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Always a Lesbian or did you first have men in your life first?

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I think you accidentally used white as your font color - I can't read a single word of it. Also, not sure what this has to do with bdsm at all.

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Always been a les,might like being with a guy ,pretty curious
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lesbian for the pass 30 yrs.
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I am bi now men did not work for me until after a woman
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I had my first experience with a woman four years ago. I never realized such love could be so divine. I still enjoy sex with men, but I prefer women
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Always been straight or did you first have men in your life?
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A man first then I wised up
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My wife explained with her, she was always open to both sexes. She had a couple of boyfriends early on. She once did a sleepover with a girl she was friends with. Everything played out as just friends until bedtime. Her friend simply smiled and took her hand and they began a serious conversation while holding hands. My wife wasn't at all nervous as she had been wanting to experiment this sex for a time. Then the first kiss and it all just happened. Over the next 4 or 5 years, she lived a lesbian life, never really worried or missing sex with a man. When I met her, she was living with a dominate "butch." She was looking to get out of that relationship as Butch was being very disrespectful. Butch had a family emergency and had to go back home, where she had grown up, about a 2 hour drive away. I went to a bar and met my wife on a Friday night. We slept together over the weekend and the sex was amazing for both of us. She told me straight up about Butch and that moving in with me would probably cause a fight. It did, but she moved in with me and eventually after we married, she was able to have sexual contact with women and still be my wife and perform her duties with me. Over the first 10 years we were married, she would have quite a few women. It led to quite a few 3somes and eventually we became swingers and even got into a sex club that would hold a monthly "party" in a very large, private home on a large estate with a gated entrance.
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Always been a Lesbian.Never have been with a guy and don't plan on being with one
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Always been straight or did you first have men in your life?


You just made me snort!

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Look the way this world is, if your are gay you almost always start out wanting to be straight because that's what society says you must be. So most gay people, myself included, male or female, will actively date and have sex with the opposite sex. And then we realize our needs are different. But for many, it's a process.
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Pretty much what Donna said. I dated men, thought I might be bi and then found my true identity. Life is a journey.


Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.

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I, too, tried to like men for many years, but they just don't make me feel anything (emotionally or otherwise) the way women do.

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I forget which comedienne said it, but she introduced me to the term "gold star lesbian," which means that she has never been with a man.


That's a term that some don't like, it suggests there's some kind of purity scale and finding your identity later in life means you're somehow a lesser member of the queer community.


Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.

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I have always been a lesbian. My first lesbian experience was when I was 18. I never had a man and I did not want one.

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Of course. I'm bi, so it wasn't difficult for me to date boys, and i married a man Gay was out, and it was much more okay for me than my parents generation, it's still expected that a girl will marry a man, which i did. You are socialized straight, and look to the opposite sex first. It's later that you discover there is more in this world than a cock