For some women, I would imagine it could be a power trip by having such control over that man's center of pleasure. As a man, I'd do almost anything if my partner asked while controlling how and when I would be able to release. Just curious....
"Being male is a matter of birth.
Being a man is a matter of age.
Being a gentleman is a matter of choice."
I don't really think about it as having power over him. My main concern is making sure he's happy. I get pleasure from his pleasure and from the knowledge that I'm the one making him horny as hell. But I wouldn't consider it a power trip.
I have never thought of it that way. Nope.
No, definitely a pleasure rather than a power trip
Sisters, It is good you think of giving the guys pleasure.
But at the same time you have considerable power at the moment. If you have his penis in your mouth you probably have almost absolute power over him.
That is just the way the male being was constructed.
Oh, I definitely enjoy the power. Its part of the turn on for me
I'm pretty submissive, so I have never thought of it as having power. I just like having fun!
There is a small degree of power in it, as posted above. That adds to the fun of course, but it isn't foremost in my mind.
There's also these other thoughts in my head: 'Is this just foreplay leading to full sex? Will he return the favour? Will my arm ache like last time? I'll add some mouth that'll get him off quicker. Can I make him orgasm before the kids get up.
No, I feel his power through his cock, same as I do when I have one in my mouth
power over him? no, but i do love knowing that i'm giving him pleasure.
The power I have isn't over him, but over his pleasure. And as a matter of power, his intense desire for the pleasure I can give him is more a weakness than my hand or mouth is a power. And I'd never exploit that weakness.
I don't think of it being a power trip versus pleasure. I'll be the first to admit that I most likely "suck" at hand jobs. I guess that's why I typically use a combination of my hands and mouth. Personally, I think it becomes more of a sense of power when he's not expecting to cum in my throat and I'm enjoying it too much to let it go. Always watching the eyes...
I think if there is any power imbalance, it's his over me. When he gets thick and hard and throbbing, I get so wet and want him in me.
Actually I feel HIS power in my hand.
Very impressive, ladies! Thank you!
"Being male is a matter of birth.
Being a man is a matter of age.
Being a gentleman is a matter of choice."
power ??? no its a thing of beauty, pleasure, fun and excitement and usually i know soon it will be inside me mmm xxx jelly xxxx
