The wife and I have been married for 18 years. Are sex life is great. I'm always trying to spice things up in the bed room. So I asked her if she had any fantasize and she said that she doesn't. So my question is do women really fantasize about sex and is it possible that my wife doesn't have any sexual fantasy
I know I have fantasies and all my friends in college did too. I quit telling them mine when they started trying to make them come true. She might not tell you because she thinks you might try that. If she told you she fantasized about being tied up and blindfolded then someone else coming in and fucking her would you make it happen? Just because it's a fantasy doesn't mean you really want it to happen.
Take it from an old hypnotherapist, EVERY human being regardless of age has fantasies. As adult, MANY of those fantasies tend to be about sex. (Many also occur as dreams rather than in the normal waking state.) From the sounds of it, whatever hers may be she appears to think that you might be shocked and revolted by hers and could decide to leave her or at the least lose both love and respect for her If she were to reveal them to you. The only way around that obstacle is to lay the ground work of building her trust in you and in your open mindedness as well as your love for her. Then, continue to reinforce it and...wait.
Oh and for all those of you who say that you hope to live out your fantasys. BE VERY CAREFUL about that. Sometimes it's dangerous, many times it's disappointing and the worst part is that even if you do all that happens is that it loses it's power to turn you on and a new fantasy takes it's place.W9Y61YqkJVukBQQ4
I can talk only for myself. And yes, I do.
In spite of my gender I would say not only do I hope so but can affirm with great gusto I know so.
Yes and you know sex fantasies have no limits, no boundaries.... You get shocked when you come to know about those ideas ;)
I do have fantasties, but I don't think I'd tell my husband about them
I definitely do. I suspect everybidy does. Some are really kinky. I don't share everything. Maybe she doesn't want to share them either.
I definitely do ,she may not want to share them.I hope my fantasies become reality
I certainly do! Especially while I'm masturbating... the more taboo the fantasy, the harder I cum, usually!
My husband and I compare notes. His are quite involved and complex. Mine are pretty simple. He's thinking of orgies and all sorts of things like that. I am thinking of intimate sex on a beach or fireside.
Yes women do fantasize about sex and their fantasies are vile, obscene, lewd, explicit and highly lustful. More lascivious than you can imagine !
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
I think it depends on the person regardless of the gender...Some women, including me, do fantasize a lot and in most cases we try to make our fantazies real (at least I do). Other people just have basic needs in sex and they feel perfectly ok without any fantazies, extraordinary or adventurous liasions etc. The problem arises when one of the partners is more demanding in his/her needs and the other one can't respond to those needs (including acting out fantazies etc.) ....
Not all women feel comfortable to share their fantasies with their husbands or friends. It's easier to share in Lush or other site without being recognized.
Oh yes, more often than I should perhaps.
Then I can always take things into my own hands and let the sensations add pleasure to the thoughts.
Yes...I have all kinds of sexual fantasies.
I keep them mostly to myself.
I do like to write about some that I do have.
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If my wife told me that she had a fantasy of being tied up and taken by stranger I think I would go buy a new toy and blindfold. Then tie her and blindfold her to the bed and use the new toy on her.
Oh yes....oh yes....oh....oh....yes...yes...........and often.....lol
I have fantasies all the time!!! I am always thinking about sex and ways to fuck and get fucked
Oh fuck yes! I've shagged Bradley Cooper practically every night for months 
