an orgasm feels like - it'll vary in intensity depending on if I'm using an anal toy or if I am edging - but generally speaking it's an intoxicating feeling that starts with a trigger or tightening from deep inside base/prostate area - and as the cum starts to get pumped, I feel it shooting through the shaft as the orgasmic rush starts to roll - increasing in intensity with the first spurt - and rolling onward with the others. If I've been edging, I (almost) always get a double wave orgasm - after the initial rush (through the spurts) there is a slight reduction in intensity but still orgasmic - that goes on for a little bit and then I can feel the final spurt on its way as the intensity increases and crescendos as that final spurt comes out. That part is much shorter in duration but much higher in intensity (which is a main reason why I edge - for that 2nd part lol).

If I am using an anal toy - the orgasm is much much deeper - and longer - and stronger - more full body. I can feel it from my prostate (which I can feel being hard/firm from the stimulation). It truly is the male G-spot - which I've seen others describe to women when asked how to explain it.

Well... I guess this is a topic I like to blabber about lol - I hope it gave you some of the insight you were looking for :)
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*LAUGHS!*

I'm here FOUR YEARS, nobody EVER asked that!!!

Cool Question...

PHYSICALLY, a hard-on is both pleasing AND uncomfortable... (It's NICE to have a hard cock, in that it feels nice BUT the sensation demands a result... A release, indeed... It's not going to go away on its own...) You CAN take care of it yourself, which can take just minutes... If you are WITH someone else then you need to make sure that it does what it needs to do for HER (or him!) before you let it do what you need...

The sensation of male orgasm... Wow!

Never been asked to describe that!

Let me put it this way... In THE MOMENT that you come, there is no other moment... All your world is in that few seconds... You LITERALLY almost die in that moment of release... It's very powerful...

It makes a difference depending on the girl, the situation, (loving her is better) your own state at the time... But it's pretty much always beyond good...

(I was a Heroin addict for a time and people say that it's better than sex. It IS if you don't give a shit about anybody but yourself... Coming for someone is different and better... Notice I say coming FOR someone... Because that's what it IS, you come FOR someone... Like, without THEM you couldn't do it... It's very powerful and beautiful...)

To Clarify... We CAN make ourselves cum in about 30 seconds if we are alone and we really NEED to... (And sometimes we do...) But it isn't the same...

The best male orgasms happen when afterwards you hold her and are almost embarrassed by the power of it!!! (Like, WHAT DID I JUST DO???)

The best girls wink at you and say, "Don't worry about it, I LOVED it!!!"

And THEN they generally indicate that they want you to do it again... And sometimes we can... (Given a few minutes!)

xx SF
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I have always wondered what an erection feels like. It looks uncomfortable to me, but the boys just love it. What does it feel like to lose physical control of your organ when you are aroused, and what does a male orgasm feel like?


So Jacquie, have we answered your questions? Or are more descriptions needed?
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I have always wondered what an erection feels like. It looks uncomfortable to me, but the boys just love it. What does it feel like to lose physical control of your organ when you are aroused, and what does a male orgasm feel like?


It feels absolutely great - as if every atom of energy is concentrated within six or so inches and you can amplify the thrill in so many different ways. But an erection that goes on for hours without some form of release can end up feeling like a punch in the guts and, apparently, it can be damaging to the very delicate tissues. For me, orgasms can range across a wide range of sensations depending on wether I'm making love or masturbating. The differences are shaped by wether I'm timing myself to cum with a lover, wether I'm prone, standing, kneeling or sitting - each position creates different muscular tensions and each has its own set of sensations on release. A lot of shouting and bellowing goes on whatever the circumstances - it's the most intense catharsis I know of, totally addictive and quite beyond my ability to express it in wordssmile
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Erection: You feel a throbbing, tingling, extremely pleasurable sensation (somewhat electrical) throughout your entire pecker, also into your scrotum which is also swollen.

Orgasm: Like a rocket from Cape Canaveral just shot out through your nuts and exploded out of your cock. A super magnification of the throbbing, tingling feeling suddenly slams through you. A really awesome orgasm will make you think it convulsed and exploded so hard that you tore some inner tubing lose and you have to check and make sure everything is still intact afterward.
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Orgasmic Ecstasy...Best Rush Ever!!
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A chicken feels like a chicken...gee whiz
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The last thing on my mind is analysing it. My thoughts are elsewhere.
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Erection: You feel a throbbing, tingling, extremely pleasurable sensation (somewhat electrical) throughout your entire pecker, also into your scrotum which is also swollen.

Orgasm: Like a rocket from Cape Canaveral just shot out through your nuts and exploded out of your cock. A super magnification of the throbbing, tingling feeling suddenly slams through you. A really awesome orgasm will make you think it convulsed and exploded so hard that you tore some inner tubing lose and you have to check and make sure everything is still intact afterward.


I LIKE THIS!!!!

xx SF
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The last thing on my mind is analysing it. My thoughts are elsewhere.


Very true :-)
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Depends. For me, it's slightly uncomfortable when it's at its hardest.
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Ok so this is what I told a female friend once a long time ago. Woman don't understand the positive physical reminder of the male erection. If you want to understand what guys go through on a daily basis then do this. Find a cucumber or pickle that is relatively the same size as you partner and place it on the front of your panties for a day. You can't take it out but you can adjust it. If you are not aroused by the end of the day then please have your pulse checeked.
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Ok so this is what I told a female friend once a long time ago. Woman don't understand the positive physical reminder of the male erection. If you want to understand what guys go through on a daily basis then do this. Find a cucumber or pickle that is relatively the same size as you partner and place it on the front of your panties for a day. You can't take it out but you can adjust it. If you are not aroused by the end of the day then please have your pulse checeked.


I love this answer but found it extremely uncomfortable!

I'm surprised this question had never been asked before. I have been fascinated about what a man feels when he's aroused forever and ever.
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Hmmm. Tricky question. What does a erection feel like. It really depends. When your a teen and you have a perpetual hard on, it can be embarrassing. It was like it had a mind of its own. I remember sitting in school and the bell went off. I couldn't stand up out of my desk because my cock was rock hard. Just looking at the full breasted French Teacher had me worked up. I would have to put my books in front of me.

Then there is the morning woody. You gotta pee like a race horse and you cock is pointing straight up. It won't bend no matter what. So I got into the habit of taking a shower immediately after waking. Ahhh nothing like peeing into that warm spray. No mess at the toilet. Problem solved.

I only had one sore erection. My GF was riding me and going crazy. It slipped out and it bent on the down stroke. OMG that hurt. Broken dick.

During intercourse it feels unbelievable. I am sure God made it feel that good for the procreation of the species. But nevertheless, nothing feels as good as my cock sliding into a hot wet vagina. It feels like you can't stop. The pleasure builds and my member swells like it wants to burst. Like a giant snow ball rolling down a steep hill it becomes runaway pleasure. When her vaginal walls constrict around my pumping shaft, it is like she is drawing you in deeper. A wave of of pleasure almost like a shiver flows over me. I feel my climax building. Faster, harder, and then this paralyzing pulsating feeling as you erupt in a glorious final crescendo.

Masturbation is nothing like the real thing. But it is still necessary for men for sexual health. But pornography can be addictive and actually rob couples of the most wonderful shared experience on the planet. That wasn't part of the question. I digress.
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I've had a few occasions where it was boarder line painful when it was really hard, I'm sure if it was buried in side something at the time it'd have felt great though ;p
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Think of it as a chihuahua. When you want it its there. When you don't want it its there's. And its emberassing to be seen with in public.
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