I enjoy hearing about peoples sex lives and that's why I like reading them on Lush. Do any of you guys enjoy hearing your partners past? Perhaps when they were in college? How have you gotten your partner to tell you their deep secrets? I have asked mine in the past but i know she was holding back because I think she was embarrassed to let me know the truth. I know she was wild in college. But it is a turn on for me
She may just feel that it's insensitive to talk about previous partners or exploits as this introduces comparison to previous lovers which can lead to jealousy, insecurity or inadequacy.
Doesn't it depend on the partner? I haven't told my partner everything about my sexual past because I think he doesn't want to know - he has asked me very little. I know everything about my partner's sexual past, as far as I'm aware, mainly because I asked him and I believe he has given honest answers.
I think men are more sensitive to their partners' sexual pasts than women. Would anyone agree. or disagree with me?
My partner and I know a lot of each others' past sexual experiences. Part of this is because I wanted to be open and not keep anything from her.
We've both related tales of great and awful past experiences to each other.
I don't think I want to know tbh, it's the past and should stay that way - what's important is the here and now :-)
Yes I liked to hear about my ex previous partners. Made me hot and not insecure at all. Most women don't want to hear about my past at all, most of them said it makes them insecure.
My husband and I haven't discussed any specifics from our sex lives with our previous spouses. All I know is he seems to know a whole lot more than I do (well did.... he is getting me "up to speed" in MANY areas!)
GoodlilGirl phrased this well, and not sure I could have said better.
