I know most of men likes receiving blowjob but this past guy of mine did not require me to do so. I asked him why & he said he likes to pleasure me more than I do.
So is it true? Does a guy like that exist?
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Yes, they do. I'm one of them.
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Hey... pssst.... that's an l (as in luscious) at the end of my name, not an i A man could absolutely prefer to give oral than to receive it for a number of reasons or even a combination thereof.
1) When a woman cums it is just plain beautiful and sexy to watch. It would not be surprising if witnessing her orgasm gave him more pleasure than having his dick sucked, especially combined with the ego boost of knowing that he was the cause.
2) Men, after cumming once, need some time to recover if they are to go again. Sometimes this can take minutes and other times it can take hours. Women, on the other hand, can cum far quicker between orgasms. Instead of 'wasting' his one on a blowjob he may just want to save it for sex while giving you multiple.
3) She isn't very good or confident when it comes to sucking his dick. Either way, he's not enjoying it and instead of spoiling the moment by trying to 'fix' the issue, he is switching the focus to from him to her.
4) He may not be clean (showered and shaved) down there and is just self-conscious about his junk going into someone's mouth in that state.
5) He could be a submissive personality in the bedroom and doesn't enjoy the power-position of receiving oral anywhere near as much as giving it.
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It's certainly not a weird question. I think my assumption always is I want to perform oral on her - because I love doing it, love making sure she knows I truly enjoy it, it's just a fabulous way to " be with" a woman - more than she actually wants to perform oral on me. Of course I want BJ's but I have not encountered many women who were good at it and actually enjoyed it ( some, just not many).
I am bi. I enjoy performing oral on men. If I was with a woman who wanted to perform oral on me I'd be thrilled and completely amenable. I want it very much but I'm uncomfortable with the proposition that she thinks or might think I expect it or assume I'm "entitled" to it.
Thanks for the great inputs! Highly appreciated.
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I think he was lying...just kidding.
No, each to their own but I think sharing's caring ;-)
Hard to believe it. As much as I love to please a woman orally, all men love to receive it as well.
Maybe he is shy to get naked himself?
Yes they do, I love licking pussy and I don get my cock sucked in return
I do love receiving a blow job, but there is also equal enjoyment on licking/sucking a beautiful pussy!! There are times I want a blow job and there are times I just want to lick some pussy, for me it's about 50/50.......
Its been said .. there are people who like to give and receive ... there are people who are primarily givers or receivers .. I dont have a problem stating that I prefer to give and thats reflected on a day to day basis in my lifestyle/work and not just sex.
Know two men who were not fond of them..
Or not fond of me giving them
Didn't take it personally
Both I think didn't like to lose control in such a way
I enjoy them
But since they didn't
Well pleasure is not pleasure unless both are comfortable
Everyone is different and offers varying degrees of giving and taking. Personally I like it mostly 50-50. I love the balance.
Definitely 50-50. I prefer BJ's to be spontaneous. They are a bigger turn-on than to force my partner to go down on me.
Both are great, but I like giving.. Something about someone being putty in my hands is hot
I'd rather her cum, 99.9% of the time, I cum, but if there's one thing I hate is than odd occasion when in the middle of it, she wants me to hurry up so it will be over. It's then I refocus on her, and most of the time, I ended up making her cum!
Simple- Not everyone has the same tastes . Some like their tea with milk some don't .
Well I can't speak for other men, but I love getting a blow job from my wife
The biggest turn on for me is my partner's satisfaction. There is nothing more sexy than seeing her lose herself in pleasure.
However, I do not refuse reciprocation, especially if it is voluntary and done with enthusiasm...
I completely agree with CANVYGR.