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What are things that you don't like that a woman does during anything sexual?
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Gee - if we having any type of sex I can't think of anything bad!!!
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Gee - if we having any type of sex I can't think of anything bad!!!
Uh, while I will agree that there is no such thing as bad nookie... As the guy above me stated falling asleep, or on the other extreme boring the living Hell outta me by chattering like some crazed squirrel about all manner of nonsense THAT will wilt my boner in a hurry!
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Queefers during oral sex usually cause me to pause for a moment.....haha......but then it's back to work!
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Telling me what to do. And I don't mean informing me about what she likes or doesn't like, but plainly commanding every of my move and making me feel like some kind of idiotic sexual-servant. Also exaggerating every of her reactions. Major turn-off.
And the complete opposite also holds true: not knowing what she wants and being barely responsive to what I'm performing, or not letting herself go in general.
These are pretty much my only major complaints during sex: being too much or too little assertive. And yes, I've encountered both types.
And of course, bad hygiene is also a big turn-off. Aside from that, I'm usually rather tolerant. Even still, it doesn't mean that we'll both be 100% sexually compatible, but then I won't consider it to be a proper fault on either of our parts.
And the complete opposite also holds true: not knowing what she wants and being barely responsive to what I'm performing, or not letting herself go in general.
These are pretty much my only major complaints during sex: being too much or too little assertive. And yes, I've encountered both types.
And of course, bad hygiene is also a big turn-off. Aside from that, I'm usually rather tolerant. Even still, it doesn't mean that we'll both be 100% sexually compatible, but then I won't consider it to be a proper fault on either of our parts.
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Things I don't like during sex:
"Is it in yet?"
"Aren't you done yet?"
"Is that all there is?"
Other than that, I haven't had any negative reactions to anything done or said to me.
"Is it in yet?"
"Aren't you done yet?"
"Is that all there is?"
Other than that, I haven't had any negative reactions to anything done or said to me.
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Making me feel like she isn't really in to it.
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Giggling is a big turn off.
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Talking about money, feminism, or the general issues of the day. I'm like, shut up with that right now.
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I hate when she complains about her husband.
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Stopping in the middle of sex for whatever reason.
- it's too long
- it hurts
- too sick to continue
- just not into it
- need to use the bathroom then doing something after
- said something she didn't like
- laughing too much
- answering a phone call and it's family memeber.
- falling asleep
- etc.
Out of all other thing is alright as long as I could finish. I had few partners that would do one of those often.
- it's too long
- it hurts
- too sick to continue
- just not into it
- need to use the bathroom then doing something after
- said something she didn't like
- laughing too much
- answering a phone call and it's family memeber.
- falling asleep
- etc.
Out of all other thing is alright as long as I could finish. I had few partners that would do one of those often.
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I think I get the hang of it. The general issues.
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I think I get the hang of it. The general issues.
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I think I get the hang of it. The general issues.
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If she doesn't tell me why she isn't having a good time.
Pretending to have a good time when she isn't.
Honesty and communication are big things for me because a lack of either lead to me suspecting she isn't enjoying it which kills it for me.
Pretending to have a good time when she isn't.
Honesty and communication are big things for me because a lack of either lead to me suspecting she isn't enjoying it which kills it for me.
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going unresponsive, falling asleep, asking me to hurry up
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Calling her mother about groceries
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"Honey, did you remember to take the garbage out?"
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skipping foreplay
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the absolute worst is stopping in the middle. so insensitive
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It annoys me when the lovely lady becomes imaginary and then I realise I'm home alone :P
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exaggerated moaning when im barely doing anythng. this one older woman started gasping for air before i even put it in and was getting more high pitched by the minute. it felt kinda fake and put me off cos i didnt know if she genuinely enjoed me
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When I've had a new partner:
Asking me if I'm enjoying myself constantly, and/or, constant apologies. Now, I can be a quiet guy when I'm first learning what a woman likes, so I get the need for the questions. I may be a hard read at first, but once it's a well oiled machine, if the reassurance persists, it's a mood killer.
One time, a woman I was dating went stiff and emotionless during our first intimate experience. She felt really tight, so maybe my manhood was too thick for her(had me feeling like I was hung like a horse, lmao)? Or maybe that was how she got down, lol, but it just DIDN'T work for me. The only time I ever had to fake an orgasm. So, there's that, lol.
With someone I've been dating/relationship with:
Self-consciousness. Even when I had more weight on me, I just got into the moment. If they can't get into the moment, but want the sex then..????
That's all I can think of at the moment.
Asking me if I'm enjoying myself constantly, and/or, constant apologies. Now, I can be a quiet guy when I'm first learning what a woman likes, so I get the need for the questions. I may be a hard read at first, but once it's a well oiled machine, if the reassurance persists, it's a mood killer.
One time, a woman I was dating went stiff and emotionless during our first intimate experience. She felt really tight, so maybe my manhood was too thick for her(had me feeling like I was hung like a horse, lmao)? Or maybe that was how she got down, lol, but it just DIDN'T work for me. The only time I ever had to fake an orgasm. So, there's that, lol.
With someone I've been dating/relationship with:
Self-consciousness. Even when I had more weight on me, I just got into the moment. If they can't get into the moment, but want the sex then..????
That's all I can think of at the moment.
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After several minutes of active sex: "Is it in yet"? lmao
Not true, but if it brings you a smile or laughter then I did the right thing
After several minutes of active sex: "Is it in yet"? lmao
Not true, but if it brings you a smile or laughter then I did the right thing
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I hate having sex with a woman who doesn't fuck back. If I wanted a hole to fuck, I could do that myself in about 3 minutes. Get you body and hips into it. Gyrate and try getting my cock to rub on your clit. What I'm saying is move your ass and fuck me back. I call the women I've had sex with who just laid there, "Dead Fish". It's the worst.