Well I'm curious about some stuff about female orgasms...I have given orgasms to women, even multiple orgasms that's not really the problem.
Ill try to explain it the simplest way I can hopefully that will give you a better understanding of how to make me understand how things work for you.
Well for me personally as a guy when I have an orgasm usually I pretty much ejaculate just after it. So the orgasm feels like contractions that feel good and then I ejaculate while thats happening or after it.
I understand some guys can have multiple orgasms too with practice. I myself have had them. The way multiple orgasms work in guys is we basically have to practice to get close to orgasm and just go over the edge or the orgasm without getting close to ejaculating. After 1 orgasm the guy kind of stops stimulation for a bit and then he can do the same again have another orgasm carefully without ejaculating. Then either we eventually lose control and ejaculate or just get tired and just ejaculate to finish.
The part I dont understand:
for me when I ejaculate that kind of feels like all my tension is released, I feel fully satisfied, It kind of feels like I dont need any more sex, I just lose interest in sex.
So whether I have multiple orgasms or whether I have 1 I always ejaculate at the end and thats what satisfies me and gets me to the end a place where I feel like im done iv had enough.
What I dont understand about women:
As far as I know about women who have multiple orgasms is that they can have 1 orgasm then start going again and have another and another.
Do women ever reach a place that is similar to us ejaculating? Do you ever reach an ending like us that just feels like your satisfied and had enough.
Because here is what I thought:
If you can always have more orgasms, what makes you stop at 2 or 3 etc?
If you can just go on and have more and you didnt really reach any place that felt like an ending, don't you just crave more and more?
An example: Suppose you never ever felt full and someone put the most delicious sweets etc in front of you wouldn't you just keep eating them because you never felt full. How would you stop eating those after eating 2 or 3 when you could eat the whole bowl and never feel full.
A bad example but hopefully you know what I mean in terms of female orgasms or do women have a place similar to guys that once you reach it your fully satisfied and dont want sex.
If women do have a thing similar to guys where you feel like its enough how do you get to that place? how many orgasms does it take to get you there? How can I be sure when I am with a woman I am getting her to that place and i am not just leaving her when shes really craving for more? Is there anyway a guy can understand this.
It would be great if any of you ladies could help me understand. Please be as detailed as you can I really appreciate your help.
I can't speak for all women, but for me, the first one is kind of a tease. It will often be small, and over quickly. Sort of like eating one bite of a really good dessert. You just have to have more.
The second and third are usually pretty good. They don't last much longer, but they are more intense, but thats kind of a warm up for me.
Everything's good and I need a bit of a break because my tender bits are super super sensitive. After a minute or two, I can go again and again after that, because it doesn't get too sensitive anymore. I need more stimulation. It's like something in me wakes up and I turn into this wild thing that can't get enough, like an addict. I have never reached an orgasm limit. The longest I went was six hours of continuous rolling orgasms, about one every minute or so...I only stopped because he begged me to let him sleep. I wore him out. Afterward, my muscles were so relaxed I couldn't even move. I could barely lift my head to drink water. I passed out and had the best night of sleep in my entire life. For sixteen hours. I was on a post orgasm high for about a week. It was great.
But normally, I after about ten or twelve, I stop because I don't want to break him.
For some women, after three or four, any touching is too much, and everything is too sensitive and just hurts.
For me, when I have 3 or 4 I'm good and satisfied...tired even. But, sometimes my loving husband likes to push me further and make me cum so much I lose count and every one drains me more and more...sometimes to the point where I am literally in tears by the time he finishes.
So we have the ability to cum multiple times...but it all depends on what you can handle and how far you are willing to go.
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I think every gal might give a different answer. Sometimes one is all I have and all I need. Other times, it seems to go on and go on and go on... and then I am totally wasted! After a few I am usually pretty sensitive and my clit can't take any more. That's a good time to divert into something that doesn't involve clitoral stimulation... like just plain fucking or me doing oral, or switching to anal if he hasn't cum yet.
For me a multiple is not uncommon. My girlfriend and I frequently oral one another and multiples are one thing we both understand and enjoy...occasionally. Not every time. We can and do enjoy an occasional multiple which is probably the epitome of cumming.
For extreme multiple experiences a Sybian can and does provide the sensation of a lifetime. I have reached a stage where I multipled for so long I almost passed out, lost control, and pissed myself. I had no idea of the number of times I had an orgasm or prolonged one on that occasion. I could hardly walk for ten/ fifteen minutes after I recovered.
Do they work for us....when the time is right....definitely.
normally there is 1 earth moving orgasm....clitoral with a skilled tongue....then ultra sensitive....then Im ready for a good long ride....enjoy the work-out
This is an interesting question - what is 'satisfaction' I think is what this really comes down to, at least for me.
For a sex addict like me - always needing it / craving it in some fashion - I can still find satisfaction and that usually comes from being psychologically satisfied.
Mainly, orgasms around the clock, if they're just physical, aren't what my body's overall craving most of the time. I need skin on skin contact, feeling connected, being complete. I need eye contact and soft touches - all of that.
I can easily have sex - get off several times - but if I don't have enough emotional or physical connection on that deeper level, I'm going to be unable to just walk away easily. I might as well just be masturbating [something I do frequently every day].
Orgasms are great - but they're inferior compared to these other elements. For this reason I could never tolerate being single - not even for a second - and I've made a lot of bad decisions in my life in order to avoid singleness.
So after reading the above answers think about what you said in your question, basically it was one and I am done. Hopefully that does not mean you are finished giving your woman pleasure because, although I am sure there are some women who are finished after one orgasm, many of us can go on and on and we want to go on and on. If you are ready to go to sleep or get up for work or whatever when you are "done" I feel sorry for your partner. The simple answer is that men and women are different in their sexual response and it is each one's responsibility to make sure the other is totally satisfied before they are "done". I don't mean this to be harsh but you asked so I am just trying to tell you. Baring time or location issues, make sure your woman is totally fulfilled before you hit the off switch.
When I have multiple orgasms the first one is small, kind of a tease. Then there will be a series of orgasms, each (anywhere from 5 to 8) increasing in intensity and length. Finally it culminates in a long incredibly intense orgasm. Usually I will thrash around and get loud and most times I will squirt ( not a porn vid like geyser but more a gush). Most times I need a few minutes to recover, one time I even blacked out for a few seconds.
I don't always have multiples. I have never had them just from penetration with a guy. They are most frequent when with a woman and she is licking my clit and using a toy on my G-spot. Having anal beads in my ass at the same time also is a good trigger for me!
