im falling for someone and he dont know it and i want to tell him but i dont know if i should and the bad thing is he lives in another state and i dont know if we would be able to do the relationship. help me out here please
Sounds like it's too complicated for you, I'd say let it go.
Not that I am any kind of expert, but I think you might have answered your own question. If the relationship is too hard to do because of distance then it might not be satisfying. It is also true that anything worth doing often requires effort and sacrifice, and in the end it might be worthwhile, so I would never say it has no chance to succeed. I fear that, if things do not or cannot work, you may be disappointed with a heavy investment you have put in to a relationship that does not work in the end. Best wishes to you, regardless of what you chose to do.
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)
I am more of a bold and go for it type,now. Not so much when I was younger. I would say just tell him. If he feels the same, you guys can figure it out from there. If not he will be flatterd. Never know unless you try, then you wont be wondering 10 yrs from now "what if?"
This is why I invented flirting. (ohh... I didn't?) Well, I hold the copyright anyway. So I'll be happy to license you the right to flirt with him! (...for a small fee!)
